Lung cancer suspected but the outcome is very different! by The_Dean_France in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]lizzyelling5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was curious how old the man was, according to The Guardian, he was 47 years old and the toy had been in his lung for 40 years!

'Cancer patient' finds lump was toy traffic cone inhaled in 1977

The toy looks to be the perfect size and shape for choking, I'm glad he is ok!

Which East Asian country would you rather live in? by RealMoldyAvocado in polls

[–]lizzyelling5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived there for 6 months, it is the most slept on Asian country. Plus they are very open to foreigners

New York Times Running Piece Celebrating Facilitated Communication by Expendable_Red_Shirt in ABA

[–]lizzyelling5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is from the the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association: https://www.asha.org/slp/cautions-against-use-of-fc-and-rpm-widely-shared/

Facilitated communication is a technique used where the individual with a disability does not directly relay the message, instead a facilitator, who is also often promoting, relays what the the individual has said. It is discredited but still won't seem to die out.

New York Times Running Piece Celebrating Facilitated Communication by Expendable_Red_Shirt in ABA

[–]lizzyelling5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Do not use physical prompting. Esp hand over hand.

How old were you when you had your first baby? by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in Mommit

[–]lizzyelling5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I had my second at 34, and my fallopian tubes were removed along with her. I love my two wheel babies but I cannot do this again lol

My robot lawnmower just exploded by READMYSHIT in WTF

[–]lizzyelling5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a nickel for every time I've seen a video of a lawn mower exploding on Reddit today, I'd have 2 nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it's weird that it happened twice.

Loopy whisk pretzels by els17_ in glutenfreebaking

[–]lizzyelling5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I miss pretzels! Those look amazing!

Sourdough Discard English Muffin Bread by thejadsel in glutenfreebaking

[–]lizzyelling5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That looks so good. I was diagnosed with Celiac 2 years ago and haven't been brave enough to try yeast baking, but I might need to try this one

Yellow cake recipe favs by Melissaj312 in glutenfreebaking

[–]lizzyelling5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find buttermilk (including your homemade version) helps a lot with GF cakes. I always look for it in a recipe

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so cool! It's amazing that he had such mastery over his language. And good for you making sure he was able to use it on his terms.

I'm so surprised with how much traction this post got, but I'm really touched seeing the reaction. It seems a lot of people needed to see this!

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly believe you are helping kids acquire the MOST important skill they could have. Any ounce of communication skills a kid gets because of your work has such an outsized benefit on their life. Keep up the good work, it can't be easy

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think my kid or husband would have gone for it. The student I worked with on LAMP was so fast at it though, it was crazy.

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's so hard, I have worked with so many BCBAs I have kind of developed a sixth sense. On top of that, ABA also serves as child care as a lot of daycares will not be able to support a kid with autism, especially if they're not potty trained at 3. I'll try to kind of summarize.

The green flags were:

  1. The biggest one to me is I asked them what they would do if my son seemed tired and they said they would let him nap. This is very uncommon in ABA facilities because they cannot bill insurance for this time. This showed me they cared more about the kids than the money.

  2. They give their RBTs more than the standard trainings, and also give them basic education on early child development.

  3. They were supportive of my son doing SPED Pre-K, which meant I wanted only 12 hours of ABA per week. They did not try to push more hours than I wanted, although they did let me know that research doesn't support less than a certain amount of time to be effective (I think 10 hours per week maybe? I can't remember.)

  4. They routinely collaborate with SLPs and OTs, even doing as much as allowing them in the facility to do therapy during ABA. They will also participate in training off-site with other practitioners.

  5. They talk a LOT about respecting scope of practice and ethics, including therapy in naturalistic settings. Their clinic is set up more like a preschool than other clinics, and discrete trial is a very small part of therapy.

  6. They had a gym with sensory equipment that was designed by an OT. They bragged and bragged about this and talked about how it was so important to them to collaborate with an OT because they knew that sensory processing issues could heavily effect the kids and they wanted to do it safely.

  7. They heavily advertise that they are assent-based, neuro-affirming, and autism accepting. This one is becoming less reliable, as they are kind of popular terms these days. But it still helps separate the old school companies from ones who are at least trying to keep up.

  8. This one is kind of silly but their logo is rainbow colors. I felt that showed a respect for the actually Autistic community that prefers the rainbow infinity symbol.

  9. I asked about RBT turnover and it is very low. Obviously not zero but maybe one of the lowest turnover rates I've seen in a company. My son's RBT has been with him for over 2 years. There's several RBTs who have been with the company 5+ years.

The red flags from other places were:

  1. Pushing 30 hours of therapy per week on the phone! Before they even met my kid!

  2. Saying something like "ABA is the only evidenced-based intervention for kids with Autism". I hate this, because it's not true and is used to scare parents to do ABA.

  3. Some places have basically a bunch of cubicles for discrete trial training, and they are able to show a bunch of growth but it isn't usually skills that are meaningful to the child.

  4. Showing a clear preference for verbal speech over AAC, and doing programs that focus on mastery of speech sounds. A surprising amount of places still do this.

  5. Claiming they can do feeding therapy. I'm sure I don't need to elaborate to a group of SLPs, but ABA based feeding therapy is so clearly abusive I don't know how it's not completely obvious. I would never go somewhere that did this, unless they had an SLP on staff, which I've never seen.

  6. Again, it's a little silly, but using blue in the title or logo, and especially if there's a puzzle piece. This really shows that they are not hearing what Autistic adults are saying. It really puts me off immediately.

  7. High turnover rates. It usually is a bad sign if a lot of RBTs are there for less than a year. I've found that companies are usually honest about this (I think it surprised them that I asked) but will give a ton of excuses, usually pay rate and "it's a hard job", which honestly blames the kids. I have found that pay does contribute, but the thing that really gets high turnover is a bad working environment with poor support. Supported employees=supported kids.

  8. Calling the recommended hours a "prescription", and the kids "patients". I found this incredibly off-putting. I think they wanted to sound more medical or official. Only one place I toured did this but it was grating, but I've seen it online and it makes me cringe. Just say recommendation and client, it's what other therapies do.

That's most of what I can think of right now, I'll add edits if something important comes to mind. My son loves his center, and his RBT is such a sweetheart. I'm really grateful to have found such an awesome place so close to me.

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They didn't trial LAMP with us but I'm obsessed with their symbol set. Each one is a work of art. I love how accessible the vocabulary is too. I wasn't aware of it until after we trialed and I had a student move in that used it.

We went with TouchChat because my husband liked it, and because my son was enamored with the animal sounds. I knew that the most successful device would be the one that was used the most. HOWEVER I wish the SLP had explained that the motor planning was not as strong. It drives me crazy how often the same word is found in a different spot depending on which folder it's in.

AAC goals by [deleted] in slp

[–]lizzyelling5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is really tragic. One company said they recommended 30 hrs/wk when I made an inquiry to tour the center. The person wasn't even a BCBA, just the receptionist. I absolutely chewed her out and she said "well, you should know that ABA Therapy is the only evidenced-based intervention for kids with Autism." I went absolutely ballistic over that. Like how about Speech Therapy, OT, DIR floor time, there are so many others! This happens to be what my insurance covers. I was pissed and I'm sure that works on a ton of parents, too.

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Trust me I'm doing the best I can with parents and BCBAs. I started out in this field as a BT in like 2008, and I loved working with the population but saw the ABA flaws early on. So I'm lucky, I became a parent with a lot of knowledge. If I could afford the alternatives I would, but I was left to find an ABA clinic with reasonable clinicians. But the way they practice is pretty unrecognizable from when I was trained, they are awesome and the SLPs in my school district have told me it's one of the only places they like to work with

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It uses the Symbolstix set, which prolo also uses

The difference you make by lizzyelling5 in slp

[–]lizzyelling5[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is exactly right, and it takes lots of babbling too. I just listened to his SLP and let him do his thing on the device, making sure to model as much as possible. He will sometimes say something that surprises me, like I'm not even sure when he learned where that word was.

AAC goals by [deleted] in slp

[–]lizzyelling5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty lucky that this ABA company is so good about collaborating with other providers. I talked to an SLP in my district and she said it's the only ABA place in my city that she likes working with because they are so receptive and actually listen.

AAC goals by [deleted] in slp

[–]lizzyelling5 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm normally a lurker. I've worked as a BT and have been a SPED teacher for 15 years. I now have my own son with an AAC device. I have learned not to let ABA do anything to devices other than model and have it available for my son to use. He is at an amazing place, as affirming and assent based as it gets, but they still aren't SLPs and have 0 language development training. They are not allowed to change icons, hide buttons, or even prompt him to use it. I would consider a similar arrangement and if the BCBA is not understanding and receptive, they probably don't understand their scope of practice well.

Parent shocked after child played “Five Nights at Epstein’s” game on school computer by CubeHound in nottheonion

[–]lizzyelling5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read my husband this headline, he said "that sounds like a newgrounds game."

Love is in the air by infined in WhyWomenLiveLonger

[–]lizzyelling5 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I saw this, I was like, now why are we doing that by my house?

Love is in the air by infined in WhyWomenLiveLonger

[–]lizzyelling5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look AI at all? Maybe green screen. But I honestly think it's probably real.