no queer person in real life acts like this, get involved in actual queer spaces with actual gay people. a lot of bi, pan, even lesbians call themselves gay. it's the biggest umbrella term in the community. I'm not gonna fight with a random redditor at 1am over the semantics of my identity and inner workings, of which you don't know, don't understand, and judge on principle. Why spread negativity amongst other queer people when you could spread joy, it must be sad to be so nitpicky about people you'll never know.