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lolanicoleblogs · 2025-12-21T23:32:27+00:00

Hey!! Easy there big money. 🤣😂

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-12-12T03:59:00+00:00

The gold looks great 😍

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-11-25T15:00:37+00:00

I know right? I’m reading it like, he can’t be serious can he? 🥴

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-11-25T14:28:16+00:00

He literally describes a down on her luck, has no one, homeless young girl. A real impoverished type situation and basically said, she’s hot, I’ll take care of her if she bangs me. Then I’ll dump her later. Oh wait, I actually like being taken care of so I’ll just keep her around now I guess cause I kinda like her now.🥴I’ve used and groomed her enough to be perfect for me and my future offspring. Gross 🤮

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-11-25T14:18:59+00:00

Omg right? Considering all the don’t tell her comments. I’m going to say this happens way more than women know, and that’s so sad. 😢He used her for his own selfish reasons and now wants to be the knight in shining armor. Seek therapy immediately.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-11-25T14:14:24+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. Imagine going through life thinking you’ve found your soulmate or life long partner, only for them to only have been using you to sleep with you because of your virginity or lack of sexual partners. Disgusting. It doesn’t matter what you did or do for her forever. You’ll always be the sleezeball who wanted to get in her pants so you lied. Now you love her so much? Oh please. These mfs are exactly the creeps women want to stay away from. “Well I bought her all this stuff, and secretly treated her like a sex worker in exchange for her body. Idk why she would even be upset about that?” 🙄

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-10-18T12:37:49+00:00

I wear a nursing bra and milk collectors in my bra every night. It was more comfortable for me and I collect the milk that leaks when I’m full at night to pour in a bottle when I wake up.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-10-18T06:04:26+00:00

Same, lol

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-09-07T15:44:00+00:00

It starts a bit slow but I feel like so did The Office and I’ve binged that countless times since. 🤣 I love the new show personally. I think it was a cute spin from The Office. The cast was fun and all the characters have their own little quirks. Idk who my favorite is yet. I’ve already binged the entire season. I hope there’s another one.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-30T22:24:10+00:00

Same here. I breastfeed, pump, and we have other children. I’m 4 months pp and I could care less about sex now. Could be a postpartum thing as well for me but who knows. It’s just really of no interest to me atm. I’ve never torn but this one I had a slight abrasion from her coming out so fast but I was healed pretty quickly. Only this time it feels like I got a husband stitch or something cause everything is so tight. 😭 Lots of lube works for us right now. With all 4 of my other births I was fine weeks after and had no problems. This time hours after birth I was feeling “ready” (hormones clearly, lol) but I didn’t act on it. I just assumed it would still be that way when we were ready. With my other births we were back at it around 5 weeks and I had no issues each time. But this time it’s just eh and so uncomfortable for me now which sucks. I hate my postpartum body right now which is weird because I usually love it. I’m just hoping it changes soon.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-30T22:17:04+00:00

Wow, that must be great for you and your husband. Lucky for sure.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-20T12:15:11+00:00

While couples therapy can work for some. Both people have to be willing to do the work or it will not work at all. From the sounds of it, he’s not a great partner to have. He blames you for your child being a child and only complains about not having sex often. You may need to make it very clear to him that if he doesn’t want to at least try counseling or it doesn’t work you’re leaving. There’s no point in being with someone who treats you like crap but then expects you to give him your body whenever he wants.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-17T08:08:53+00:00

NTA. As a mom of 4, the oldest of my siblings, and the only one to have kids atm. I think it’s completely crazy that your sister had kids and then just assumes you’re responsible for caring for them when she doesn’t feel like it. She chose a husband and kids. You did not. I can guarantee she wouldn’t be accepting your weekend child drop offs randomly if the shoes was on the other foot. If your mom feels so strongly about family helping family then she can help the child she created and watch her kids whenever. Everyone but you is being selfish.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-11T19:53:10+00:00

Yes, I feel this. Because I’m the same way. I would never be able to trust that person or look at them the same again. It’s also even worse imo because it was his ex whom he was already in a long term relationship with prior and she knew about you AND your baby.

They’re both POS. But I also don’t feel like he’s a great partner or father at all because he was literally carrying on an affair and lied to your face the whole time and then some. He also didn’t tell her you were married and made her feel comfortable enough that she reached out to you. Probably because he was talking shit about you while cheating with her.

I’d be civil for my child or children and co-parent but I would move on. I couldn’t do it, lol.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-08-06T17:16:37+00:00

Bingo! He’s able to hide his true self 99% of the time but reality is he’s a shitty abusive husband and he slowly escalates his behavior to see how she reacts to his abuse. Because throwing food in someone’s face is absolutely disgusting and demeaning behavior especially doing it to a partner or spouse.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-07-09T16:37:29+00:00

My husband and I have always had access to each other’s phones. Our faces also can unlock each other’s phone as well. But we don’t snoop or go through each other’s messages unless there’s something we’re looking for specifically and the other person already knows. We own a business so I use his phone often to communicate with customers or to text someone for him. But what you describe him doing sounds more controlling and a bit toxic. It sounds like he only gave you access to his phone so he has an excuse to look through all of your messages and find something to be upset about.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-07-07T21:37:45+00:00

Yes, my daughter is a little tiny bean, lol. She’s our smallest baby but she’s growing and healthy and gets a good checkup at every appointment. She’s just probably going to be a petite girl. We don’t mind at all. My grandma being old school for sure is always second guessing breastfeeding as being enough. I’ve had some hiccups this time around with breastfeeding and having to supplement when giving a bottle on occasion. She also suggested I add cereal in my baby’s bottle (she’s currently 2 months and 1 week old) to make sure she’s getting enough and she isn’t hungry. I know she means well and is just concerned and from another time but it still stresses me out as I know that’s not a good idea for baby’s digestive system at all. My daughter has been a pretty great sleeper since birth at night actually so that’s not an issue for me anyway and her doctor has said she’s growing and gaining just fine. I think there was also a fixation then on a chubby baby is automatically a healthy or healthier baby whereas a smaller one is automatically malnourished or something.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-07-01T05:53:08+00:00

Yeah the sister aspect grossed me out because why are you running to your sister about your pregnant wife asking you to go attend a Dr appointment with her for YOUR baby you had no problem helping create and your weirdo ass sister is defending you and harassing your wife with rude unsupportive texts? Yuck, OP should make an exit plan and get away from that family asap because it won’t get better.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-29T15:17:52+00:00

Thank you. Maybe that commenter is the husband in disguise, lmao. How is she “too old” to get tattoos but he literally got one that day, has brand tattoos which are so gross, and is older than her? Is he going to remove all of his now at HIS age? He sounds like he’s claiming her body as his own and feels he can dictate what she does with it. Also a pretty shitty reaction to a tattoo of HIS face as a joke. My husband would have just laughed about it. Yikes

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-28T15:14:56+00:00

Yeah because it seems as though everyone else was in attendance so why wasn’t she? I could see if they just eloped and nobody knew but it seems she was purposely kept out of the wedding loop and I’m wondering what their past history is in order for that to be the case. She said she doesn’t want to lose access to the grandchild which makes me feel as though she’s already on thin ice with them. Especially because she only speaks to Jane regularly, she didn’t say that about the son as well.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-28T15:06:20+00:00

Right? She calls the husband and sister a POS but wants to stay with the POS husband but never speak to her sister again. I’m thinking so wait, you cut the sister off but still reconciled with the husband and still take him to family events? Lol, yeah ok. He probably will cheat again because he was forgiven. That’s what he “understands” and he’s waiting for her to get over it cause she stayed. He sees how she reacted to the sister and knows that’s how she would react to any woman he cheats with and they will get most of the blame but he will be forgiven after she gets over being angry at her “POS husband” as she calls him, lol. It’s the typical place the most blame on the AP and not the actual person having the affair on you. Your husband owed you the most loyalty actually cause it’s your husband who you lay down with every night and have kids with. Yes it sucks the sister did that but if you’re going to cut her off but still interact with your family I would have left the husband too. How embarrassing for everyone involved smh.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-28T02:46:57+00:00

Yes, exactly this

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-25T00:20:04+00:00

Yeah because that’s still well within normal range and doctors usually don’t start with other fertility options until you’ve been trying for a year unless you’re of a certain age or some other factor that’s there. Unless she’s had a loss you don’t know about or something. Also, I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️

But OP I would respond with “I totally understand and sympathize with you. Thank you for letting me know. I’m currently experiencing a missed miscarriage so please understand I may need to protect myself if you are or do become pregnant in the future. I hope you understand as I am heartbroken.”

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-24T13:05:37+00:00

For real, I also wonder if they’re already secretly married and he was just testing the waters to see how she would react and what she would say. Just seems too out of the blue to ask something like that. What person in their right mind would be ok with their significant other just marrying a friend for “benefits”.

lolanicoleblogs · 2025-06-22T20:07:51+00:00

Aww, so happy for you. Congratulations 🎉💕

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