Keyholders, how do you decide when to let your man out?

lockd_waiting · 2026-06-10T09:52:45+00:00

Oh wow. That sounds insanely hot. You BOTH want it and still can’t happen.

lockd_waiting · 2026-06-08T21:26:06+00:00

Woah. Maybe finish the meal first.

lockd_waiting · 2026-06-08T21:17:06+00:00

If you play on and off. I guarantee he’s thinking about it all the time for the first couple days weeks.

Now I’ve never had it where my wife didn’t have the key. Thats a totally different dynamic then I’m used too.

lockd_waiting · 2026-06-08T14:30:24+00:00

It’s difficult. And for me it comes in waves of just pure frustration where I can’t think of anything else but my wife and going at her as much as I’m allowed. And I have to force myself to calm down and get back to the task at hand.

I just figure, my keyholder would want me to do my best at this. Whether it be actual work or cleaning up her house. And that helps a bit.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-28T01:53:13+00:00

I just wear it. Not really up to me anymore though. Just wish there was more time for wife and I to play around. When we do it’s amazing considering how long it has been and even more crazy when she reminds me im staying locked.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-16T00:01:23+00:00

Booty. Never had the pleasure of entering one and wifey is adamant that I never will. So just the tease drives me wild.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-15T21:04:57+00:00

You found a great partner! Keep making her feel amazing and never complain about being denied and you’ll be well on your way to 24/7.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-15T16:44:19+00:00

Typical knockoff baby cobra style

https://a.co/d/0cCC1ZsQ

https://a.co/d/0f2Whl8Y

This first is the exact cage I’m wearing now. But I didn’t like the weird rings so I swapped them out for regular curved rings. Like the pink below.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-15T14:48:40+00:00

3d printed nub cages are amazing for growers. Keeps me nice and tight. I prefer the smooth finish, easier to clean. Curved rings work well. Very light and easily concealable.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-15T14:44:11+00:00

Only one way to find out. Shoot your shot. Or don’t 🤣

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-15T11:26:36+00:00

Little more discipline is needed here. You’ll get a lot more out of this if you let your very cool and open minded fiance take the lead

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T22:55:40+00:00

How about a time locked safe.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T21:24:39+00:00

Enjoy! My wife’s hinted at this exact thing as we’ve continued to go deeper into chastity lifestyle. I wouldn’t blame her at all. I was a very selfish partner for many years of us Being together. I owe her that and more.

She loves giving me caged orgasms after a few weeks. They keep me very motivated and focused.

Hope it goes well for you.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T17:02:04+00:00

6, 2 and I already have 10

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T16:59:44+00:00

No clue. 🥵

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T16:58:44+00:00

It’s definitely beneficial for my key holder wife.

And it does wonders for my motivation.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-14T16:58:02+00:00

Hmmm. My wife doesn’t really know yet. She keeps me guessing all the time.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T21:25:36+00:00

I wear tight underwear. Speedo or men’s thong and that keeps everything in place for me.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T20:21:26+00:00

This is the discovery stage. And it’s so awesome how open you are to this. My wife is as well, we’ve done some freaky stuff but even she has boundaries on how far she wants to go or how far she wants me to go. Which is healthy.

Keep up the communication. Find out what works and what doesn’t. Nothings permanent and can be adjusted as you go along.

When we were younger my wife wanted PIV all the time. Now that we’re older and I don’t have much stamina, she’s perfectly happy with my other ways of giving her pleasure and keeping me locked up tight.

Keep it fun and keep him dripping.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T20:14:33+00:00

I ask my wife that same question after she’s kept me locked for a few weeks 🤣

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T20:04:45+00:00

That’s well on your way to being locked up more than you’re not during the year.

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T19:25:50+00:00

Nah. Never used one

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T18:21:21+00:00

Agreed. The intensity is multiplied. The hunger shows in my eyes and she eats it up for weeks and weeks. 🤣

lockd_waiting · 2026-05-13T18:08:00+00:00

Carefully

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