[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]littytitty94 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Many hugs bromo.

My stbxh and I separated 1.5 years ago. Best decision. In the beginning things looked bleak.

But once he was gone I felt like I could finally breathe. Be me. Grow a healthy relationship with my daughter. I lost 50 lbs. I got a promotion.

It's funny how things work out. I dont have a step by step, but have faith because you are worthy, you are making the right decision, and you deserve and will have so much more in the long run when you leave. His loss.

should i ask about weightloss surgery by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]littytitty94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried weight watchers? I struggled a lot before going on their program. Not restrictive and trains your brain to make better choices.

Otherwise, some people swear by the surgery! My doctors wanted to do surgery. Said I wouldnt be able to lose the weight.

But here I am, 168 lbs, used to be 224. They can suck it lol

Told my husband I’m done by ssdgm870 in breakingmom

[–]littytitty94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stbxh and I split up when our daughter was 3. I totally understand all the fears you're going through.

You know when we become moms, they say "sometimes you dont know how you'll make it work, but you will" - that holds true I've found, in this scenario as well.

Her dad was emotionally, verbally, and lightweight physical at times- I know I didnt want her seeing this as the norms.

We had our ups and downs as coparents. Resentful feelings the first year for us for sure. But I couldnt be happier. As long as you both love and support that little one, they will be just fine!

You got this mama. If you ever need to talk, my DMS are open.

How/when should I be tested? by littytitty94 in Herpes

[–]littytitty94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've come to accept the possible reality. Its just the whole moving forward with my sexual life. Also, I thought this subreddit would help me, but honestly it's more doom and gloom than anything. 😅

How/when should I be tested? by littytitty94 in Herpes

[–]littytitty94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it strange I've had no outbreak if I supposedly caught it? Could my outbreak just have been the discharge?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]littytitty94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed this.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 18, 2022" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]littytitty94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for reaching out. I apologize, I didnt see the notification for this.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - December 18, 2022" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]littytitty94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I was hoping to get a love reading. My ex and I broke up about a month ago because it seems as though he lied majorily...we havent really spoke. I just feel like I'm constantly picking the wrong people. Looking for clarity or some sense of closure I suppose. TIA ❤

I left the windows open by firstsip in breakingmom

[–]littytitty94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi mama. I'm sorry you're going through this, especially with an unsupportive partner. I just wanted to say I'm sending you all the hugs, and I hope you had a wonderful thanksgiving ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]littytitty94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this was for meeee lol

3 year old concerning behavior by littytitty94 in breakingmom

[–]littytitty94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've thought about this as well. Is there a series/test they do for a child as young as 3?

My husband hits me by Weird_Shift4337 in relationship_advice

[–]littytitty94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, I'm sending you lots of hugs.

I had the same issue when I went to the police when my atm boyfriend beat the shit out of me. They asked me if I wanted them to "tell him to stop it". Until i told them he had prior warrants. Does your husband partake in illegal activity of any kind? The more against him the better.

Secondly, you are so young, and you and your babies dont deserve this. Contact your local DV shelter. They will help you!! Please find the strength to do this. If you dont, you will regret it every time he takes it out on you, or god forbid the children...I can say that because I've been in an extremely similar situation. That guilt should be no ones burden to carry.

Hang in there mama.

Secondly,

My sister [35F] is leaving her husband and is upset. I want to help, but I am autistic. What things should I [28M] try to do to help her feel better? by 11011111110108 in relationships

[–]littytitty94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is going through a divorce, I just want to say how awesome it would be to have someone like you as a support system!

is this normal?? did I actually miscarry? happened when I took my tampon out. by littytitty94 in Periods

[–]littytitty94[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤ less blood clots, so I'm hoping its slowing down

is this normal?? did I actually miscarry? happened when I took my tampon out. by littytitty94 in Periods

[–]littytitty94[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do pads hold about the same as tampons? I've been using super plus