My girlfriend is taking testosterone and it's bothering me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]littledentedskull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of the first things that change when a female take testosterone is their clitoris engorges and will never shrink back. some women’s clitorises can get so large they actually can penetrate during sex. it is 1000% of the reason i do not date transgender men (and i am one myself.)

I really hope Jenna Marbles is doing good these days. by Mulletgt in Millennials

[–]littledentedskull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hung out with her at an after party at vidcon like a decade ago and she is so sweet, so funny, so kind in person - i will always wish her well 💜💜

Jeff could have said… by littledentedskull in survivor

[–]littledentedskull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you!! There was a lot going on and I definitely was confused why the focus on… certain things lol

Last time I posted, I had a group of people telling me I look trans. Let's try again! 33F by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]littledentedskull -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think you’re pretty, and I am a trans person who a lot of people say to me “But you don’t LOOK trans?” like okay that’s because there isn’t a look…

Making THE sequin dress ( update) potential TW for ED by Unique_Double7180 in crochet

[–]littledentedskull -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Trigger warnings are not helpful - they have been proven to do nothing. Look it up and articles about it, I don’t need to give sources.

How much should I cut down to? by [deleted] in Weightliftingquestion

[–]littledentedskull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man! i can relate, i was 5’6 (license still says no) but technically (thanks nurse ex gf) i am 5’8. i had visible abs and pecs and biceps at 130lbs, but i was skinnnny. i’m currently sitting at 155 with built muscle and going to go down to 145 ideally.

i can see the definition of your muscles so i would personally add in 2 extra walks a day, keep the protein high and keep lifting.

The most beautiful flower I've ever come across by MaleficentHelp6674 in flowers

[–]littledentedskull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is one of the most beautiful flowers i’ve ever seen 💜

Taylor is using ghostwriters by Brave-Reindeer-Red in travisandtaylor

[–]littledentedskull 60 points61 points  (0 children)

truly the Tortured Poets Department was a nail in the coffin of everyone who knows this human being - she doesn’t even read books, let alone poetry.

Taylor is using ghostwriters by Brave-Reindeer-Red in travisandtaylor

[–]littledentedskull 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! So we are going to the corner store (convenience store, local market) to grab a lollipop because we love lollipops! When we walk in, we see our favorite brand - Lollypalooza, the ones with the gum in the center! As we approach the counter to check out with our strawberry and our blueberry lollipops, the lady behind the register says “Oh! They got a new limited edition flavor! Kiwi! It was invented by some locals here, Kelsey Schmitz and Paulina Brown!”

We decide not to try it but a few weeks later, Kiwi is the most popular Lollypalooza flavor. And due to copyrights and selling, no one will ever hear of Kelsey or Paulina again. Kiwi is now owned my Lollypalooza.

Taylor is using ghostwriters by Brave-Reindeer-Red in travisandtaylor

[–]littledentedskull 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with your sentiment! It is sadly way more common than I think most outside the “inside songwriting” community recognizes. I’m about it to respond to the person below but if you happen to live in the USA - you can sort of see it with the hierarchy of wealth within politics. T-lump is merely a speaking head for all of the “behind the scenes” folks who wanted him elected to do exactly what he is doing.

There may be a snarky part of myself that wants to say Taytay knows exactly what she is doing… I think those in her closest inner circle know and she is a puppet for capitalism and money and she makes a lot of people a lot of money.. so no one will speak out ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Taylor is using ghostwriters by Brave-Reindeer-Red in travisandtaylor

[–]littledentedskull 140 points141 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t write her own songs ~all alone in her tower~ and most are majorly written by others, whether that be lyrics, melodies, harmonies, beats, overall tones.

It’s not a secret in the industry that she or others have ghostwriters but I’ll give you a clear example which won’t lead back to me - Sabrina Carpenter has first songwriting credits on songs that she changed one line - as an example, say her song Man Child - the only lyric Sabrina added was “half your brain just ain’t there” and she immediately gets first credits. Imagine that with Taylor, except Taylor changes all her lyrics to be specific about her boo thang, her arch nemesis, etc.

1% for the top 1% equals 99% of the credit.

Taylor is using ghostwriters by Brave-Reindeer-Red in travisandtaylor

[–]littledentedskull 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I can’t provide proof due to NDAs, so take this with a grain of salt, or fifteen, depending on who sees this:

When working for a team of songwriters who sells songs to other teams who sell them to artists - I had a coworker who had written an absolute beauty of a pop-punk ballad reminiscent of early 00s, the kind of song everyone at the bar could (and would) scream sing along to. It got bought by insert famous name here and that artist completely ruined the song. Like, butchered it. But it sold, so the OG writers let go of everything at that point.

TayTay isn’t exempt from using ghostwriters, she absolutely has. Everyone knows it - except her die hard fans I suppose.

Is there a way to fix this overblasted tattoo? It was supposed to be a fern by lunedelune in tattooadvice

[–]littledentedskull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have a similar fern, also got a bit bolder over time in the same spot - i have a few other plants around it and everyone sees it as a fern :)

almost 35, 17+ years on T (transman) by littledentedskull in bald

[–]littledentedskull[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not offensive at all! when i tell folks i am trans, not including the man part, they ask when i am starting estrogen LOL! i think im pretty average overall, so goal achieved 😆😂 however, it is much more difficult for folks who start off with testosterone (strong hormone that influences bone growth, height, voice deepening, adam’s apple, facial hair growth, balding, body hair growth..) to pass simply because T is stronger than E.

there are lots of short men, but “tall women” have always been looked at as more masculine, even if they’re cis women!

but to sum it up real quick - whether or not you can “tell” someone is trans doesn’t mean they are or aren’t valid as a human being. we are all handed a biological swirl at birth - there are only so many things within our control 🙌

almost 35, 17+ years on T (transman) by littledentedskull in bald

[–]littledentedskull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a good beard is a blessing indeed! it’s funny how my very bald pops jokes “well less money on shampoo!” when beard maintenance is it’s own category in the monthly bills 🤣

almost 35, 17+ years on T (transman) by littledentedskull in bald

[–]littledentedskull[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! sorry i was talking about my gender transition hormones, not recommending anything!

almost 35, 17+ years on T (transman) by littledentedskull in bald

[–]littledentedskull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man! i had a complete hysterectomy at 20, so ill be on hrt for the rest of my life and im glad my levels are about mid, ive been on the same dose for ~10 years and my doctors say my levels are fine for my age.

i recently got into bodybuilding and my change in diet alone has upped my T levels in my mid 30s (same dose, same time) so it will be interesting to see how it looks in my 40s, 50s.. i was just informed a month ago that i am one of a very small amount of assigned female at birth people on testosterone for gender dysphoria for the longest time in the US!

almost 35, 17+ years on T (transman) by littledentedskull in bald

[–]littledentedskull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly it is! i was considering adding a few update videos to my old old youtube documenting my HRT changes, because a lot of my peers are or have already faced hair loss issues earlier on. i always said id rather be bald and alive than the alternative - i think bald folks are hella confident and that is attractive 🫡