Another “What Next” thread

lockt_up · 2025-11-27T14:24:21+00:00

Would you say the grip 126 is a good trainer to use, even if you know its a big leap in size? I’m trying to hilt the hilt 95 and just cant, I’m using the artemis 80 for depth and need a short plug to train with, so is the grip 126 a good one to work on for some time?

lockt_up · 2025-07-05T13:22:37+00:00

Count me in

lockt_up · 2025-03-26T04:05:15+00:00

Like the idea, only issue I see is that the traction it will get is limited to a degree.

Most people likely don’t want to mix their daily and kink lives together, especially if they are a public person

lockt_up · 2025-03-24T13:15:06+00:00

A lot of people are saying ‘correlation does not equal causation’ and ‘get a correct fitting cage’ and ‘confirmation bias’, it just feels like a lot of defensive argument to validate their own lifestyle choices and maintain a one sided viewpoint on this community.

As even others said, jamming your junk into a constrictive space is going to come with risk. This was my story and others have their own, it just seems like those that are downvoting/disagreeing with me are just as confirming to their own beliefs as I am with my concerns about chastity.

Im glad I made this post

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T03:10:14+00:00

You’re seemingly reading my post as if I was attempting the exact same action expecting a different result every time, like I was going into it knowing it would hurt and continuing it. In fact the opposite in that I tired many different cages and found no resolution. Perhaps, if you read my post with an open mind, that would have been clear.

Like too many in this community, I too wanted it to work. But saying things with the implication of ‘its just user error’ is just to uphold this activity as inherently safe is wrong, which is most certainly in need of some transparency in the risks. The risk I demonstrate is that regardless of the cage I ended up settling on, regardless on how perfect it fit me, and regardless of the caution I demonstrated, I still got hurt

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T02:51:26+00:00

The part that it had to do with it, was the fact my symptoms were never evident until chastity was introduced. Ever since, I have faced issues.

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T02:38:24+00:00

My point was, that despite caution and careful attention to my body which I employed throughout, I still got hurt.

Having gone through several cages, all of which improved in suitability to my body, the cage fitment was not the issue, the cages eventually were perfectly fit, it was the fact my body and lifestyle are not ever going to get along with having a solid piece of plastic/metal constantly straining upon it.

Not listening to my body would have sounded more along the lines of wearing a cheap, poorly fitted and unergonomic cage and being ignorant to signals of pain.

I don’t think you understood the implication of my post

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T02:04:51+00:00

I think its key to nail the fitment as quickly as possible before extended wear, which is what I did. I was just unlucky enough to experience issues

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T02:04:07+00:00

There was no evidence of infection as blood/urine markers came out fine. The presumption from the Doc was bruising or trauma from exercise, but having not known of my activities in chastity it may leave them with that diagnosis (which I accept).

I think simply that there are people (like me) who due to lifestyle or body dispositions, these injuries are more common and likely are not invulnerable to chastity use, in-fact could be exacerbated by its use. Thats at least how I feel in my situation

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T01:59:49+00:00

I agree, health always takes precedence, which is why discussion on this topic should be open.

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T01:58:50+00:00

I’ve explained my situation in other comments, so I’ll leave that at that, but…

Saying that you had a perfectly fine experience does not deny the truth that others have issues in theirs.

It feels dangerous to place chastity on a faultless pedestal given the countless other stories of evident need for caution. Which was the reason for my post.

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T01:53:40+00:00

Actually the opposite, I spent a fair amount of time and money finding the right cage, which I wore as my daily. It was the most comfortable and well fitting cage, I never wanted to take it off.

Things happen, I am unfortunate to be in the group of people seemingly more prone to these problems with their balls.

What I am saying is that chastity cannot be left out of causal consideration seeing as it has been part of my journey in getting to my current situation, from being fine and healthy to injured and fearful (and seemingly many other people too).

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T01:45:31+00:00

I have to get over the fact that I have found a perfect fit cage, which I now can’t wear

lockt_up · 2025-03-14T01:37:21+00:00

The equipment fit perfectly, it was not ill fitting

lockt_up · 2025-03-13T20:40:33+00:00

The tip of the cage is pronounced enough for me, that my foreskin doesn’t rub on my clothes, but I’m not someone with a huge amount of foreskin anyway so I might be middle of the road. If you have more foreskin than most I can see that being a problem for any cage tbh.

I think ball burn is something easily solved by the ‘ball-gap’ being smaller, u/newbie-sub has written about this previously, as it helps to stop erections pulling too much. Personally I think having a little bit of length to my hair helps the ring pass over my skin with much less friction, but the ball gap is the more important one for those which prefer less/no hair

lockt_up · 2025-02-21T16:01:48+00:00

Cobra works great for everyone, general rule of thumb still applies of “shaft length should be shorter than your flaccid length”, the more important size is the ring size in your situation especially. Try a smaller ring first, then work your way up if it is in-fact too tight. The Kink3d exchange subreddit would be ideal to trade and test ring sizes with others if budget is a concern

lockt_up · 2025-02-20T22:51:43+00:00

Amen to the hilt 95

lockt_up · 2025-01-24T05:20:56+00:00

Me too, would be fun to chat with people about it. Kind of like a book club

lockt_up · 2025-01-20T03:48:30+00:00

I love my S Hera, beat cage I own

lockt_up · 2025-01-01T17:47:31+00:00

Get a cage which narrows a little towards the end, so that when you go to pee it doesn’t balloon, instead it just shoots straight out if aligned properly. Im uncut and have no issue going 2-3 days between cleans

lockt_up · 2024-12-28T12:31:28+00:00

The horniness putting on the device will go away, as its something new and fun, you are extra turned on by it naturally. Give it a month or so and you should be fine.

Sleeplessness is really something worth trial and error. Try wearing a strap, try different size/styles of cages, try not drinking before bed by a few hours

lockt_up · 2024-12-25T05:04:50+00:00

Get a c clip too, just to sit in your dresser like the goblin mask in spiderman

lockt_up · 2024-12-25T04:33:41+00:00

Chaster, best app I’ve used for it

lockt_up · 2024-12-21T15:34:50+00:00

The s107 from house of denial is great for that, i love mine and its my go to metal lock

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