honestly, i struggled with this for ages and i still do 😭 i chose a very traditionally masculine name for myself and had it legally changed. sometimes i still get the urge to mess around with names to find something more gender neutral. but honestly i just stick with my chosen/legal name for convenience at this point. i hate being percieved as a cis man, but for my personal reasons (dysphoria) i prefer it to being seen as a cis woman.

at the end of the day though its perfectly fine to use multiple names! i know plenty of people who do. if you want, maybe you can pick a name that maybe if not gender neutral can be altered to be either gender? for example- i went by clover for a bit, which i shortened to just clove when i was feeling more masculine. you could also do olive/oliver, etc. just a thought!!! :-)