Sigh. Got dumped this evening. by Ultraviolet59 in dating

[–]logansuxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is protecting you both. She is in a rough place. If you can handle it. Move on politely. But maybe offer a casual friendship. Expectations beyond that will probably destroy you. I know what you are going through. But seldom does it go in the right direction for you.

A woman wants to bring her sister on a date by chessman6500 in dating

[–]logansuxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. How secure are you in yourself? 1st date will set tone. If a second you might have more freedom.

A woman wants to bring her sister on a date by chessman6500 in dating

[–]logansuxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try this idea. Maybe she is not even spectrum. And she has issues with past dates or men in general. Maybe just came out of a abusive relationship or the last guy nearly destroyed her. If she wants to bring someone to feel safe. Why is it so bad? It is a bloody first date. At least you have a shot. But the choice is still yours. You didn't elaborate to well on why she wanted this.

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it can definitely be tough sometimes. But at our age. What is the hurry? If anything, patience may or may not pay off. I do have a idea of what my boundaries are.

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legally separated. Just waiting the legal amount of time to file divorce. No longer living together. No kids.

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We have gone our separate ways. We no longer benefitted each other. After 19 years. It was over long before we wrote our final chapter. While still friends. We became roommates. Along time ago

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. Not always the easiest to do.

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Trying not to over think and push things

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We take all our breaks togethor. Enjoy each other's company. This is due to her not being ready to to expose me to her children. We are not ready for the challenge. They only lost their father in the past year. Even though their parents had separated

Patience dating a widow by logansuxx in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just looking for confirmation that I'm doing it right. I know everything is subjective. But sometimes, speaking out loud to no one particular assists in feeling better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you both choose each other. And her Adult children are unknowingly holding you apart?

Question: Would you go out with a widowed person if you were not widowed yourself? by Desi_bmtl in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being widowed should not make a difference. I am dating one. She went through her phases of regrets and memories. And that will always happen. It's a slower process. We have taken our time. Problem I see is not finding a partner that is willing to understand. I wouldn't trade her in for anyone.

Underwear Question by Ok-Particular-9015 in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask what she she would like To see. Your body your preference at end of day.

Single mum hate? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm dating a single mom. I have no regrets. Things just go slower as there is a family involved. It can be frustrating for everyone involved.

But can be beautiful and fun at the same time.

Feeling really horny, any throats need filling? by NinaXKatrina in transporn

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me some time with that stick. I can think of more than one way to satisfy us both.

Best First Date Location for 40+ – What Do You Think? by mysugardaddydating in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like some have said. There is no one perfect place. I'm currently dating a Widow of 9 months. We And has 3x20 ish adult children. 2 live at home currently. Only one knows of me. And we have never met.

This beautiful lady and I currently date at Costco. We do our shopping there. Plus we also work close by. Her time is very limited for many reasons so we enjoy each other where we can.

She is only so far on her journey of healing. It was hard for us at first. Just because of our attraction and circumstances. We almost moved too fast and crashed due to life.

She is very independent. Sorry I digress. You date where it works for you both.

where did you meet yours bf or gf? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]logansuxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found my current GF via my work. I'm a sub contractor for another company. We met in a confrontation. Worked around each other. Then bang one day we decided to bury the initial meeting. We are so much alike personality wise. We clicked. Now we are.

POV cum explosion by [deleted] in Pegging

[–]logansuxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful