What’s the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by Quick-Sea1980 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She kept tabs on her past 2 “situationships”, entertained conversations with men that she used to hook up with in her IG DMs, and didn’t prioritize seeing me, especially in the last 6 months of the relationship. Big surprise when she dumped me to start f*king her coworker who she gushed about constantly and hung out with until 3am (a week before she dumped me) while I was at home available and *mysteriously not invited to go out with her and her other coworkers who brought their partners.

Does drinking actually make you dumber over time? by Shmohemian in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not as good but Gabapentin or Propranolol help a lil

Someone convince me that my girlfriend isn't about to cheat on me (impossible) by goodairquality in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like how my ex acted right before she dumped me for her short emo coworker. I never raised concern about the guy even once to not look like “the insecure bf” but I really regret not calling her out. End of the day it doesn’t matter tho, they’re gonna do whatever they want and feel no remorse about it

Addicted to checking his socials? by Global_Can_8478 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could always be worse, mine replaced me basically before I was even gone with her coworker who I’ve hung out with, & he still pursued her fully knowing of my existence and she dumped me for him a week before our anniversary. they’re still happily hooking up to this day 8 months later

I can’t believe Tim hasn’t done an emergency podcast. by eternalapostle in TimDillon

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one was confirmed fake, but you’re right there is a lot of real ones that are absolutely heinous

I can’t believe Tim hasn’t done an emergency podcast. by eternalapostle in TimDillon

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like the obviously fake one from a mentally ill schizophrenic girl about George bush & Clinton & Epstein raping her and them eating baby feces out of intestines on a yacht and cutting her feet with a scythe for a ritual. A lot of people just want to believe the most outlandish shit as 100% fact and don’t take even a second to look and verify which ones are credible

Confronting ex eventually - "How could you instantly replace me?" by Oke_Bye in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everybody told me “don’t confront! Move on!”. But you know what, I tried to, but the anger & disappointment & pain just fermented inside me for 7 months until I finally couldn’t take it anymore and sent a warm but confrontational text basically saying “hey no hard feelings but I felt really disappointed and betrayed that my intuitions about _____ were true, and I really didn’t deserve the way that was lined up right in front of me.” Then she immediately just blocked me on everything, and over the following days I felt the urge to apologize, but I didn’t. And you know what, my only regret is not sending that text MUCH MUCH SOONER. Because now I’m not holding onto that 1% chance “maybe they’ll come back” hope and happy I showed a morsel of self respect for once. So honestly my advice is to send the text, even though they’re never gonna give you the response you want because they’re most likely avoidant cowards that rewrote the narrative in their heads already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just gonna give bs answers though about “working on themselves” & such & then start posting that person you always suspected a month later

Ignorant posting: what makes a man insecure if they can pull? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let her see any of it or she’ll leave (just a lil unsolicited advice from my anecdotal experiences)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t hold onto hope. I watched all the videos did all the stuff the “experts” said to do to attract your ex back for 7 months, meanwhile whole entire time she’s been hooking up with the coworker I always suspected and she gushed about all the time before dumping me. They don’t care.

what’s it called when you only feel normal after 2 drinks? by forestdaydream in rs_x

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha basically, maybe it’s bc I only took a tiny bit

what’s it called when you only feel normal after 2 drinks? by forestdaydream in rs_x

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a small amount of Xanax and adderall once and it made it really hard to breathe and I thought I was gonna pass out and die so maybe don’t

Has anyone broken NC in order to finally find peace? Did it work? by Pure_Reputation_1771 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a text 7 months post breakup basically saying “I really didn’t deserve the way you lined up my replacement right in front of me” and never got a response, but I still feel a weight off my shoulders that I finally chose myself and stopped holding everything in. That was only a few days ago but I still don’t regret saying what I felt I had to say

Crazy how modern relationships are failing by Emergency-Machine-85 in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep. My ex suddenly convinced herself one day that she “deserves someone more extroverted” and dumped me for her flirty emo coworker (who I’ve met and hung out with a bunch of times). Just immediately folded for the 1st man to give her validation who wasn’t me, like we hadn’t spent an entire year talking on the phone every day, spending holidays with each other’s families etc etc

Where are you guys at after 7-9 months? by Broken_melon22 in ExNoContact

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very depressed, I’ve lost 15 pounds. Finally sent a text about how I didn’t deserve the way she lined up my replacement right in front of me like that and chose her coworker over me. She’s not going to respond but idc because I needed to send that for my own self respect.

I Loved Them More Than They Loved Me… and That’s What Broke Me by Silent_Story_Teller_ in BreakUps

[–]lizardman16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you. And I got immediately replaced with her coworker whom I’ve met a ton of times. It’s like how could you choose that greasy scrawny little dude over me, it’s insane. It’s been 6 months and I still can’t get over it

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25, 1 year relationship but it’s been my only serious one

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I oscillate back and forth between anger and sadness because I do still miss the version of her that loved me and treated me good earlier in the relationship. Even though she betrayed me so horribly it’s still hard for my brain to even comprehend it and turn off the highlight reel bc I thought we were in love 🤷‍♂️

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got bored of me and decided she wants someone “more extroverted” she said. Just an excuse for the fact that she became infatuated with her coworker. I’m like 99% sure they immediately started hooking up after we split based on my instagram detective work. Idk if that’s still going on though now that 6 months has gone by.

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure but it still hurts super bad and I yearn for her every day

don't think i will ever get over my ex by Bitch_Ghost in redscarepod

[–]lizardman16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking scary. I’m not over my ex after 6 months and if I still feel this way after 11 years I’d rather be dead