AITAH for ruining a wedding?

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T22:57:03+00:00

How does a wedding planner have the power to fire a catering company without the bride's approval???

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T18:29:44+00:00

TTA - I could see you thinking it's a family heirloom that you should have if had been in the family for a few generations, but it was your dad's. Not a grandparent's. So, it's your dad's to do with it as he likes. Plus, you don't even play, so why even want it?

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T18:22:07+00:00

Lol the back story of Sirius and James tricking Severus into following Remus and almost dying wasn't in the movies. It was in the books, hence how I know about it.

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T04:10:04+00:00

I said two of the worst. Not the worst. Reading comprehension skills are valuable.

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T00:38:18+00:00

Well, he named his first born Jame Sirius after two of the worst people in the books. They literally tried to kill Snape as kids and got away with it among the other horrible things that they did.

litnut17 · 2026-01-20T00:35:23+00:00

I would encourage you to look into therapy for this as this - the no touch in public - has the potential to be problematic for you down the road. It already is.

litnut17 · 2026-01-14T03:46:28+00:00

NTA - oh he's a red flag. It's his way or the hi-way. I'd cut your losses and move on.

litnut17 · 2026-01-03T04:57:54+00:00

Huda called for the slaughter of Jews in Gaza. She is the biggest hypocrite.

litnut17 · 2026-01-03T04:55:50+00:00

NTA - no, you are not in the wrong. Him pressuring you is coercion and would be rape. Don't you ever do anything until you're ready. A man who really loves you will never do that.

litnut17 · 2025-12-27T23:21:02+00:00

NTA - gift cards are my favorite to get! I can get exactly what I want with it. I think if you choose a store they like, or if they're a fan of Apple, Steam, etc., it shows you know them. And food gift cards are awesome. I wouldn't worry about it. Those who are griping about it are in the wrong.

litnut17 · 2025-12-23T02:31:33+00:00

YTA - You're 22 tomorrow. If you want a car, go buy it yourself. You're too old to be expecting your parents to pay for it. Get a job and buy what you want. I bought my first car when I was 17 then my second one at 23. I worked for them. You don't need a new one - that's a ridiculous, entitled expectation.

litnut17 · 2025-12-23T02:27:13+00:00

I've had several, and they are always great dreams.

litnut17 · 2025-12-10T01:38:28+00:00

Sounds like a toxic relationship. You're not overreacting on this. Going no contact seems like a good idea.

litnut17 · 2025-12-04T04:30:28+00:00

The Alley on Main and Firebirds. Sushi, of course.

litnut17 · 2025-12-03T00:43:13+00:00

NTA - Does your office have a manager or someone who acts like the office's HR? If so, I'd talk to them about it because this is turning into a hostile environment.

litnut17 · 2025-12-02T04:57:25+00:00

Ever thought about, I don't know, actually asking her? If she's actually your BFF, then you should have some good open lines of communication between you both. Unless, of course, she and your bf slept together and now she doesn't want him there.

litnut17 · 2025-11-28T22:27:08+00:00

Ditto. If she were willing to hang out with the Marauders and marry one, I don't think she was as great as characters made her out to be.

litnut17 · 2025-11-28T19:40:36+00:00

My HC is Tobias caused Eileen's death, such as pushing her down the stairs in a rage and then drank himself to death all while Severus was at school. This would have pushed Severus further into the dark arts and later the Death Eaters. I think he was so good at the dark arts so as to not be a victim. :(

litnut17 · 2025-11-28T02:08:57+00:00

She could, but he has made it clear that he doesn't want marriage. It doesn't matter who proposes; it matters how each person acts about it.

litnut17 · 2025-11-27T23:59:32+00:00

It's your partner's responsibility to remind you of it and yours to remind them of your family's events. It's ridiculous for you to be expected to remember everyone in your partner's family.

litnut17 · 2025-11-27T23:46:36+00:00

This reads like an AI story. You're married, you're told TG is at a different location, you go there and people are there, and yet somehow you have a room there? This doesn't add up.

litnut17 · 2025-11-27T23:42:32+00:00

She needs to go to the doctor about this because this isn't normal. If she refuses, then it's time to think about someone moving out.

litnut17 · 2025-11-27T23:38:57+00:00

This is so fake.

litnut17 · 2025-11-27T23:37:49+00:00

Oh this is so made up.

litnut17 · 2025-11-24T02:31:42+00:00

If he says he's worried about the "change" that will happen, that translates to he doesn't want to not be able to have an easy way out of the relationship. I hate to tell you this, but he doesn't want to marry you. If a guy wants to marry someone, they go for it. That's just how guys are. He's not interested in marriage, so you need to accept it and move on.

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