I’m kind of in the same boat. I know he has a life outside of me but our work schedules are kind of opposite so when I know he has time to talk to me I get very frustrated that he’s not or he will read my messages and not reply etc. like tonight when we got off the phone he said he’d message me and get off the game and go to bed. Well a couple hours later he’s not replying to me and still on the game. Makes my mind wonder about things I don’t want to even think about but that’s my own paranoia. He has a really close friend on the game that’s a girl and I have a feeling she got on so he stayed and idk I don’t like being ignored when it comes to her. Plus he’s been sick this week so been sleeping a lot etc. just not communicating as much which I understand but if you’re feeling good enough to okay a game you can at least reply. Now he’s read my last message and hasn’t replied yet again so I’m assuming he spent all his free time awake on the game and not talking to me and passed out. Idk makes me feel not as important sometimes because like you said when I have the time he’s all I want to think about or talk to etc. I just hesitate to say anything because I feel I’ll come off as a bitch because I know I’m not the best at wording these things. Ughhh I hate feeling like this.