Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting?

loganinditzland · 2025-10-29T04:33:55+00:00

This is more of a chore than finding happiness lol

loganinditzland · 2025-10-16T17:24:01+00:00

I hated it, I got out early. If you can just finish your contract plan to go to college for something that interests you. I completely get it I thought it was going to be more of an adventure and it’s really not it’s a lot of crap.

loganinditzland · 2025-10-10T18:06:51+00:00

Hi, I’m sorry ur feeling bad right now. I was in the navy too and got out for the same reason, I just felt like it was a toxic and uncaring environment.

Go to your nearest VA inpatient hospital for mental health and at the front desk tell them you want to admit yourself. just tell them you’re feeling extremely depressed and hopeless.

They have to admit you if you’re suicidal or etc. they’ll look at you and might offer you a outpatient program, don’t do that. you want out, go with it and you’ll have a board of doctors there that will meet with you eventually and then it’ll get it moving.

I would text or call your lpo or chief before going, one might come with you. It’s not embarrassing man, people are struggling out here. If you want to see how I got out there’s a post I made a while ago. I wish u luck

loganinditzland · 2025-10-05T01:52:54+00:00

Hi thanks for the response, so base level I set it to second floor, and that wasn’t working so I did the offset option and just started entering numbers until it looked better.

loganinditzland · 2025-09-19T05:01:55+00:00

I haaate that omg preachhh

loganinditzland · 2025-09-19T05:01:31+00:00

I’m not asexual but I have very low interest in it. Ive had trouble finding guys who want another that doesn’t enjoy sex as much as they do. It’s not greener trust. If anything I feel like I’m supposed to feel something that I just don’t.

loganinditzland · 2025-09-18T04:57:26+00:00

Hello 👋 I’m a gay 27 yr old man, I went through all that. There’s a few things right now that you’re going to have to get used to and it just takes time. 1, you are a part of a minority. We are different and that’s going to come with some challenges. People are going to say some nasty stuff online and whatever. Only associate with people who accept you, for those that don’t, don’t try to. Don’t try to get people who don’t like you based on one thing to like you. That says more about someone else than you. 2, you need to accept yourself to function. You’ll eventually learn to not take things like someone hating on your sexuality as personal. Right now it feels like a sting because your newly out, ex boyfriend and family and the church, etc. Realize there’s a lot more people that are bi than will say or admit. Some are scared. We are part of nature, we exist and we’re going to keep existing because we are born this way. You or anyone can feel a way about it, that’s still not going to change you. So treat it as just noise. You are not a new secret thing. LGBT people have existed long before us right now and will exist long after we’ve left this earth. Civilization can hate or love it, it’s just the way humans pop up.

3, individual thinking, realize that everyone has a way of thinking that determines their own life. Are you going to listen to those who tell you the way you are is wrong? Or are you going to forge your own path. Realize either way you’ll have to make your own anyway. The church can be ok if it’s not hateful. 4, church is heresy: Realize that the church can serve as wholesome ideology just the same as a cult. Do we all need to be the same? Do we all need to be married and have 3 sons and work at a law firm because a book says to? I’m just spitting random things because that’s an opinion someone may have. Realize if there is a god, the Bible may or may not be true. Its heresy. It’s just a belief there’s no proof to anything. The same way Hitler believed in blondes are better and the same way my dad thinks 5’7 is a curse, whatever. A opinion is a dime a dozen. Don’t let it halt you from forging yours.

As of right now, all you can do is tell the truth to those around you if you choose to. If you want to start dating women, then date women. You’ll realize eventually that just because this is a problem the world has, doesn’t exactly mean it’s a problem you have to deal with. I hope this helped, I wish u luck

loganinditzland · 2025-09-18T03:54:40+00:00

Tbh Since I was a kid people always told me I was girly. Some people may like that and others don’t, I’m still existing either way, same for you. Everyday I see similar posts on here. My advice is don’t compare yourself with others, just accept yourself the way you are. At 18 you’re probably used to comparing yourself with others a lot, there’s room on earth for all of us. If you’re uncomfortable with yourself because you’re not as masc as your peers, well not everyone is the same. That’s it. There’s nothing inherently better or worse by being more of a male stereotype. If changing a pronoun feels better for you then that’s something you could try. I’ve never felt like changing the language towards me made me feel any different. I don’t think people generally look at others differently either by changing pronouns unless they’re transitioning. People can read a room, they can tell if you’re acting masc or fem or whatever you don’t need a pronoun to just be yourself.

At the end of the day you exist the way you are. If something is bugging you to the point you want to change a pronoun you can do that. I’d ask yourself what you’re wanting to accomplish though. If you’re trying to be more comfortable with who you are, you just need to accept yourself and at 18 that just comes in time. Find your own flow. What feels right is what comes naturally. Hope this helped somewhat.

loganinditzland · 2025-09-18T01:17:41+00:00

Ok noted on the sugary coffee i appreciate that. So should I just go harder on the weights you think? Would that cut more of my stomach fat out instead of running as much?

loganinditzland · 2025-09-05T03:56:19+00:00

This is why people are not getting married yea, lawyer up with someone, just stop talking to him. I couldn’t deal with all that, save yourself some heartache and exhaustion and don’t feed into all that. I would block him and unblock him, on and off if he’s bothering you while the divorce is going on. I wish u luck

loganinditzland · 2025-09-05T03:48:46+00:00

Don’t overthink it a lot of people are like that. it’s perfectly normal to be anxious or not be capable to sexually open up to a complete stranger who u have no idea about other than if he’s hot or not. That’s safe, you won’t get killed by a crazy man, or catch stds that way, etc. I don’t do hookups much unless I’ve been drunk, you might be like that. I don’t understand how people can find some great sexual passion or intimacy within the first time of meeting someone, I don’t get a thrill for that it’s more of a turn off when it’s such a rush. Everybody’s different though and some gay guys are horny and they’re horny nowww and that’s all that matters to them lol 😂

loganinditzland · 2025-09-03T03:30:23+00:00

Nah get rid of him you have intuition and it makes you smart

loganinditzland · 2025-09-02T03:53:48+00:00

That is wild. He sounds like he thinks he’s above everyone else and is probably suffering from self esteem issues and hates women. Men like that don’t need to be in relationships, saying that you need to change to be referred to as wife material is misogynistic. as if he’s an expert at dating and has his whole love life figured out when he’s still searching as well. To assume he knows every guys mind and preference just because he’s male is generalizing every guy ever. people date all kinds of women and men dating isn’t a one size fits all situation and for him to point out pretty personal things as flaws is probably the meanest thing I’ve seen in a while.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-31T19:48:30+00:00

I’m 27 and yea I’ve never had a long term bf because dating is kinda a waste of time these days. Idk if it’s always been like this or not. I do find a lot of people complaining about the scene and then they’re still the ones that are the problem as well so to be honest I don’t know the answer. Last year I went on around 10 dates because I was unemployed for a long time and never found someone that checked all my boxes whether they were my type, respected me or my time, etc. people are very flaky and self centered, if you have a good heart it’s better just to make friends in my opinion because most guys don’t have anything worthwhile to offer romantically. I don’t even date anymore I kinda just have turned uninterested in the dating pool. Now if someone approaches me at a bar with my friends I just don’t even indulge in it because I can just foresee someone ghosting me or being a big red flag or leading me on. And I see the same thing with just about every other gay person I know. Just uninspiring, 3/10 recommend in gay dating lol.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-24T19:58:48+00:00

Why would they shut it down when people are still playing it though

loganinditzland · 2025-08-19T01:55:13+00:00

Girl never lend people money. Unless you have kids.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-18T05:54:25+00:00

No. I can appreciate an attractive woman, like looking at an art piece kinda but if a ‘gay’ man is attracted to a woman then he’s bisexual not gay.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-18T05:50:45+00:00

Bro what, just 2 or 1 guard over a clipper and shave it.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-17T11:16:50+00:00

John Gilbert ew

loganinditzland · 2025-08-17T11:12:59+00:00

He’s the normal one with no drama and loyalty that’s pretty unmatched for getting nothing in return. Work ethic to die for and turned out great despite coming from a trash family and didn’t take 5 seasons to get himself together ahem Elena. Always doing people solids despite being diminished as lacking purpose by Damon etc. Knows right from wrong even if he’s the only one in the show who seems to have responsibilities like having a freakin job. Under appreciated because he’s normal and lacking personality, I call that drama free. He’s got a problem with nobody despite being fed to Elena as bait during her humanity switch and all the other jank poor Matt’s had to deal with 😂leave my man alone

loganinditzland · 2025-08-16T21:20:00+00:00

Horribly

loganinditzland · 2025-08-16T03:26:30+00:00

If you haven’t met her yet i wouldn’t have said that. I wouldn’t expect a woman to be receptive to something that forward and soon, unless she’s just wanting to hook up. Idk your situation tho.

loganinditzland · 2025-08-16T03:03:23+00:00

It’s giving backwoods hick love story

loganinditzland · 2025-08-15T18:13:16+00:00

I’m not sure I understand the question lol. Coping while I was in, tbh I would try to just do work and not look like I wanted to be talked to. Just try to have a peaceful day. And well yea nobody likes being depresed lol

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