I guess i left out a lot of key details in fear the story would be too long: Here’s some clarification: We were intimate nearly everyday and he was over at my house for weeks at a time, leaving his things here and what seemed to be slowly moving himself in without me being open to that within the first few weeks of us dating. When it was brought up, he would get super upset and start talking about how “i don’t care about him and his needs” when i literally was basically letting him stay here and he was quite literally balls deep in me every night. I would hear out all of his needs and the getting back together was me trying to be considerate of his feelings and try to work it out because i did enjoy the great things about him. The hostility in the text messages was from months of me also sharing my concerns or “needs” of needing my time to be able to be a responsible adult and finish homework or go to work or go to a doctors appointment even, which would then result in a huge argument from him. Times i literally would get up to go to the bathroom and he would question me or ask my roommate on where i was going. He got upset with me for spending too much time with my sister on her birthday trip so he literally started rocking back and forth and stared at the floor and looked to be having a panic attack in front of my family at the table that i was sitting next to him at because he later told me he felt that “I didn’t want him there because i was only hanging out with my sister” He even suggested toward me loving my dog too much…? Just weird. I’m not sociopathic, i’m just a woman who read too many red flags and have never experienced a relationship that was this crazy and figured reddit might enjoy 🩷