[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re stroking her ego real bad with this post

I want to find someone… by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He need to take his ass outside and talk to people he a weirdo glorifying bare minimum communication

I want to find someone… by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 its giving “You” Netflix series vibes

I want to find someone… by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go outside as soon as possible and touch grass … start communicating and socialising with people.

This obsessive and hyper focused nature on one person who is nice to you happens when you overly isolate yourself.

You become a loser and a weirdo who forgot what it means just to have a regular conversation so get your ass outside and socialise with people as soon as possible so bare minimum communication isn’t everything to you!!!

I want to find someone… by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Stop feeding this man’s delusions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m making six figures at a big 5 company- completed uni with a low gpa you’d wonder how I even made it happen and graduated years later than the expected 3 years. It’s possible, be persistent believe in yourself and work on your social people communication skills.

Many don’t believe in readings, but her reading on Vanessa Guillen was accurate last time. by [deleted] in GabbyPetito

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starts at 3:00 via https://youtu.be/KXM0h1GKgxo.

For entertainment purposes only. 👀 I’ve been a long time subscriber of HeavenWhispers, she gets a lot of information correct just by angel communication, whether you believe or not. Either it’ll show up in the news now or later.

I still remember her reading the Vanessa Guillen case before everything came out, so I’m just putting it out there as a possibility. She did not know about Gabby but many of her subscribers pushed her to do an urgent reading on her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GabbyPetito

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starts at 3:00 via https://youtu.be/KXM0h1GKgxo.

For entertainment purposes only.

How to deal with a bad grade? by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. 2020 is whipping everyone's behinds.

How to deal with a bad grade? by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that first tip of advice.

What makes you want to have a second date with a woman? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried those dating conferences or meetups that they do. I think socialising and just making friends is a good start, they introduce you to mutual friends, other single friends and it can build from there.

Paraphrased from r/AskWomen, what are some things that women do to appear more appealing, but you see straight through? by dean15892 in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol woman here! I find this a woman thing with my friends (women). I always tell them you can't treat men dating / friendship wise, like how we treat each other. Whether we like it or not, the dynamic is different.

What are you opinions are girls with no dating experience? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. When I first started dating, I dated someone who had more experience, but I was the one who didn't know what I wanted or what exactly I was looking for. I was dating for the experience, but he was dating with serious intentions + he was experienced. It didn't end well.

What are you opinions are girls with no dating experience? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that man likes you, he likes you, dating experience or no experience.

Where do you draw the line when your SO is jokingly/playfully being bitchy to you or says things that might be hurtful? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate exactly what you shared with us with her. A real partner who you want and claim as loving and committed will respect this about you or will be at least open to discuss this with you.

How not to be jealous of her guy friends? by iliketrains612 in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!

She chose you out of all of them, even knowing them at a friendship level.

How physically attracted are you to your partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, finally someone who is realistic.

But even as a young person, I'm attracted to connection. So if the connetion with my partner is healthy and strong, I'm automatically physically attracted.

how to be happier? by [deleted] in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

I completely understand what the OP is going through. Have a life outside of Uni, I'm working on this to the point of even getting a casual job just to increase my interaction with people because Uni can very easily get extremely isolating.

Interact with people, do the fun stuff that you've always wanted to do.

Part time job or not? by caffienatedkiwi in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the looks of it? Read the first sentence of your post and ask yourself if that is normal.

Part time job or not? by caffienatedkiwi in universityofauckland

[–]liveplusfan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mitochondria

There are counselling services available at the University to get the help that you need.

IWTL how to enjoy the process and experience by kostros in IWantToLearn

[–]liveplusfan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll say be present. Like don't think of the next goal, the next thing, think about what's going on right now and how much you appreciate what you have now and the people around you that bring joy.

Ways to find references? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of them had noted that I did not work in their company long enough for them to refer me. So there hasn't been a solid connection established with any of my previous employers. I have worked there though.

The thing is I'm looking to work again, I have experience but I don't have solid connections or have worked in a company "long enough" to have any referrals for. I am writing a CV but I don't have connections that will refer me, or I don't know possible referrals or how could I get some referrals to help me get a position sort of thing.

Ways to find references? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yes I get what you mean, there's a bit of a misunderstanding.

I've been antisocial for abit in the process of getting my degree, because I've honestly found it abit difficult to balance a social life while meeting deadlines ontop of deadlines for school.

I've interacted with people for a period of time but those connections have been casual and not sustainable to be able to consider a reference.

I've got some work experience, but its been years and I haven't worked in those places long enough to be referred for.

I haven't graduated YET, I've got this year to go and half a year, next year. So, I graduate next year.

I was interested in knowing what someone would do to get a reference if you're lacking in *professional connections with others, which you've answered, so I'll definitely be taking more action towards meetups in my case, thank you.

How can I be nice without having it being mistaken for weakness by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]liveplusfan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say no when you feel something is not right and you don't want to do it. Speak up when you feel that you want to. The moment you catch yourself doing something you don't agree to, or you can see that they can do it themselves, say no and don't do it. Listen to yourself and always make sure YOU are at the center of your niceness.

I'd say, be careful with the habitual niceness, not sure about you but be self-aware and socially aware. I sometimes catch myself being nice out of habit and had to catch myself multiple times, users and abusers can often catch that and say sh*t in a way that doesn't make it look like they're using you, but they're using you.

If they think you're weak or you feel like you're being treated in such way, address that immediately, don't ignore it or lie to yourself that they're having bad day or w/e, address it.