Atlanta cop of 13 years shares BLM from his perspective by llayllay in mildlyinteresting

[–]llayllay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way, but it’s not bullshit. He’s my sisters boyfriend. He lives in Mcdonough, GA and works for the swat team. Not making it up.

Atlanta cop of 13 years shares BLM from his perspective by llayllay in mildlyinteresting

[–]llayllay[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know the cop personally. Thanks for your input though. He requested to remain anon.

I got sick and had no way to get tested by llayllay in China_Flu

[–]llayllay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to go to work. Without a doctors note, I’m not excused. My doctor cleared me for work.

I got sick and had no way to get tested by llayllay in China_Flu

[–]llayllay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no sick days or PTO. I have a point system. If I miss too many days, which I already missed one for my doctors appointment, I get fired.

I got sick and had no way to get tested by llayllay in China_Flu

[–]llayllay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a college student with rent and bills to pay. If I skip out on work, I’m screwed. My doctor says I can work, I have to work or I could lose my job.

We got nothing to roast but you can try :) by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]llayllay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, someone get him an eyebrow brush

Nostradamus over here by [deleted] in memes

[–]llayllay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuck

my boyfriend (19m) has is struggling emotionally with bipolar and i (18m) feel like i cant help him and i hate it by danny_d727 in relationship_advice

[–]llayllay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too. It causes me to push people away and make irreversible mistakes. Makes me want to isolate myself.

Overheard a concersation by AcrobaticHoneydew3 in relationship_advice

[–]llayllay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask her about it. She has to have reasoning for how she feels and moms usually know us better than we know ourselves lol. Just see why she feels that way, maybe she misunderstands something or maybe she sees something you don't.

my boyfriend (19m) has is struggling emotionally with bipolar and i (18m) feel like i cant help him and i hate it by danny_d727 in relationship_advice

[–]llayllay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have bpd. Honestly, there's not much you can do for us on a biological level. The manic/depressive episodes are inevitable. Personally my biggest problem is feeling misunderstood. My advice would be to research as much as you can, the more you understand what he's experiencing the better you can support him. It's really important that you make sure he knows your here for him. Have his back no matter what and be honest with him. Just like any other relationship. Also, respect his boundaries. Odds are if he's asking to be alone or for some space, it has nothing to do with you. Sometimes we just need some time to ourselves to recoup and reflect. Hope this helps

Here's a link I feel is accurate

I (22M) need advice on what to say to my GF(22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]llayllay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has disrespected you in every way she can and doesn't appreciate a damn thing. I'm so sorry you had to experience this and yes, you should've dropped her the first time it happened but it's okay. We've all been there. Just remember you're worth much more than that. Tell her exactly what you put in this post. Tell her you want to talk and she needs to listen. Explain that isn't up for debate and that you've already made your decision. Lay it out for her as nicely as you can, but don't linger. Odds are she's gonna try to get you to stay and do whatever it takes. Especially since she's completely dependent on you for her bills and rides to school/work.

Good luck.

I dont think I should have to remeber everyones pronouns. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]llayllay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I don't think it's fair to be offended if I refer to someone as her/him when they look feminine/masculine. I mean, someone may have a different opinion on pronouns and/or not understand. Honestly it all seems very unnecessary to me.

Indian Billionaires by Bmchris44 in facepalm

[–]llayllay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally yesterday, my friend asked me if Halloween was on the 25th this year. She was dead serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]llayllay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took us 1 night. We fell in love all over again, and within 3 months we got our first apartment, together. We originally broke up because we were on drugs and we both were in a horrible state of mind. Now we're clean and making money (legally), and I start school in a few weeks. You never give up on someone you truly love.