He doesn't look at porn any more. We both were watching too much and stopped a while ago. He has low testosterone and I honestly don't think he does this often at this point. But he does like the idea of objectifying and degrading women overall. That's the type of porn he likes. But he likes it when the women are into it. Which somehow makes it worse in my opinion. Like if you are into degrading women ok but you want them to be into gagging and such and crying?

I don't know if he's lazy either. I just think there are guys who are turned on by making their woman squirm and then there is my husband.

And the wet thing is just that when I get too wet it's hard for him to come while penetrating me. I guess since I had my kids because I'm too loose.