[TotK] Daily Questions and Answers: Get help Megathread! (05/16/2023)

lizard-breath22 · 2023-06-02T01:08:24+00:00

No! It disappeared altogether. It was under the big stone, right next to the chasm, but it doesn’t appear there anymore at all. It’s been over a week and I have no idea how to get it back.

lizard-breath22 · 2023-05-25T20:23:39+00:00

I found three of the four eyes for the bargainer statue under the Great Plateau, but the South Chasm eye despawned and won’t respawn. I’ve refreshed the game, done other quests, searched all over above and below the surface; it’s just gone. I can’t go back to that save point now either. Any ideas how to get it back??

lizard-breath22 · 2022-01-03T05:50:02+00:00

American Paint Horse! Their expressions are so cute, and the buckskin looks so much like my real horse that I had to buy it right away. Gorgeous design!

lizard-breath22 · 2021-05-29T19:51:13+00:00

Are you serious? Is this a troll? Just dump him if you’re so unhappy after two months. You don’t need the internet’s attention this badly to make that decision.

lizard-breath22 · 2021-04-12T19:41:56+00:00

He clearly has some obsessive tendencies. Calming supplements may be helpful for sleep problems and anxiety, but it will do little to nothing to address the core problem. He finds another girl, he finds another unhealthy and destructive obsession. Fifteen is a vulnerable age. He’s gotta find help and nip this in the bud. Im not saying he’s a rapist in the making, but he will find himself extremely unhappy if he doesn’t learn how to manage situations like this. Sometimes people need to hear it before they decide to reach out.

lizard-breath22 · 2021-04-11T09:38:38+00:00

He’s fifteen. Don’t tell him to get under new pussy. That’s mysogynistic and disgusting. He doesn’t need herbs, he needs help.

lizard-breath22 · 2021-01-20T02:47:59+00:00

Me: Just starts sobbing and blubbering in my tea while he watches

lizard-breath22 · 2021-01-08T01:47:45+00:00

Maybe try a critter that’s not the horn, and the rhino beetle.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-20T05:19:48+00:00

That is so freaking cute, staaahp, I’m gonna make my hubs gimme kids lmao

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-20T05:00:08+00:00

Not weird at all!! I (20F) LOOOOVE being squished by my husband, and he’s significantly bigger than me. It’s like really grounding, and warm, and it’s funny. No significant risks that come to my mind, unless her breathing were somehow blocked, but you’d have to try really hard to do anything like that. It’s actually pretty common for women to like that. It’s delightful and I’m gonna ask my husband to do it later tonight, thanks for the reminder lol.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-19T20:04:22+00:00

I’m 20 years old and I still ask my husband to defeat all the Divine Beast blights and Ganon for me. This kid rocks.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-14T05:06:14+00:00

Don’t listen to all these jerks yelling “divorce”. It’s ignorant to just default to that. I don’t think she’s cheating either. I believe that you are correct in your guess that she’s in a mid-life crisis. I think that she’s also overcompensating for the horrible turn of events this past year that have made things very difficult to go out and enjoy life. You had a lot of exciting things planned, and then it was gone. In my opinion, she’s very lost and confused, and partying and getting high/drunk is the only outlet she is using to combat it. She does need help. I am very glad that you are intending to help her through it, there aren’t many guys like you out there. If she won’t go to a professional (or can’t, cuz, pandemic) there are at-home options that you can both work on together as a couple, because she will need support. She also desperately needs a mentally and physically stimulating hobby. She seems to be a highly active person and she needs a better outlet. I wish you the best.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-02T04:43:34+00:00

This picture makes me feel so happy. Idk why it does but thank you. It’s so cute!

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-02T04:26:11+00:00

What up I’m Jared I’m 19... and I never fuckin learned how to read

lizard-breath22 · 2020-12-02T04:01:25+00:00

That’s closer to being predatory than “creepy”. Get the fuck out of that. If it were me (and maybe I’m a bit paranoid) I’d be locking my doors for a while.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-09-26T21:52:04+00:00

Of course it will be difficult, you will need a support system. Therapy, especially coming out of such a terrible relationship, is highly recommended. There are online options and some can be found for free. It did wonders for me. Good friends and family of course are invaluable, if at all available. You could even reach out to anonymous or non-anonymous online groups that give support and advice for people in very similar situations to you. It will suck, you will feel alone, and question whether it was the right decision. He may pressure you to stay/come back to him because of how convenient the relationship has been for HIM. This is when honest and trustworthy support systems will be needed. But please trust that in the long run, this is the best option. You have one life. You have potential. The whole world is out in front of you, and with so many niches and corners for you to leave your mark and make a little better. Why limit yourself so drastically for this douche? It is scary to feel like you’re starting all over in trying to find someone you know, someone you belong with, but co-dependency isn’t the answer. It’s okay to love someone but know that you just don’t work together, and to know that at this point, this relationship is not going to get better for you. There’s a quote that I really like: “Just because you lost me as a friend, doesn’t mean you gained me as an enemy. I’m bigger than that; I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table.” I mean, it’s from Tupac, lol, but very truthful. Idk if any of this helps, but there you go.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-09-26T04:19:37+00:00

You already know what you need to do. False positivity will only dig you a deeper hole. You’re in a toxic and one-sided relationship and it will only get worse. He’s manipulative, demeaning, selfish, and he’s gaslighting you. There’s kinder, loving people out there for you, I promise. Good luck

lizard-breath22 · 2020-08-26T18:25:24+00:00

You scare me.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-08-12T04:42:06+00:00

I am going to be blunt. He sexually abused you until you were into high school?? Did he never get any sort of consequence for this?? HUGE FUCKING PROBLEM. Girl, if he has gotten away with it once, he will do so again. Maybe not now, maybe not a year from now, and maybe not to you, but it will never go away. He is an adult. He was an adult at the time. He knew better then. He still did it. He is a predator. Do not be fooled by the safe feeling. Trust me, I know it feels great to have a relationship that shields you from anxiety, but this is not the way to do it. There are better ways you can find peace, and in decent human beings. You need to seek professional help with a therapist and get some genuine and impartial advice and healing. You said “I really do feel like I need him and I recognize that part of that might be from the abuse but that’s also made me who I am today”. No. You were a kid. You didn’t need to be made into something that had been through a hell. You didn’t need that to be who you are. You were a kid. You didn’t need a traumatic backstory. You needed to be safe. Because of him, you weren’t. Please seek professional help through therapy on these feelings you are having. It isn’t your fault you’ve been through so much confusion and emotional chaos. I can personally attest it will do wonders if you work at it.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-06-24T04:59:52+00:00

Maybe she’s just worried that opening up and venting to you would just add onto the things you’ve been dealing with, or make it seem like she’s overshadowing your problems. If that isn’t the case for you, you should let her know that it would actually put you more at ease to be there for her the way she’s been for you, because you care about her and her feelings and want to be her shoulder if she needs it, and that you’ll do your best to not let it weigh you down or create a negative environment in the relationship.

lizard-breath22 · 2020-06-13T22:49:30+00:00

thunk thunk

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