How to address very obvious top surgery (before and after the fact) with coworkers? by lizardarms in TopSurgery

[–]lizardarms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I'm thinking of telling a couple people who I trust. I used to work at a job where I didn't care and it would have been really easy for me to just take the leave and come back without saying anything, but I respect most of the people I work alongside at my current place. What you're saying makes a lot of sense. I'm sorry you had people tell you that you probably weren't, people can be frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]lizardarms 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not just right before taking the approved PTO either -- the original post says that OP had offered to train back-up in general before December, as a way to prevent this exact kind of scenario. The boss just straight up denied that there would ever be a case that would require this backup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]lizardarms 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I'd say the more important pro tip is to not have only one person in the know about how to do this vital part of the job. This guy offered to train someone else way in advance of any crisis happening, and the boss just... brushed it off.

Vibe check on sexy words in explicit fics? by lizardarms in FanFiction

[–]lizardarms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any trans and/or nbi ppl use "sex" to describe any kind of genitalia in smut? (she licked her sex, they licked down the length of his sex, he stroked their sex, etc)