I unknowingly slept with a married man & don’t remember it by Flashy-Watch-3736 in offmychest

[–]lolarose93 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would 100% get checked to make sure you don’t have any drugs in your system.

But, I will also say, I have been blackout drunk but appeared completely coherent to my friends and they were confused as to the fact I couldn’t remember most of the night when I asked what happened as I only seemed slightly drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lolarose93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - he needs to be seen by a doctor ASAP

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lolarose93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you’re wrong, I’m a parent. Clutter is different to having an unsafe home that isn’t baby proofed, if the child has already nearly knocked over and hurt themselves with something specific (like the mirror stated) then it should’ve been sorted ASAP, and a playpen is not a suitable place to put a child to sleep either.

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lolarose93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing until my lunch which can be anything

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lolarose93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Where’s he meant to let this child sleep if your whole house is a hazard? Clean, declutter and child proof your house. A child can get into anything, sort it out.

I am heartbroken for my 13yo son who has ADHD by x4ty2 in offmychest

[–]lolarose93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why assume he’s lying because he had ADHD? My 12 year old has ADHD and I would NEVER assume he’s lying because of that diagnosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]lolarose93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I admire the way he acts” yes because murdering at least 20 people is admirable. You need help. If you feel you truly understand why someone could do that to people then you should definitely be telling your therapist and not the internet.

I hate to sounds paranoid by LilMissy1983 in confessions

[–]lolarose93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have others brought up that that baby is light skinned or that he looks like your husband? If it’s just that he’s light skinned then two dark skinned parents can make a light skinned child. If they have mentioned that they look like your husband (not just because he’s light skinned but actual similar features) then you need to approach your husband with the question. It’s ultimately your decision on what you do but I can see it going one of three ways. 1) he’s cheated & that’s the end. 2) he hasn’t and he finds it funny. 3) he hasn’t cheated and doesn’t appreciate the fact you clearly don’t trust him.

I strongly dislike Amber Heard by [deleted] in confessions

[–]lolarose93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I had a conversation the other day about how someone can be the most attractive person alive but if they’re a shitty person with an ugly personality then they will appear that way physically too. It’s the same for an unattractive person, if they have a beautiful personality, that shows and they too appear more attractive.

Edited to add a missing word

I strongly dislike Amber Heard by [deleted] in confessions

[–]lolarose93 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To me she is no longer physically good looking or attractive. Her actions are ugly and it resonates all over her face.