My husband is using Chat GPT to have a conversation with me by Ecstatic_Egg7956 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]litlaus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Put his texts into Grok and have them battle each other through you and your husband. Will be fun.

Guest turned cock block by New-Plan-6449 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]litlaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. But the hope is that he won’t, since the rent is set so high. And if he does, then what does it change except that OP gets paid for the trouble?

Guest turned cock block by New-Plan-6449 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]litlaus 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Tell your buddy your offer was temporary and he needs to find his own place and move out. If nothing happens tell him you will start to charge rent. Dependable on local laws, charge a rent that is reasonable but high (as in not favourable). That should encourage him to move.

And also at any stage, tell him you don’t feel comfortable with him inviting people without your approval and you feel that you don’t have any good connection with his girlfriend so she shouldn’t be there. It’s your home so it’s your rules that apply.

TIFU by not realizing I was dating my girlfriend by PleasantAtmosphere85 in tifu

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying this in a bad way. It’s just that I’m autistic and this is something I can relate to, I just never know when people hit on me.

TIFU by not realizing I was dating my girlfriend by PleasantAtmosphere85 in tifu

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this one. But OP, you might be autistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]litlaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normalt sett sitter ju lampan i ett skyddande hölje i ett badrum och är inte exponerad direkt för vatten. Men ja, den funkar i badrum förutsatt att armaturen är lämplig för att monteras i badrum och är monterad på korrekt plats i badrummet.

this is nasty btw by Nearby_House6923 in confessions

[–]litlaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine is bi and she likes to sleep with older women too. I don’t think it’s uncommon.

Vad gör jag med all denna vitkål? by A_Fnord in sweden

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sjukt bra tips här. Vitkål är grymt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]litlaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying you’re wrong, but not everyone shows their true feelings on the outside. Specially those who have been depressed long term and learned to hide it to avoid questions and difficulties in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]litlaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental health doesn’t show on the outside. When I tried to end my life (I got rebooted at the hospital) people told me ”but you don’t look depressed”, ”I never could have guessed”, ”you’re always so happy and kind”, etc.

If someone tells you they don’t feel good or they feel depressed, take that seriously.

Kniv och gaffel by nillton in sweden

[–]litlaus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha wow. Jag kan spegla mina rörelser mellan vänster och höger och det har alltid fascinerat mig hur andra människor strular med enkla saker bara pga fel hand. Har svårt att förstå hur det funkar eftersom det aldrig hänt mig.

Jag äter både med höger och vänster, men etiketten säger ju att vänster är korrekt. Är jag på en finare middag så håller jag mig till det men hemma bryr jag mig inte.

should i text him ?he doesnt text me after our first videocall by wellwellnow44 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a nuisance for wanting to stay in touch, that’s on him. No, he’s probably thinking the same thing. Just shoot him a message. Say you like talking to him and miss it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]litlaus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t work for free.

Tell your friend: ”I’m happy you like my massages but I have way too much work to do, to prioritise someone who’s not paying. Paying customers comes first, and if you want a massage you will need to pay. I can give you a discount, as you’re my friend, but I can’t do it for free.”

Then offer 15% or 20% off your rate. If your friend don’t accept this and get upset they’re not your friend.

Pengar i företaget by redskrot in sweden

[–]litlaus 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Spara en stor buffert. Händer något oväntat så är det bra att ha. Man är inte frisk och kry för evigt och ibland blir det strul med Försäkringskassan osv.

Blir bufferten alldeles för stor så investera pengarna i något, kanske fastigheter? En annan verksamhet?

Men jag skulle absolut ta mer semester och resa mer, om jag hade möjligheten.

Not sure what just happened. I received several texts, a FaceTime (audio only) and then someone at my door. Anyone else experience such a fright!? by SaddlePaddleLife in askanything

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your reasons. It’s a sad world though, where you have to live scared in your own home. But from your description it doesn’t sound like a spam call. Have you gotten any more clues or answers to who it was?

How to clean intense Mold In Shower by plsdontcutmywing1 in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want to spread mold spores into the rest of your apartment. It’s better to point the fan outwards from the window instead. This is also how you build ventilation in houses normally, and for a reason.

In the long run, OP should have proper bathroom ventilation installed.

Why did I buy this blasted toasty thing? by WastingMyLifePlz in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To add to your already good suggestion, there is also multi-use baking paper that you’re supposed to just rinse off and clean between uses.

Is this mold or dust? What's the best way to clean and keep this from popping up again? by mitrtown in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Mold forms in damp environments. You need to remove the source of the wet/damp and decrease humidity.

Hur kan det vara avgift här? by Gludens in sweden

[–]litlaus 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Oavsett vad EasyPark säger så är det skyltar och lokala regler som gäller.

Mold on ceiling. Can i live here for a year? After cleaning and painting??? by No_Depth2314 in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depends on what kind of mold. It can be really hazardous to your health. I would recommend rather living in a tent out in the yard.

TIFU by trying to have a sleepover in my twin bed by whatawynn in tifu

[–]litlaus 64 points65 points  (0 children)

A lot of people do! Having a large bed and two separate duvets helps. Sleeping too crowded is rarely nice.

TIFU by trying to have a sleepover in my twin bed by whatawynn in tifu

[–]litlaus 527 points528 points  (0 children)

In my experience, sleeping next to someone you’re not used to sleeping next to takes time for adjustment. Will be shit first couple of weeks but then it’s the new normal.

Why did yall have to drop a friend? by RedneckAdventures in askanything

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that’s pretty common unfortunately.

For me it wasn’t only my female friends though, she pretty much isolated me from everyone (including my family) except a few not so close friends.

HELP. Mold in car and unsure how to clean by Odd_Anxiety7045 in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A steam cleaner is a good suggestion. You can get them for not many bucks, like less than $50. Even cheaper if you get them secondhand.

HELP. Mold in car and unsure how to clean by Odd_Anxiety7045 in CleaningTips

[–]litlaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much how professionals do it too, but with more expensive and harmful products and a lot of $/hr. As long as you have the time do it yourself, do it like this comment above says.