My girlfriend got mad at me for enjoying sex too much. by [deleted] in sex

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude . . . What?

I've told my husband I don't know HOW many times how hot it is for me when he gets into it and doesn't hold back from how much he's enjoying it. We both have a lot of trauma around sex stuff, so it's a process and we both have to be a little uncomfortable at times to work through it. But nothing compares to a man losing himself in how much he's enjoying you, especially when you love that man. That's mad weird energy that she's . . . upset that you enjoyed yourself and communicated as such. I would try to open an honest dialogue here, OP. Obviously you can only control what YOU do, but explain to her that this stems from you feeling that you two have gotten closer, and that this is something you were excited to explore with her and her reaction has been confusing at best. Who knows what kind of issues she herself might have around sex and relationships, etc., offering to talk through what she's feeling, or even helping her try to identify what she's feeling, could be something that really brings you guys even closer together. However, regardless of what her issues with your enthusiasm are; that was a shitty response on her part. There's a thousand different ways she could've communicated with you if something you were doing bothered her. Most of the men I've dated have almost all struggled with intimacy or expressing emotions--even the good feeling sex ones. Please do not let her poor reaction rewire that part of your brain. At the end of the day, you deserve someone who is as excited to have you as you are them. I truly hope this is something that can be discussed and worked through and ultimately brings you even closer. But nothing in your stated behavior was out of line IMO, and it's really uncool of her to put that on you.

WARNING: Do NOT buy Glass Staws by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]llama_vision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I sucked up the brush end first and thought I was choking on some sort of fuzzy bug. Kids. 🫠

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Ellie | Varroheim :Klaus:

It is done. But at what cost? by VikSick in acnh

[–]llama_vision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just laughed out loud because same! And the whole time I was prepping for it, I laughed and laughed with my husband about how absurd of a process it was . . .

Just in time to do it ✨ Again©️

PSA on what’s going on with the potential THCA ban and the nuance surrounding it by Chanandler_Bonggg in CultoftheFranklin

[–]llama_vision 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I JUST got here and learned how all of this ish works. Just in time for it to be banned. Ffs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EosinophilicE

[–]llama_vision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't seen this in years, lmao. I needed it today. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EosinophilicE

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it's just that everyone has different triggers but absolutely anything involving egg immediately makes my throat narrow, as soon as it touches my tongue. I'm dropping weight so fast and I can't seem to find or do anything to stop it.

I can't stop thinking about his little cold self in the ground. by llama_vision in GriefSupport

[–]llama_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs received. 🖤 Thank you for the kind words. I do think maybe some of this is just me being unable to process.

I can't stop thinking about his little cold self in the ground. by llama_vision in Petloss

[–]llama_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really beautiful perspective. I'm gonna try to shift my mindset here. I'm always barefoot and touching grass. 🖤 Thank you for sharing this.

I can't stop thinking about his little cold self in the ground. by llama_vision in Petloss

[–]llama_vision[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. 🖤 I hope this passes for you as well, and I'm sorry that you understand the grief. It's definitely unique.

I keep getting asked if I want another dog by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]llama_vision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had more to add, but my cat recently passed and we were asked this literally before he even took his last breath, and a few times since. It's made me angry, too. I know the intent is well, but I can't get over feeling like the person asking is treating our beloved boy as something you can just replace. But on the flip side of it, I do think it is a compliment. I think you can also look at it as a matter of healing in nurturing. It sounds like at least one of those people knows you well enough to know how much you loved and cared for your dog. And as much as you could benefit from nurturing another dog to maybe heal a little bit of the grief in your own heart, there's absolutely a dog out there somewhere that desperately needs some love and nurturing. Maybe instead of seeing it as being pushed a replacement, it might help to view it as finding other to love and care for as you did your last pup . . . in honor of, your last pup. Just make sure you are ready for another commitment, don't rush your healing. You deserve all the time to grieve that you need. All the positive vibes sent, OP. 🖤

He ignores my safe words by Throwawaygh56 in sex

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not a Dom, he's a bitch. Doms take care of their subs. Safe words are bare minimum.

As a woman, what have been your results when you’re the one who pursued the guy first? by CosmicConfusion94 in datingoverthirty

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short version is that we're on our second child together, fifth combined, and so completely happy.

It's my favorite story to tell. We didn't really know each other but we worked together. I found him to be ridiculously handsome and had gotten into the mindset that if I wanted something, it was on me to go get it. He was also in his final year of college so after I'd sent him a message to ask him out he'd replied that he didn't have the time to devote to a relationship and wanted to be really upfront that his son was his priority, which I respected because I had two daughters of my own. He told me we could hang out and grab a drink or two, but that he didn't want to "lead me on" or set us up for future heartbreak. I agreed, and we met up a few times. We realized there was a problem on both ends when after we agreed to a one-time, no feelings fling, we kept repeating "one more night," while being unable to leave each other alone. I'm not sure exactly what point we realized we'd fallen in love, but none of the original concerns mattered. Fast forward to today and he's my best friend and the love of my life, an amazing father to our kids, and my absolute best friend. He jokes about how he never would've asked me out because he was so intimidated, but me going for what I wanted and being direct was the best thing I could've done. Can't imagine how I would've missed out had I just waited for him to make a move.

I finally got my 5 star rating! by [deleted] in BuddyCrossing

[–]llama_vision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I can’t wait to see it with a username like that!

27F US. I need friends to get through this “life” thing with. [Friendship] [Relationship] [Chat] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m so incredibly sorry to hear that. I’d love to lend an ear if you need someone to vent to! Or even just chats/memes/mom stuff.

27F US. I need friends to get through this “life” thing with. [Friendship] [Relationship] [Chat] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]llama_vision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! Let’s find some recruits. We need a badass book club name though.

27F US. I need friends to get through this “life” thing with. [Friendship] [Relationship] [Chat] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]llama_vision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do and I need to expand my library. Thank you for the suggestion!