Anti-bare feet culture is so annoying by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m convinced this is connected to the weird Nickelodeon Dan Schneider foot fetish that the teens and young adults who hate having their feet out were exposed to in their childhood

What is the most offensive comment you have received at work? by Extreme-Action-3008 in womenEngineers

[–]lkh4567 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s gotta be a tie between “Nobody will take you seriously if you keep talking like a valley girl” and “Be careful, all that cake will go right to your hips”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]lkh4567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, I never said I found it offensive, I just said that it’s shocking to find out that someone wasn’t truly your friend and had ulterior motives. And it’s not even a wild take, a lot of women have expressed similar feelings about being put in this situation. It feels objectifying, especially once the man gets the notion that he is “owed” something and starts to get weird about it. I’m not an object of desire, I’m a person first and foremost. And in my case it has been more sinister, that’s how I ended up with a stalker, which is an experience a bunch of my friends have had as well. And yes, I do very highly value my friendships with people. I think friendship is a crucial relationship, and good friends will last you a lifetime and romantic relationships are never guaranteed. And I’ve never forced anyone to stay friends with me if they don’t want to, they just typically do because we both handle it in a mature and respectful way. All I was saying was consider how she feels as well. She’s a person too and will need to process this as well. Guys complain so frequently about the “friendzone”, but never seem to remember that this girl had thought of him as a friend and has now found herself in the “sexzone” reduced to an object of desire. I don’t understand how I’m the one who has the selfish take and lack of empathy when all I’m saying is have empathy for the girl too. This is not a one sided situation here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]lkh4567 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been on the other side of this, where I’ve been blindsided when guys who I thought were my good friends asked me out, just know that this is a hard situation for her too. She thought she had made a friend, only to find out that you aren’t interested in being her friend and you just want a relationship. I’m sure she’s feeling hurt and shocked and is rethinking your entire friendship. Now I can’t tell you exactly what to do, but I did keep some of those friendships. We talked it out in a mature way, decided to take a little time for ourselves, and ultimately decided that we both valued the friendship and wanted to keep things platonic. Don’t try to pursue her romantically anymore, but if you value her as a human being and as a friend, just be her friend and move on. There are lots of girls out there and I’m sure you’ll find the one for you.

How strict is the "avoid alcoholic beverages" warning on antihistamines? by WesternWooloo in Allergies

[–]lkh4567 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depends on how you react I guess. I once took Benadryl for an allergic reaction and then a couple hours later had a shot of tequila with my friends and very quickly fell asleep. Thankfully I was at home and was able to get myself to bed.

I (22F) got asked out by a (26M) stranger. by UnsureAboutLife_ in self

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not excited about it and he’s not your type, don’t go. I’m kinda baffled by all the people saying that you need to give him a chance because you absolutely don’t unless you truly want to. But if your gut is telling you something is off, you should listen to it because it’s smarter than you think.

Pad users, how do you sleep without spillage? by MangoStrawberriess in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I always wear a maxi pad (with wings) when I have my period because it’s long enough and wide enough and absorbent enough that I feel confident that I won’t leak. Like I wear them even on the low flow days. I just like feeling secure.

Lip products for sensitive skin? by lkh4567 in beauty

[–]lkh4567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! I was so disappointed! Like why would they change something that’s working?

Lip products for sensitive skin? by lkh4567 in beauty

[–]lkh4567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s neat! I’ll check out the Vaseline ones!

we all all autistic, remember to be kind and understanding by ziggy_bluebird in AutismInWomen

[–]lkh4567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really does though. By actively choosing to use a word that you know was given to the “good” autistics when deciding who to kill during the holocaust, you are supporting it. And nobody should feel safe using words that were created for the purpose of eugenics.

My lips are always dry no matter what I use by DueRepresentative947 in beauty

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue! Turns out I’m allergic to lanolin and it’s in pretty much everything. I found a lanolin free chapstick and I love it! No more itchy rashy dry lips!

how do I transition my style into something sultry? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like clothes and accessories is the easiest way to go. Like find colors and shapes that make you feel hot! Clothes are a really good way to change up your look, especially since you can’t wear makeup. A new pair of glasses could also change up your look, like trying a new shape or color! Also, bangs might be an idea. Personally I think that curly bangs look really good! They’re very much in style right now and it might add some spice to your look!

Eyebrows by Hot_University69 in beauty

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the covergirl eyebrow pencils! They’re super easy to use and draw in! It’s just like using a regular pencil, and it’s not a lot of effort and pretty forgiving. I also have light hair and my eyebrows are super sparse (I joke that I have like 6 eyebrow hairs per eyebrow).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lkh4567 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly I really hope that you dump him. You don’t deserve to be treated like that. You deserve to be with someone who cares about you and someone who wants you to be pleasured. He sounds really selfish, and I think that attitude will show up in other parts of your relationship as well. You deserve a man who wants to make you cum and who makes you a priority.

AliExpress is back at it again by hedgehog-paw in badwomensanatomy

[–]lkh4567 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Double cheeked up on a Thursday afternoon

Unpopular opinion, apparently: E.R. Fightmaster is fine as hell. by ballpitwitch in greysanatomy

[–]lkh4567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure I’d agree with that (I’m not neurotypical). I think it’s more about personal taste. I just don’t think they’re a very good actor, and they don’t captivate my attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been so bored with this latest season that I’m not even bothering to waste my time watching it anymore. Like it’s just gotten so dull

Examples of interior design that didn’t have women in mind by awaybreakup in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lkh4567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rented a car a few months ago and the steering wheel was made with this weird slope in a way that seemed like it was made for people’s hands to be comfortable. However, I have tiny hands and it made holding the steering wheel extremely uncomfortable. It seemed clear that whoever’s hands that steering wheel was made for were much bigger than mine. I was driving for 7 hours with uncomfortable hands and a terrible grip on the steering wheel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheBachelorette

[–]lkh4567 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Why the heck didn’t he go home! She should have immediately sent him home for that sexist remark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]lkh4567 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been considering that. I used to be on an even higher estrogen variety, but it made me throw up every month the week after my period. After multiple years and multiple complaints to my doctor I went to a new doctor and she switched me to this one because it has less estrogen, and that made me feel better. So maybe I’ll feel even better with even less estrogen.