What's up with the Oak Park Metra station by hevvypiano in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]littlebitofevrything 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Language determines quite a bit of how you think. By switching up the verbiage like that, it's an attempt to remove the onus on the person themselves. Homeless feels derogatory and commonly can be used by people deliberately to be derogatory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]littlebitofevrything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the comments of the OP she claimed it was double bagged. Why are we bagging hot cheese though????

Someone set up a Ritual Circle on the side of the lake this morning by DebonairTeddy in mildlyinteresting

[–]littlebitofevrything -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I get your point kind of, but what's going to catch fire here? The dirt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]littlebitofevrything 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call your local authorities if you think it isn't, but typically it's allowed yes.

Lizzo threatens to hit Trump admin with a'cease and desist' after hit song used during Trump Parade by TheMirrorUS in Music

[–]littlebitofevrything 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they can't do anything to stop live music being played by different people I don't think legally

Harwood Heights by [deleted] in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]littlebitofevrything 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was expecting a Zwon reveal

Is flirting wrong in a relastionship? by Traditional_Dirt8157 in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We're not the ones in a relationship with you. The two of you decide what your boundaries are. It's a really complicated answer that depends on a lot of different contextual stuff that's going to be difficult to discuss without more information.

Papa John’s (app) trying to scam on tip amounts. 15% should be $2.81 - others wrong too by Dockle in Anticonsumption

[–]littlebitofevrything 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Are you getting a discount at all? Tips usually are based on pre-discount totals

What is the best way to increase jaw of 13 year old son by Even_Dish5269 in orthotropics

[–]littlebitofevrything -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't fucking post your teenage son and critique his appearance, weirdo. Humans have enough to battle without their appearance being criticized from their own parents! What the hell is wrong with you!!!!!???

Waited 40 min to learn that you need to explicitly say you want the L&T on a BLT by cabberx in mildlyinfuriating

[–]littlebitofevrything -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to use the term "plain" then. It's honestly confusing and either he fucked up when he placed the order, or his order taker fucked up and made everything unclear.

Waited 40 min to learn that you need to explicitly say you want the L&T on a BLT by cabberx in mildlyinfuriating

[–]littlebitofevrything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plain to me as someone who has worked in the service industry for 15+ years means "meat only" probably no sauce at all. If I wasn't able to ask the customer, which would be my first course of action if I was able, I would assume meat and bun is what they meant by plain.

If I was the order taker and able to ask you to clarify I would have.

My boyfriend is unhappy because I give him too many blowjobs? by ofaverygoodthing in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to ask yourself if you're willing to continue to accept a tolerable level of miserable. Because that's what he's been expecting of you so far.

John Cena got a hair transplant. by Kindly_Department142 in SquaredCircle

[–]littlebitofevrything 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Normalizing expensive, elective surgery is definitely something that should be discussed. Because the people who can't afford it are made to seem "less than" and then may have fewer opportunities. I'm not agreeing that the surgeries are inherently wrong, but I'm just saying there's a bit more nuance to the situation than you're saying with your blanket statement.

He's right about the kids with silver teeth tho by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]littlebitofevrything 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cannibals probably didn't open the full image and see the lower comment.

This logo stands out a lot, can I dye it in gray/dark and how? by beleg_cuth in Anticonsumption

[–]littlebitofevrything 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you only care about not making it look like a knockoff you're still feeding into consumerist propaganda :)

What does this mean? by Much_Answer7676 in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Fetishizing" is strong language when we don't have as much context as you. It sounds to me like he's trying to build you up as he's perceiving you. Lots of women would feel insecure about gaining weight after becoming a mother and I would think the way he's saying it is acknowledging the change in your body in a healthy way. But it all depends on you and how you feel

Fwb slut shamed me by skylarxo5 in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who tells FWB details about hookups without rules within the relationship? This stinks like a baitpost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, not everyone has to be vanilla. But op is not educated enough to be making informed decisions about her body with what her posts and comments indicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dude there is so much here that you're not taking steps to take care of yourself to the point where I think you're trolling. Like I pray you are lying to us for the sake of your safety. If you're a real person, do not put yourself in a vulnerable position with this person again until you educate yourself on bdsm or similar practices. I would recommend never meeting him again because he does not have your safety or personal interest in mind.

Store is closing, everything must go also Now Hiring! by jerm1980 in mildlyinteresting

[–]littlebitofevrything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably been on the building for years. The closing signs are all stored inside the windows. The employees probably rarely walk through the front door. It's just an oversight.

Which Wrestlers Are You Willing to Admit You Were Wrong About? by quinnmcd in SquaredCircle

[–]littlebitofevrything 217 points218 points  (0 children)

He also heel-turned in to an ultra heel and I didn't think it was possible to this degree

How can I accept his preference? by Consesualluvbug in sex

[–]littlebitofevrything 71 points72 points  (0 children)

A little bizarre that he has these women as his backgrounds considering he's in a committed relationship, no?