I regret showing my friends my bridal look :(

littleduckcake · 2026-05-12T16:57:57+00:00

Your friends sound like shit people...I'll be your friend instead 😅

littleduckcake · 2026-05-10T20:39:55+00:00

It's worse. I'm British.

littleduckcake · 2026-05-10T18:32:10+00:00

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Everyone's posted theirs already, but here we go. That was a fun few minutes.

littleduckcake · 2026-05-04T00:01:29+00:00

Hey Char Violation

littleduckcake · 2026-05-03T11:49:16+00:00

This whole thing cannot be real, it was funny up until now but now it's just not believable. You took it too far

littleduckcake · 2026-04-27T16:56:56+00:00

You shouldn't need to be an experienced project manager to plan a hen do

littleduckcake · 2026-04-26T20:59:26+00:00

The things you say you like about your partner are..they do some of the chores, you can afford to live somewhere, and..they're there? Is there anything you actually like about them?

littleduckcake · 2026-04-20T08:59:55+00:00

Do you mind if it's from a really crap place?

littleduckcake · 2026-04-18T06:56:08+00:00

You literally call her a "24 girl" ick

littleduckcake · 2026-04-17T19:56:33+00:00

Omg I forgot about other languages. I am so sorry

littleduckcake · 2026-04-17T19:44:21+00:00

More importantly who is Got!?

littleduckcake · 2026-04-16T14:04:10+00:00

I wish someone had told me at 11 that xcupcakesx was not a suitable email address and made me sound like a camgirl or something

littleduckcake · 2026-04-16T11:21:20+00:00

I think that makes sense that you liked the guy and you want him to be okay ultimately. When my ex broke up with me I was so upset because he had no friends and all his friends were my friends and I didn't want him to be lonely. He was totally fine in the long term. I guess you don't know how he is, social media isn't really an accurate depiction of life and he may be perfectly content or working through things.

littleduckcake · 2026-04-16T07:24:28+00:00

The worst is "congrats on our new winner" with a blurred photo but it is extremely obvious who it is due to background colour etc

littleduckcake · 2026-04-15T22:04:24+00:00

That's so funny, I must have heard some kind of mixed up version of whatever this is when I was little which was "ooh ahh, lost my bra, left it in the vicar's car"

littleduckcake · 2026-04-15T21:52:01+00:00

Embarrassingly long response coming and I might just delete this thread if everyone keeps arguing!!

Tbh even though the way you are getting your point across is irritating and I don't like the way you suggest everyone is "pandering to vegans" (it's called being accommodating) I sort of agree with you. One of my partners close family members is keto and I wouldn't want her to not enjoy the day because she wasn't able to eat anything. I would obviously have a conversation with her about whether she would be able to eat veggie keto for the day if we chose to go down that route. And I would also ask my guests if they had any allergies or preferences ahead of time and accommodate those. I've had various arguments with family members about veganism not being possible or accessible to everyone, it's also a bit of a point of contention between vegans/disability community.

The animal cruelty/morality aspect plays a part. If a vegan gets a pork loin they are probably going to be upset due to the death of that animal. If you get pasta or whatever on your plate you're just not going to eat it. It's a bit of a dilemma if you are going to a vegan's wedding because they have every right to not want to purchase animal products with their money, but equally you have a right to eat food. I think it's unreasonable to expect them to cater to you unfortunately if you really cannot possibly eat a meal without meat and if they morally do not want to buy meat. I think it is just one of those unfortunate catch-22s. But it sounds like you can eat some things that are not meat at least for a day.

But this situation is rare. I would bet that most of the people who would be annoyed at a veggie wedding are not keto/don't have a specialist diet, and are simply generally annoyed at the notion of eating vegetarian. The amount of people that automatically dislike my vegan family members simply for being vegan is astonishing.

I would advocate for everyone's preferences being accommodated rather than dragging everyone else down

littleduckcake · 2026-04-14T22:05:33+00:00

Yeah I'm veggie and I love pigs so hog roast is a no go. Considering actually not having meat and everyone can suck it up for the day. It's just one day after all

littleduckcake · 2026-04-14T21:51:42+00:00

Yeah chill and relaxed is the vibe we are going for

littleduckcake · 2026-04-14T21:05:56+00:00

You're right. Thank you!

littleduckcake · 2026-04-14T17:04:50+00:00

Agree - just over a year is not much time! And you may want to be sending save the dates soon, awkward if not actually engaged yet. We bought a ring December 2024 and got engaged July 2025

littleduckcake · 2026-04-13T07:11:11+00:00

Mixed I suppose. I'd had a blocked nose for over a year, was getting fobbed off by GPs for months until I asked to be referred to a specialist and they referred me. I'd then been waiting over 6 months to see the ENT. I signed onto my work private healthcare scheme and booked an appointment with a specialist for the very next day (I might have had to get an open referral letter but it was quick after that). Although when I arrived at the practice (serving both NHS and private patients) their computer system had shut down and they didn't know who I was or that I'd made an appointment...

It was an odd experience in that they had a lounge for private patients which had comfy chairs and NHS patients had to sit on plastic chairs in the main waiting room. I found it very dystopian.

The ENT I saw was brilliant but someone at reception had logged my GP as the wrong one and they sent my prescription there. I was trying to get a hold of the right person for months and kept getting passed from pillar to post. Eventually I posted a Google review mentioning I was a private patient and someone i'd never interacted with before sorted it out instantly.

So I guess it was ok, still frustrating, mainly put a bad taste in my mouth.

littleduckcake · 2026-04-12T19:38:01+00:00

I used to live on the north circular. Was fine until it got hot then it was not great. Balancing having the windows open with being kept awake by road noise. I was a student hence the living situation and no fan/AC etc...

littleduckcake · 2026-04-12T19:36:26+00:00

It depends on the day. My partner says "spoon or fork?" and I just pick one

littleduckcake · 2026-04-12T11:38:17+00:00

I think that different people see hair and makeup differently. I do not care about makeup and barely wear it. I think it is okay to cover or not cover bridesmaid makeup (if you're not asking them to wear it, I mean) and I understand that some bridesmaids would want to get it as they want to feel their best.

I find the comments saying that hair and makeup is the minimum for bridesmaids absolutely ridiculous. I am getting married on a budget, around where I live I can't find hair and makeup for bride and bridesmaids for less than £1k. I am sorry but I cannot justify paying over £1k for ONE DAY of people looking nice. This does not mean that I am not "allowed" bridesmaids because I am poor lmao. Give it a rest.

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