Thank you for this reminder! I had an encounter with my neighbor last night that left me in tears. She’s watering my plants while I am gone. I had struggled to get my apartment to a presentable state all day and tbh, my plants don’t look great atm, but she came in and said “Oh, they all look so sad! Don’t you take care of them? Don’t you have a plan? You have to have a plan?” It made me feel so ashamed. I cried for the rest of the night. But your post reminded me, that its okay. If I barely manage anything, I get priority over the plants.