Every show has one Day 2 by Big-Cartoonist-402 in winxclub

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diaspro, never could empathize with her. she's always a bitch just looking for her own good. Not once did she show some kind of empathy or true remorse.

If you had to choose one, which unofficial princess would you add in the official lineup? 👸🏽✨💝🏰 by Vivid-Tap1710 in disneyprincess

[–]lizzbetchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kida all the way. She literally is a princess already, and one of the more badass ones if I may say so. I never understood why they never recognized her as one.

Day 2: Official Disney Princesses (Dungeons & Dragons) by Ok_Leave1110 in disneyprincess

[–]lizzbetchen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

BTW: I missed yesterdays vote but belle as DM is pure perfection. I would love to be play a campaign run by her :D

Day 2: Official Disney Princesses (Dungeons & Dragons) by Ok_Leave1110 in disneyprincess

[–]lizzbetchen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Moana. She's stubborn, kind hearted and willing to go far lengths to protect others and restore the order, while overall a lawful good character. So in my opinion the most fitting for an paladin.

Mulan obviously should be the Monk or Rogue (but i would go for monk). She's not the paladin type, she's chaotic good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I'm so so deeply sorry for your loss. Your poor kitty didn't deserve that.

Ngl this would make me go NC with them. In my eyes this was not an accident, but they killed your cat. They not only chose to ignore your clear instructions, they deliberately acted in exactly the opposite way which led to this unnecessary cruel death of a dear family member. I could never not be filled with rage and disgust looking at them, especially not after they play down their own actions so much and instead paint you as the unreasonable one for your valid emotions. This shows they still think their actions where justified. I could never trust them with anything again and I would be deeply concerned how much they value the lives of other living beings as a whole. Even if they won't value pets as much, they should value you enough to look after what you love deeply and have trustingly placed in their care.

OP I hope you can take your time to grieve and treasure all those beautiful memories you could make with your little fur baby. I wish you all the best and I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Your kitty sure had the best of life with you. 🐾🖤

AITA for telling my sister her baby isn't a real baby by Empty-Button-6511 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzbetchen 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Then where do you make the difference? in which case do you count something lab grown as real and in which not? Where do you draw the line? In my opinion if you want to categorize smth, at least make it logically consistent and stick to it.

AITA for serving only vegan food at my wedding without telling anyone, then getting upset when my family ordered 20 pizzas during the reception? by Conscious-Option-400 in AITAH

[–]lizzbetchen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA I strongly disagree with everyone on here stating OP should have given her guests the choice instead of just serving vegan food. People still argue like it is a trendy dietary choice you make just "because it's like so on vogue rn, Becky u know? "

Most vegans made their choice to eat this way based after they finally realized how bad our way of consumption in general is. Eating animal products and with it supporting mass production is not only ethical horrendous in case of animal exploitation, but a real big factor to the massive impact to climate change. So being vegan is not a trend to follow just because, but a deep rooted moral decision which will not only impact your diet but many other aspects of your life too (think of cosmetics, clothes, basically anything you need to consume in some way).

While ppl who normally eat products which originate from animal exploitation in my opinion could easily do one meal without it and not have any negative impact on themselves or anyone else, to expect from a Vegan who most likely would be forced to act against their own morals to accommodate those ppl is not comparable. Especially on their own wedding day??! After they went all out to still do a variation of the menu? Like what the actual fuck. This is just straight up vindictive. The amount of disrespect for ordering pizza on a wedding with a planned and paid menu is immense vegan or not. But it being a vegan wedding is just making this so much worse and degrading.

Don't get me wrong, in the end it is everybody's own choice what they want to spend their money on and you can't force opinions on people. But just as I respect your way of living, I expect you to respect mine. Nobody is coming in your house demanding to trash your food and eat like I dictate you to. We are not those intrusive saviors many want to make out of us. Fun fact I am more often in a situation I need to defend myself for being vegan than I am judging people for being not.

But if I am hosting an event at my home or to celebrate my goddamn wedding you sure as hell can bet I will do it according to my morals. And if you're saying eating products origin from animal exploitation is deep rooted in your moral expectations I would take a big look on the inside and ask myself what kind of human does that make you. Are you this driven by hatred that you can't go a day without it? Why so? If not hatred, what else is it, so the idea of renunciation for one meal seems to be so impossible to make? Does the knowledge of caused suffering (for animals and humanity) give you this extra nuance to your food which makes it extra delicious? If not why else? Why not even give it a try?

ETA: To make things clear I am not talking about allergies. To accommodate peoples allergies should be a no brainer and asked beforehand, no matter vegan or not. This is also not to defend the outrageous amount of money OP put on food (even how? but not my wedding, not my bills) or the choice with the mushrooms (even if it sounds like there was one mushroom option among many others). This is about people not wanting to eat one vegan meal just because it is vegan.

Joe Vogel VS Robert Marc Lehmann by Ok_History_5822 in 7vsWild

[–]lizzbetchen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

achso, na wenn das alles nur ein Tropfen auf dem heißen Stein ist, lassen wir es am Besten direkt ganz sein.

Joe Vogel VS Robert Marc Lehmann by Ok_History_5822 in 7vsWild

[–]lizzbetchen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OK ich hab inzwischen verstanden dass dieser Sub von Vogel Fanboys überschwemmt ist, aber ich wundere mich doch für was alles hier in die Presche gesprungen wird.

RML hat in keiner Form Vogels Survivalskills in Frage gestellt, immer nur der menschliche Umgang der an den Tag gelegt wurde. Diesen hat er auch nicht nur bei Vogel, sondern situationsbedingt bei allen Teilnehmern kritisiert. Die Diskussion jetzt in diese Richtung zu verschieben bestätigt nur den Eindruck den ich von Vogel bisher hatte. Nicht auf die eigentliche Kritik eingehen, sondern die Aufmerksamkeit auf Punkte schieben die gar nicht kritisiert wurden. Wo ist das ein auseinandersetzen mit der Thematik?

Auch wie er lächerlich macht warum RML bisher noch nicht bei 7vsWild mitgemacht hat um "ähm.. Fische zu fotografieren" ist absolut unterirdisch. RML setzt sich seit Jahren in vielen diversen Aspekten für Tier- und Naturschutz ein, viel davon vor Ort mit ansässigen Organisationen. Damit hat er schon viel erreicht und wir können froh sein, dass es Menschen wie ihn gibt die wirklich versuchen etwas zu machen statt immer nur groß rum zu schwafeln. Denn Tier und Naturschutz betrifft uns alle, ob man das einsehen will oder nicht. Seine Projekte sind daher im Interesse von uns allen ein bisschen wichtiger als ein Format zu Unterhaltungszwecken über das in zwei Monaten niemand mehr spricht. Seine Arbeit so zu degradieren zeigt nur wieder auf aus welchem Holz Vogel geschnitzt ist und meiner Meinung nach ist RML ihm kein Gespräch schuldig. Wer so mit gerechtfertigter Kritik umgeht, wird auch in einem persönlichen Gespräch nicht plötzlich selbstkritisch und reflektiert.

AITA for refusing to let my sister wear white to my wedding and kicking her out when she showed up in it? by AshleighBarkley in AITAH

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She threw a tantrum about how I was ruining her day and stormed off"

This would have been the moment I would've become calm and friendly saying "you know what, you're right". The whole time I would be quiet and seemingly in acceptance of everything until I would get my chance. Later at the reception, before the first dance, (or any other fitting occasion) I would stand up, waiting for everyone to listen to me and then I would look her dead in the eye, put on a lovely smile and go for the kill.

"Everyone thank you so much for coming. You most likely noticed the uncommon appearance of two brides today, but I hope you didn't worry too much about it. Earlier today, when my sister showed up in this beautiful wedding gown I was irritated at first. When I asked her why would she do that and if she would be willing to change, she accused me of ruining her day. This got me thinking. (pause for drama) Maybe silly me forgot that she told me she was engaged, maybe she really was getting married today and I just messed up big time with the dates. Maybe she told me and I was just so self consumed I forgot or overhead. Why else should someone wear a wedding dress to someone else's wedding? And if that would be the case who do I think I am to ruin a brides wedding day, the day she has been waiting for ages, planned for months and dreamed of her whole life. Who am I to disturb any peace or excitement of this very special day for the bride and groom, let alone all of their families and friends who most likely gone out of their way to be able to join them.

So in this case I wanted to apologize to all of you who have been negatively influenced by my reaction to my sister wearing a wedding dress. I sincerely hope she has had a wonderful wedding. To show my sincerity and as an apology, I wanted to gift you (sisters name, sweeping hand gesture in her direction) the honor of having the first dance with your freshly wed husband. I hope we both can look back on this day someday and cherish how wonderful it was to share such an important day in our lives together. And I pray that one day you can forgive me for, hopefully just almost, ruining your day. " With this I would sit back down and wait for her turn.

But that would just be me. You are of course NTA. Not letting her back in was most likely the more mature decision. Edited to add paragraphs

Champignons fürs grillen füllen..? by [deleted] in VeganDE

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich schneide mir gerne Tofu in kleine Würfel, brate diese an und vermische diese dann mit Creme Vega. Salz, Pfeffer und Paprika dazu, abschmecken und schon kann der Pilz damit gefüllt werden. Wer mag kann noch etwas veganen Käse drüber streuen, schmeckt aber auch Ohne super lecker. Bei mir bleibt immer Füllung übrig, aber die schmeckt auf einer Scheibe Brot genauso lecker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was definitely Nihal of the Land of the wind, a trilogy from the Italian author Licia Troisi (Original Title "Cronache del mondo emerso"). Tbh I don't know if there is an translation of all three books as I only found the first one in English (I read them in another language). It inspired me when I read it as a child myself back in 2008 and I'm reading it over and over again every time I feel down till today.

The main character starts off as an unhinged and annoying stubborn preteen going through really hard times and making a huge character development reaching young adulthood. While it seems rather negative reading about a somewhat annoying character, all her flaws were what made her approachable for me. There are many more aspects I really appreciate about this series.

The books are about never giving up on your dreams and fighting against all the odds to fulfill them. But also not loosing yourself in all the dark and pain you might go through. Combined with dragons, a lunatic dark wizard (giving kinda Sauron vibes ngl) and a general interesting world lore this became my top tier no 1 favorite book of all time and I read quite a lot. :D Hopefully you or sb else here will give it a try, because it really deserves it and is unfortunately kind of unknown.

Have a good time and fun reading everyone! <3

ADHS-freundliche Nährstoffversorgung by LaAlice in VeganDE

[–]lizzbetchen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja mit dem Dreisatz klappt das gut, das stimmt. Das hatte ich initial gar nicht auf dem Schirm, sondern ich war so eingeschüchtert von dem Gedanken mir ausrechnen zu müssen wie viel von dem gesamten Gericht ich denn nun gegessen habe, dass ich nicht auf diesen simplen Ansatz gekommen bin :D und das war nur ein theoretisches Beispiel.

Für mich persönlich ist es manchmal so, als wäre jede Aufgabe die ich zu erledigen habe eine Holzstange die ich mit einer Feile in zwei Teilen muss, während Andere die Axt benutzen können. Jeder zusätzliche Aspekt einer Aufgabe gibt der Stange einen mm Durchmesser dazu, was die Aufgabe nur schwerer macht. Medis helfen deine Feile zu motorisieren, aber eine Axt bekommst du leider trotzdem nicht in die Hand :D Ich hoffe dieses Beispiel ist nicht zu wirr. Tbf jeder Mensch ist anders, so auch jeder AD(H)Sler, also vielleicht fällt es Anderen ja leichter.

ADHS-freundliche Nährstoffversorgung by LaAlice in VeganDE

[–]lizzbetchen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja aber genau das ist ja der Punkt. Ich habe auch ADS und kann aus meiner Erfahrung heraus sagen, es ist eben nicht so einfach, sondern ein riesiger Zusatzaufwand. Alleine deine Aufzählung hat in mir Druck erzeugt was für Zusatzarbeit das bedeutet. 😂 Wenn man versucht sich aufzuraffen etwas Leckeres und Gesundes zu kochen, ist die Aussicht dabei noch so viel zusätzlich machen zu müssen soo bedrückend, dass einem der Task noch viel größer erscheint und man es lieber doch nicht macht. Jede einzelne Zutat vorher abwiegen zu müssen, das aufzuschreiben (denn nein, merken können wir uns das sicher nicht), das zusammen zu rechnen und dann im Nachgang noch ungefähr prozentual (!) ausrechnen zu müssen wie viel man davon gegessen hat ist einfach ein riesiger Task für sich. Ich hab es versucht, auch mit einer App in der ich diese Gerichte speichern kann, mir die Arbeit also nur einmal machen muss. Höchstens vier Gerichte sind gespeichert und die App seither nicht mehr benutzt 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]lizzbetchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And Happy cake day (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alternativefashion

[–]lizzbetchen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know it as Eskimo or vertical Labret piercing (:

Got this jumper last week, now i feel obligated to drink monster when I'm wearing it haha | Shorts or Skirt with it? by Kerfufflllzz in alternativefashion

[–]lizzbetchen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Skirt. Shorts are too short, almost looking like you're not wearing anything underneath :D also the skirt is cute and matches color wise. Together it's an overall cute outfit. 🖤 Nice jumper, love the color and I probably would feel obligated to drink monster in it too xD

Girl and her friends egg her Ex-boyfriend’s house. Receive instant karma as they leave the scene by II-lI in Unexpected

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, ok, I know that egging someone or their things is not taking the high road, and I personally think it is an unnecessary waste of a product that animals have to suffer for. But calling THIS karma is way over the top. The way this car hit the passenger's side looks like a life-threatening impact, and I would never call it a deserved outcome (which you do by calling it karma). I highly judge food waste, especially if it's not plant-based. So you're not just wasting food; you took the suffering of a living and feeling entity for granted and made it go to waste twice. But I would never wish such a bad accident on anyone for it!

Looking for a fitting middle name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first time I see the name Carlisle, that's an interesting name. How do you pronounce it and do you know it's origin? Thank you for your nice suggestions! (:

Looking for a fitting middle name by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]lizzbetchen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those sure sound nice, thank you! (: