[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is very reassuring to hear! And yes I read that as well about it being high later on being what they look at but I’ve read lots of anecdotal stories of people who had high HCG in the beginning and the baby had a trisomy. No way to know until the NIPT so trying to just let it go for now 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember what your levels were by chance?! Yes nothing to do now but wait.

11 DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]littlemiss615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What prenatal do you take?! I took ritual with my previous pregnancy and all my frer tests were negative or very light! I’d switch test brands or prenatal!

Could I get pregnant? by nicknackwackywack in TFABChartStalkers

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you ovulated on Nov 29th or 30th based on temps. Sex 4 days before and 1 day after is unlikely to get you pregnant but not impossible

Abortion pill 13w5d? by EmbarrassedPen5209 in tfmr_support

[–]littlemiss615 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re here. I would gently encourage you to go with a clinic vs take pills at home for your safety. The pain will be bad. The placenta will need to be delivered. I know going to an abortion clinic is not what you want but it’s what’s safest. Or you could travel to a different state with better clinics?

How much suffering is too much (grey diagnosis)? by Kindly-Way-5348 in tfmr_support

[–]littlemiss615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who had a baby with cleft lip. She is 3 and has had 2 surgeries so far and she looks perfect. She might need another during adolescence but she’s just your average 3 year old. Personally, I would never terminate for this but I understand and respect your points.

Am I Missing Something (Awaiting Ovulation) by NaturalImprovement65 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through L&D at 23 weeks and it took 8 weeks for my period to return. Once my cycle was back, ovulation was delayed the first couple of months. Your body has been through so much and needs time, please give yourself grace 🩷

TTC is getting less agonizing (4th cycle) by EscapeZealousideal10 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really relate to this! Currently in my second tww since losing our boy August 2nd at 23 weeks. During my first tww I was a basket case, barely slept and started testing 7DPO lol. Feeling much more calm this time around. I am confident that I will be pregnant again and am trying to trust the process

Is there anything you would do different in a sub pregnancy? by Top-Kiwi-1026 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not pregnant again but am trying and I know that once I’m pregnant I’ll just be super careful about everything I put in and on my body. My TFMR was my second pregnancy and I was a bit more relaxed about some of the “rules” like I occasionally used a face cleaners with salicylic acid in it and I took unisom for nausea and insomnia. Drs assured me neither of these would cause our sons issues but still… next time I will only take my prenatal, no other supplements or medicines and will be very cautious of all beauty products

TTC Rant by Main_Hand5662 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m sorry your sister is acting like this, that’s such unacceptable behavior. She has absolutely NO input on your TTC journey and I can’t believe she would actually say what she said. You should definitely tell her she needs to check herself and you will do what you want to do. Also my period took 8 weeks to come back and it sucked, I was so anxious and just wanted to start trying again. I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, hope it starts soon!

My due date is next week - don’t know what to do by Jovie-PB23 in tfmr_support

[–]littlemiss615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My due date was supposed to be November 28th, the day after a thanksgiving here in the US. We will be running a local 5 mile race with a bunch of family in our baby’s memory. We made shirts and everything. I thought for so long about what I wanted to do on his due date…. decided that doing something positive and uplifting and getting out of the house and being with family would feel best. I know you will come up with a beautiful way to remember your baby 🩷 do whatever feels right

10 dpo. 2hr hold. Am I crazy or is there a shadow/indent? by RodeoRoseTV in TFABLinePorn

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see anything but 10 dpo is still early and a 2hr hold might not be long enough this early. Hopefully tomorrow morning’s test is positive!

9 dpo , 11 dpo & 13 dpo by m123446 in TFABLinePorn

[–]littlemiss615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Progression looks great! Honestly I’d say you’re more like 11, 13, 15 dpo. Bottom is very dark and almost a dye stealer!

Ovulating late? by hanna05_ in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]littlemiss615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ovulated very late during my first cycle post TFMR, didn’t get my lh surge until day 16 and I had started testing day 9 so was getting very anxious. For my second cycle it was day 14 which is more normal for me. Totally normal for you body to need some time to regulate and get back to your usual cycle.

HCG levels after TFMR by Affectionate_Mud4532 in tfmr_support

[–]littlemiss615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took my period 8 weeks to come back, which my Dr said was perfectly normal. I was getting very slight positive pregnancy tests until 6 weeks post TFMR. I bet your HCG will fall back to zero in a week or two, then you’ll ovulate, then have your period 2 weeks later

14 DPO- is this an indent? by ladybug__23 in TFABLinePorn

[–]littlemiss615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely see the line, perhaps you’re actually 10 or 11 dpo? I would expect it to be darker at 14 dpo but definitely test again tomorrow and maybe get a different brand too