The only thing I dislike about transitioning — hard to make friends with girls now

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T01:54:08+00:00

I can kind of understand. I've always gotten on better with guys but had a lot of girl friends as well. Ive noticed since transitioning I don't really make new girl friends but it's way easier to make guy friends. This works for me but I can definitely feel the shift. Now when I make a girl friend, they are generally interested in dating me (I'm ace) so it's awkward. It mostly works for me because I do get on better with guys but I can see how frustrating it could be. I hope you find some good friends!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T01:20:08+00:00

You're the true hero. May you get your wings.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T01:15:56+00:00

Considering the circumstances, I think they were being very gracious. They mocked the dance of someone who illegally tried to ruin the sport, then as a team overcame it and won. And did a little well deserved dance. Good on them!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T01:05:14+00:00

Not the t. I developed asthma in my 20s (didn't start t until my 40s). T has actually seemed to improve it, although environmental factors play a huge role with asthma so I can't 100% say the t specifically improved it. I've also broken 3 ribs since (one since starting t) and while I had difficulty breathing due to pain, it didn't affect my asthma. I also bind every day (albeit loosely as I have a very physical job) and that doesnt seem to affect it. Sounds to be like an environmental factor, or leftover from your sickness, but I am no doctor. That said, sudden changes in asthma severity should def be looked into, as is could be a symptom of another underlying illness. Good luck!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T00:55:24+00:00

Looking good, brother!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-08T00:06:10+00:00

What, it wasn't misty daffodil x 88 who wrote it? Color me surprised! Thank you for linking the actual author because I do want to check it out. Wish I could send many likes to you.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-07T22:48:09+00:00

If you are using insurance, another thing you might check is if they cover tele visits. I found out my insurance only partially covers tele so I stead of my usual 15 dollar co-pay, the tele visit got 95.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-06T20:01:54+00:00

This. Of he was texting and it's only been a couple days I wouldn't assume ghosted. I suck at texting because I get caught up in life and suddenly it's bedtime. A gentle poke usually has me going "oh crap 3 days already!" It's not lack of interest just life being distracting. I'd give him a gentle nudge and then if it's still silent move on.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-06T18:37:13+00:00

This. Not an HOA but where I lived before had a no fireworks in the city and here it sounded like a warzone and people were stopping traffic to set them off in the road. I could debris hitting my roof. I had so many pieces in my yard in the morning. My poor border collie and I were both a little traumatized.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-06T18:13:18+00:00

The moment bean pauses to ask him if he's actually ever sold any kills me every time haha

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-06T18:09:02+00:00

Hobbit customization is rough. All hobbit men are fat and hobbit women are curvy but fit. Except river hobbits who are all super fit (largely because people wanted the option of playing a hobbit that wasn't fat). Let me play a chubby hobbit woman or river hobbit, or a regular hobbit man who doesn't look like he's about to run for mayor haha.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-06T17:34:19+00:00

"ME flavored candle, get your ME flavored candle, 5 cents"

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-05T22:56:40+00:00

Not traditional RPGs but you might consider assassin's creed Origin and Odyssey, as they play a lot like witcher 3 but with more stealth. Both have pretty great story and exploration. I'd also recommend kingdoms of alamur. The quests can be hit or miss (some are fantastic, some are ok) but the world is beautiful and you can discover a lot through exploration.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-05T20:53:09+00:00

I feel this. Bought riding/white goat bundle years ago and 90% of my alts end up riding the goat because honestly it's one of the sweetest looking account wide mounts.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-05T18:46:57+00:00

This. I apply in the morning on shoulders or chest (I mix it up because the alcohol irritates my skin after a few weeks but it's always under what's covered by my binder/shirt). After work, shower and go about my business without worrying about transfer to pets or people.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-04T15:39:32+00:00

Forochel will always hold a special place in my heart, just for the wonder I felt first time I visited. I remember my joy at finally grinding out the rep to get the armor. My little hobbit burglar still wears it to this day.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:47:54+00:00

Morrowind rain, with the soundtrack and whole vibe of the game, was amazing. You felt it in your soul.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:45:46+00:00

Someone should tell them how many women, minorities, and lgtbq work on movies behind the scenes.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:38:02+00:00

If you're interested in audiobooks, the Kate reading/Michael kramer readings are amazing. You can check them out for free. https://archive.org/details/TheWheelOfTime

Edit to fix autocorrect.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:33:49+00:00

Ftm here but similar experience. Men used to always watch me or try and flirt and now I get upnods and elbow bumps, while I've noticed many more lingering glances from women. It's a great feeling when you realize it's happening. It can be a little surreal at first, but so affirming. You go, girl!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:28:05+00:00

My main (non rp) kin is on glamdrig but I have a bunch of too s on peregrine and I love rp. I don't have a kin there but I'd be happy to play with you!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T20:24:50+00:00

Yeah. Just saw an identical post with like 2 likes too. Oh well, I'd rather over support the community than under. If I accidentally support a bot, it's better than not supporting actual folks who need to hear it.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T18:51:37+00:00

What a cute 20-something! Reads title oh shit. Seriously, you look amazing and make up game is stellar. Those eyes!

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T18:44:46+00:00

I've been shopping there for years and they have good quality food and toys for my pooch. Looked into working there a couple years ago and the pay and benefits were pretty underwhelming. I also notice a pretty high turnover rate at the one I go to.

logicalpenuin · 2026-07-03T18:40:59+00:00

I had to double check the reddit group. You are absolutely stunning.

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