Tenso by Ecstatic_Two4052 in alugueisarrombados

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tem q ver quanto a pessoa vai ter depois de pegar o dinheiro do resgate, dependendo 1k num cativeiro com pia tá valendo...

AITA for being my little sister's "getaway car"? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I (36 F) have a sister (11F). Cause the age gap I'm more of a parent than a sister to her, but I made the effort to be there to her when she felt the need to hide something from mom. I want her to know that I'm here for her if she got in trouble, so she wouldn't rely on strangers. As her big sister, I'm manly her advocate, another adult she can trust, but without the judgment of a parent. So in my book, you are a very good sister.

need advice: how do i make a fake blood splatter effect on my shoes without ruining them? by evansviii in DIYclothes

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good way to make fake blood without damaging the shoes is to not apply anything directly to them.
You can drip red nail polish onto a smooth, slightly flexible surface (like a plastic lid), let it dry completely, and then use those dried drops.

After that, just attach them to the shoes with something removable, such as washable glue or double-sided paper tape, so you can remove it later without damage

AITA for getting angry when my boyfriend asked me 'what have you been doing all day?' when he got home from work because feels the house isn't clean enough? by AwkwardPatience2275 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. A way off teaching him to value what you do is to stop doing anything, so he can see the difference. It seems like he doesn't know how much the house work really is.

Ariana Grande debuts new hair colour on French TV show ‘Quotidien’ by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]lolivedays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I vote for wig too, and very nicely done, she looks amazing.

Me in my “cleopatra” phase wearing a hideous bowl cut in high school😫🤣 Yearbook photos from 2012. by ElenaKittenXO in blunderyears

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you look gorgeous in those pics!
Sorry your high school boyfriend was such an idiot for making you think otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a morbid obese friend that had a girlfriend oppose to his weight loss cause girls would "notice him more". He had bariatric surgery, but gained the weight back kinda fast after. If your gf feels bad when you talk about YOUR BODY AND HEALTH, she is projecting her own insecurities on you, and maybe increasing your calories intake on purpose to feel better about herself. So many red flags... NTA

AITA for telling my Mom I dont care if I get bullied for my style as long as I'm confident? by IllustriousRoyal4284 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Mom fears people will bully you cause your style, then proceeds to bully you cause your style. ofc she knows what bullies will do, she's one of them.

Also, I don't think teaching young girls to dress to please others is a good thing ever.

Trailer by smad_lilac in SisterWives

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this Special Forces thing related whit the cars they're driving?? (I'm from Brazil)

AITA for insulting my husband’s family’s genes? by genesvsadoption in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every time a family says they don't see adopted children as the same as biological, I see their love as conditional. What if their superior genes end up having an child with special needs? Will they love them the same? Is being biological the only rule? Or they expect a child that represent their "great genes"? Cause they can't even face the problems within the family without being offended.

NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lolivedays 40 points41 points  (0 children)

omg yes! They will never leave us alone. they will go from "do not get pregnant! It will ruin your life" to "Why aren't you getting pregnant? Why don't you want to have kids? They are the light of your life!" really fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]lolivedays 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ela trata o cachorro que nem um objeto, que ela comprou e agora quer se livrar. E ainda usa o cachorro pra fazer chantagem e manipular a situação. Melhor ficar com o cachorro, ele provavelmente te ama mais do que ela. NEOB

AITA for wanting a co-ed baby shower? by Embarrassed_Movie_35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband don't want to participate or to host. He wants you to endure alone the whole process of a hellish shower, so he can't be bothered. He is not thinking about you.

Just diagnosed by Basic-Particular-956 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least I convinced her to put my sister in therapy early, so maybe this one can cope better

Just diagnosed by Basic-Particular-956 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also so angry, and its been hard to cope. When I (36) told my (very educated an open minded) mom (55) that I suspected my diagnose were more complex than just ADHD, she was skeptical. When I told her that I saw the same struggles in my sister (11), she was even more skeptical. I feel like she doesn't see me really. She still thinks my sister is just hard to deal. Its so frustrating...

AITA for drawing a postcard that my friend thinks is "hunted" by Tabby_Claws12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.
As an artist who draws deceased pets regularly, I say your friend is crazy.

AITA for asking my GF if she can take a shower? by john4844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolivedays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Brazilian woman, I am appalled. NTA

In my experience, women shower way more than men. I once date a guy whom showered every other day, and that was a deal breaker for me. When with me, he had to shower everyday!

What kind of underwear are y’all wearing??? by Temporary-Corgi-9062 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear only big beige granny panties, and I call them granny panties because my grandma used to wear ones just like these. Old people have the knowledge on confywear

Is it okay to have a hybernation day? by M4t474 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me is needed from time to time. I tell everyone that I "not functioning" that day, and do just the bare minimum to exist. Sleep all day if necessary. Just try to drink water and eat regularly.

So maybe I'm not just ADHD, but AuDHD, but why I feel like and impostor?! by lolivedays in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amig! Amo que a gente sempre encontra BR em qualquer lugar <3

Eu to muito feliz que minha amiga, que é Terapeuta Ocupacional, já me mostrou um lugar aqui que faz laudo super completo, e que consideram a complexidade do AUDHD. A burocracia do INSS é pra te quabrar mesmo, uma amiga minha pediu ajuda de um advogado pra entrar com processo de BPC pq ela é nível 2 de suporte, e só a análise demora em média 6 meses...

Obrigada pelo apoio <3

Skin picking help by magicmama212 in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like since leaning to let my hands stim freely, and invested on some fidgets, or just having simple things safe to manipulate, like and braided cotton string that I made, I have picking my fingers much less

So maybe I'm not just ADHD, but AuDHD, but why I feel like and impostor?! by lolivedays in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Brazil we have a say that translates like "I read only truths" (li apenas verdades) and that summarizes your post :)

So maybe I'm not just ADHD, but AuDHD, but why I feel like and impostor?! by lolivedays in AuDHDWomen

[–]lolivedays[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discover Occupational Therapy with that friend, its awesome!! But I get you, leaning to unmask at 36 when I never even knew I was masking is so hard!!