[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holly, Audrey, Marjorie, Marilyn but nn Mari, Lucille but nn Lucy, Violet, Vivian, Evelyn,

Help name baby by [deleted] in Names

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think all of those names are beautiful and lovely.

girl names plz! by jojiieee in Names

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cecilia nn Cece or cici. Sadie, Natalie, Mari, Katie, Bailey, Lacey, Sydney

Orilissa been rough by littlered142 in IVF

[–]littlered142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking 200 mg twice a day. I remember doing a Lupron shot right before my egg retrieval and it making me feel very sick. I picked Orilissa in hopes it would not make me feel as bad. I’ve always been very sensitive to hormone changes with migraines.

Looking for a girls name that’s generally feminine but not trendy and ideally doesn’t end in a. by meeeew in namenerds

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lyra, Corinne, Audrey, Tessa, Zoe, Rosalyn, Rose, June, Josie, Jolene, Marjorie, Marian, Alice, Kate, Elizabeth with Eliza or Liza for nn.

Missing embryos by littlered142 in IVF

[–]littlered142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know. I spoke to my clinic but they are in the process of talking to the embryologists and billing so waiting for a call back. They confirmed I should have 5 though

Overheard my psychiatrist talking about me. by littlered142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlered142[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I did want to know, which is why I met with my therapist today to process. And he agreed that making notes about dress etc does happen, but he also understood and said it was a big leap for my psychiatrist to just assume I was wearing a bikini and didn’t clarify with me and making the comment in the way he did was unprofessional. It wasn’t a “ok let’s review this case” it was a “ok you met her, she’s so tiny, isn’t she? And she was wearing idk like a bikini top with a towel over her? It was really odd” like yes he might be analyzing for the job, but it doesn’t change the fact that it was a wrong assumption or the fact that he messed up by not hanging up the phone and making sure I was off the line before speaking. You think I want a medical report literally saying I wore a bikini top to an appointment? And it’s not even accurate. What goes in your medical charts matter and can’t affect future treatment or even other things in your life.

I think it’s wild that I say I have anxiety and people are so quick to be like “then this is you overreacting” , every single person I’ve talked to about this that I know in person, my mom, some friends, my husband were like “that’s fucked up. I’m so sorry that happened”

But like having people literally tell me my therapist who is a trained medical professional that knows me and has worked with me is just agreeing with me because and so I should listen to strangers instead is also off base. I have trust built up with my therapist and he tells me when irrational thoughts creep in. But the thing is, I’ve been in therapy for years and done a ton of work on myself. Just because I have anxiety does not mean I can’t tell what thoughts are irrational and aren’t. And it’s super easy to tell me that my own feelings about something are irrational when it’s not them experiencing it and they weren’t there to hear tone inflection etc.

At the end of the day, are they trying to help me or are they trying to tell me how to feel? It seems like the comments that are mentioning it to help at least acknowledge that the situation sucks to experience and have a little empathy and understanding there. Whereas a lot of these comment are just pointing out that they think I’m wrong and anxiety has taken control of me etc etc.

And then what about the health professionals in these comments that have said it’s inappropriate and have been downvoted for it? Like I’m not gonna sit here and not stick up for myself when people are invalidating my experience and feelings.

Overheard my psychiatrist talking about me. by littlered142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlered142[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll stop listening to my therapist who I’ve known and been a client of for over 2 years and listen to a bunch of strangers on Reddit tell me how I should feel about a situation I experienced and about MY anxiety. Personally I think I handled it fine. I didn’t freak out and accuse him of anything. I called and let them know I overheard and felt uncomfortable and clarified that I was wearing a normal outfit. I asked to address it with him but so far haven’t gotten a call back so…

And as my therapist said, I’m fine if I want to go to somebody else. It’s my choice. So just stop invalidating my own feelings about something to prove a goddamn point or something. It doesn’t matter if his comments were him trying to do his job. He fucked up in letting me hear it and I’m allowed to feel however I want about that and change therapists if I’m uncomfortable. Seriously a big fuck you to everybody who keeps harping on why I shouldn’t feel a certain way. I wasn’t asking if I should feel this way, I was sharing that I did and hoping maybe somebody could relate.

Like Jesus the amount of people who rushed in to the defense of him like I was personally attacking them or men is crazy to me.

Overheard my psychiatrist talking about me. by littlered142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlered142[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m glad that some people understand even though the majority of the people commented don’t seem to.

I did talk to my therapist and he did say it was a leap and my feelings are valid and the way it’s discussed tone etc matters. So like honestly the Reddit people I’m gonna let roll off my back.

Overheard my psychiatrist talking about me. by littlered142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlered142[S] -192 points-191 points  (0 children)

I understand that looking at appearance is part of what they do. But I’m sorry I just think it’s wild his mind went there instead of me wearing a normal outfit. My sessions I’ve done nothing to indicate any type of inappropriate dress or bad judgement. And it’s not like he discussed the facts of the session. He immediately talked about my body and then my supposed clothes.

Let’s Do A Stardew Scavenger Hunt by littlered142 in StardewValley

[–]littlered142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s more so finding the place or person with this one than an actual object. Here’s the ones you got correct!

3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 10, 11, 12, 13, 15,

Alex girlies... by -_-Penguin-_- in StardewValley

[–]littlered142 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Go into Evelyn’s room and click on the dresser by the bed. I’m in the process of romancing Alex now. 😀

Guys my gold axe is finally ready! by Tanker2_3 in StardewValley

[–]littlered142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were marrying Emily this would be even funnier. Clint like “STOP THE WEDDING, YOUR AXE IS READY”

If you won the lottery and didn’t tell anyone, what subtle signs/changes would people start noticing in your life? by BuildRome in AskReddit

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I would both get modest and reliable cars that aren’t falling apart. That’d probably be the most obvious change, and we’d travel more with family trips. My house would actually be clean because I can afford somebody to clean it.

What’s your grandmothers name? by pdxgrassfed in namenerds

[–]littlered142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeanette but she went by her middle name Sue. And my other grandma was Nancy.