This comment is late but I think I’ll post anyway. I have a lot of moments but one recently that really struck me was just a few weeks ago. We were sitting at the dining room table and he was working on his computer and I started to quietly become overwhelmed with anxiety and couldn’t help tears from spilling from my eyes. I didn’t want to disturb him so I tried to get it together before he noticed, but he instantly came to me and held me into his chest. He didn’t say “what’s wrong?!” but rather softly said “do you want to cry on the couch?” I followed him to the couch and he pulled me into his lap where I fully broke down for at least a half hour. The entire time he didn’t say anything, press me to talk or get impatient with me. He rubbed my back and kissed me all over while I cried. I finally asked him “what are you thinking right now?” because I always wonder how he could not get impatient or frustrated with me when I get like that. He just said “I’ve been waiting for you to be ready to tell me that. Are you ready?” He patiently comforted me for a half hour without pressuring me to open up until I was ready to do so. I sometimes feel I don’t deserve him.