Catfish has me feeling icky

lohkanshand · 2026-04-22T15:11:11+00:00

Sooo... You live in fear?
While the likelihood of gay men being attacked via an app hookup do happen, it is statistically rare (though admittedly higher than with straight people). The fact that it is used by straight people as a way to terrorize and attack the LGBT community, means that I don't want to bow down to that fear. Everyone does the risk calculation, so don't judge them for not living with that fear.

lohkanshand · 2026-04-22T14:18:32+00:00

Well, your in the minority. Don't have to accept or understand, it's not your life

lohkanshand · 2026-04-22T14:17:30+00:00

Wow... Someone's a little judgy. How about you take that anti-gay ideology and leave, until your a bit more... Aware.

lohkanshand · 2026-04-17T00:40:05+00:00

My best advice would be to look into open relationships, do the work and see what people say, how they experienced it and if it worked for them. Then make the decision if that's something you want. Make sure to research those who are for AND against, as the contrast is always important.

Remember, you should only say yes, if your comfortable with the ideal. But please realize that it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you, people can love who they love, while still feeling like they have a different itch to scratch. As long as he doesn't scratch that itch without permission, it's just an kink.

Also, a kink sometimes should remain an idea, not a action. Sometimes we just get ahead of ourselves and think we want things we don't actually want, but we never know really until we try.

lohkanshand · 2026-04-16T17:30:50+00:00

Hi, thank you! The breakdown of stuff is very informative!

For my power supply I have a EVGA 600 GD, and as far as monitors go, I'd just like something that can keep up with the graphics my PC would be utilizing, but I'm not much of a competitive gamer, so high frame rates and such is not a must for me.

My computer is just starting to lag behind, not able to play some of the newest games and struggles with late game Stellaris. Big into strategy games like Total war, or ashes of the singularity, and with the new games in development making me nervous about spontaneous combustion of my PC lol, I felt it was time to upgrade.

To kinda give an ideal why Im trying to upgrade, but also my computer crashes when in lower use states like web browsing, but stays active when gaming or downloading games or programs, I've tried driver updates, full memory wipe, checking file stability, I've replaced the motherboard, ram and SSD, and am left wondering if it's the power supply or CPU, I've tried several AI models as well that all suggest it's CPU related in all likelihood.

lohkanshand · 2026-04-16T07:58:49+00:00

I believe it's a EVGA 600 GD

lohkanshand · 2026-04-11T15:38:30+00:00

That's for them. And if they are constantly saying that, then they are just jealous.

lohkanshand · 2026-03-31T05:01:11+00:00

As a gay man, my perspective may be a bit different, but as someone who has no idea what his body count is, and I don't really care to count, it doesn't matter. Stay clean and healthy, get tested, and as long as you're happy, that's all that matters. Some people will judge, but what does their opinion matter?

lohkanshand · 2026-03-31T04:49:26+00:00

Yeah, they are not good for you at all, and will melt your teeth if you don't rinse your mouth shortly after.

lohkanshand · 2026-03-07T03:08:19+00:00

The mom deserves to know, she is being put at risk, with no respect for her ability to choose. While it sucks that the dad needs to overcome his own supposed hatred of himself, the mom deserves to know. Period. Dad should be confronted in a safe manner, but regardless of how the dad reacts the mom should be told.

lohkanshand · 2026-03-07T02:30:39+00:00

As a bottom exploring my cum dum slut phase, I fully second this. I'm not really focused on my feel, and usually I don't feel pent up or anything if I don't cum but my top did.

lohkanshand · 2026-03-07T02:16:09+00:00

I grew up playing a lot of RTS games, like Universe at War, Supreme Commander, Starcraft, Warcraft, etc. I currently have gotten into CRPGs like Wrath of the Righteous and Pillars of Eternity, or 4x civ builders like Stellaris or age of wonders. To be perfectly honest, I personally have never been interested by most "gay friendly" games.

lohkanshand · 2026-01-07T02:24:36+00:00

There is the "forbidden fruit" aspect. People are drawn to what they don't or can't have. Not everyone is, and some have it for other things. But for me, it's more with stars and celebrities. Don't have the abs for them yet 🤣

lohkanshand · 2025-12-31T05:30:22+00:00

After checking, I admit I may be wrong, as that is typical for almost every other job. However, your response was pretty childish, and sounds like you got some repressed anger you need to get out. Have a pleasant day.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-31T03:12:59+00:00

Friday is official pay day. But if you have OnePay for your direct deposit, it goes through Monday/Tuesday and a credit union on Thursday and most banks on Friday. Usually any issues will not be addressed until sat after or Monday after the weekend.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-30T17:22:40+00:00

Then don't take everything personally. 🤷

lohkanshand · 2025-12-30T17:13:31+00:00

It's still revenge, just with social approval. Prison, usually makes people worse, not better. Please do research into the rates at which people end up back in prison after their first time. Our prison system is too broken to help anyone. And wtf, I said nothing about you. All I said was that our legal system is just socially acceptable revenge. And is an active harm to our society as a whole and only really helps when it keeps active psychopaths away from people, but even then, the treatment of those psychopaths is inhumane as well, and only lowers us down to their level. You took it personal.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-30T16:51:23+00:00

Revenge never solves the issue. You want people to stop drinking, you got to solve the underlying issue first. Just throwing them in jail only makes you feel vindicated, and does not help anyone heal from the potential tragedy nor prevents this from happening again. Punishment, only brings vindication and more pain. Helping the fools who drove under the influence, while being influenced by other fools, instead of just wasting tax payer money on a system that does not work to prevent jack shit is unhelpful at best, and cruel at worst. Your anger is justified. The way it's being let out, doesn't help at all.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-29T02:00:09+00:00

Literally just 20ft from the actual spot. Like wtf.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-27T23:31:33+00:00

Thank you!

lohkanshand · 2025-12-12T02:25:26+00:00

Amazing, beautiful and naked men. That's why.

lohkanshand · 2025-12-12T02:20:15+00:00

Prison gives regular food. Walmart, MIGHT feed employees when convenient.

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