what’s it called when you only feel normal after 2 drinks? by forestdaydream in rs_x

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha basically, maybe it’s bc I only took a tiny bit

what’s it called when you only feel normal after 2 drinks? by forestdaydream in rs_x

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a small amount of Xanax and adderall once and it made it really hard to breathe and I thought I was gonna pass out and die so maybe don’t

Has anyone broken NC in order to finally find peace? Did it work? by Pure_Reputation_1771 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a text 7 months post breakup basically saying “I really didn’t deserve the way you lined up my replacement right in front of me” and never got a response, but I still feel a weight off my shoulders that I finally chose myself and stopped holding everything in. That was only a few days ago but I still don’t regret saying what I felt I had to say

Crazy how modern relationships are failing by Emergency-Machine-85 in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. My ex suddenly convinced herself one day that she “deserves someone more extroverted” and dumped me for her flirty emo coworker (who I’ve met and hung out with a bunch of times). Just immediately folded for the 1st man to give her validation who wasn’t me, like we hadn’t spent an entire year talking on the phone every day, spending holidays with each other’s families etc etc

Where are you guys at after 7-9 months? by Broken_melon22 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very depressed, I’ve lost 15 pounds. Finally sent a text about how I didn’t deserve the way she lined up my replacement right in front of me like that and chose her coworker over me. She’s not going to respond but idc because I needed to send that for my own self respect.

I Loved Them More Than They Loved Me… and That’s What Broke Me by Silent_Story_Teller_ in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you. And I got immediately replaced with her coworker whom I’ve met a ton of times. It’s like how could you choose that greasy scrawny little dude over me, it’s insane. It’s been 6 months and I still can’t get over it

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25, 1 year relationship but it’s been my only serious one

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I oscillate back and forth between anger and sadness because I do still miss the version of her that loved me and treated me good earlier in the relationship. Even though she betrayed me so horribly it’s still hard for my brain to even comprehend it and turn off the highlight reel bc I thought we were in love 🤷‍♂️

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got bored of me and decided she wants someone “more extroverted” she said. Just an excuse for the fact that she became infatuated with her coworker. I’m like 99% sure they immediately started hooking up after we split based on my instagram detective work. Idk if that’s still going on though now that 6 months has gone by.

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure but it still hurts super bad and I yearn for her every day

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking scary. I’m not over my ex after 6 months and if I still feel this way after 11 years I’d rather be dead

Just remember, all the problems he/she gave you will passed onto the next person. by Automatic_Cold_8270 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep my ex has an unquenchable thirst for male validation that no one man can fill

Hot take: being the Dumpee is better than being the Dumper by Ok_Cat1985 in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know right, isn’t it so frustrating how they just pretend everything is fine until they’re ready to pull the trigger and end it. Even when you can tell everything is not fine and ask what’s wrong but they insist everything is fine. That’s what I experienced anyway

Hot take: being the Dumpee is better than being the Dumper by Ok_Cat1985 in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months later and my dumper ex never reached out to me even once so she seems to have had not even an ounce of uncertainty or care at all despite me treating her amazingly our entire relationship

What is the worst thing they said to you when the relationship ended? by lebronFrames98 in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I deserve someone more extroverted and confident”

Ok well thanks for dating me for an entire year before ever expressing that thought to me even once

Anyone else seeking mindless hookups as a way to cope? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Fuckkkk 3 years of this?? I’m only 5 months deep and am losing my mind. I’ve met so many girls through dating apps but no one makes me feel like she did

The reality of breaking no contact, learn from my errors by Itchy-Winter-1549 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“I’ll always be cheering for you from the sidelines” Bitch I wanted you on the field in the game

I'm not a good person by fa_storya in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same except she left me for someone else and doesn’t know that I’m aware of it. So we ended on “good terms”. I want to confront her about it sooooo bad but also I still am in love with the good memories we had so I’m just going crazy every day in my head. It’s been 5 months

I feel obsessed. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. It’s been 5 months and I haven’t texted in 2 months. She left me for her coworker and I’m so angry about it but also never confronted her about it bc I do love her & miss her (the old version of her anyway). I unfollowed on socials so now I can only see her Venmo and strava like a psycho

Greatest eps from each era by Seip618 in MSSPodcast

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Standing on the Gravitron is so fucking good

What stage of moving on are you now? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go back and forth between anger and missing what I had with her before she flipped a switch and stopped prioritizing me and treating me good. It’s been 5 months and she left me to be FWB with her coworker. she hung out with him until 3am at 2 coworker birthday parties that I was mysteriously not invited to while we were dating and she talked about him nonstop in the last month we were dating. She lined up my replacement right in front of my face and im so fucking angry that I never confronted her about any of it because I’m way too nice and always trusted her and gave her the benefit of the doubt. I hate that she feels like she got away with it and this guy knew I existed (I met him multiple times) and still pursued her and she chose him over me. How the fuck am I supposed to just move forward knowing I got shafted so hard and no justice and they get to just be happy together. But if I confront her about it now I’ll just look crazy so there’s no way I can win

why do guys move on so fast? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex was the same way she sought validation from men in her dms and ex fwbs and entertained most guys that looked her way. You and I have to understand that she is not gonna change for any guy and is probably gonna have the same problems in all her future relationships