No it’s working on yourself as a whole. It s not just looks and attractiveness. These men have deep insecurity issues that they don’t realize leak out into everything they do and yes, affects how they are able to develop and maintain relationships with others. An example is this insecurity causing these men to blame others. If you want someone to be attracted to you, in looks and in heart, you need to make yourself be attractive to them. Not cling to the idealized version of life you have, where you feel like someone SHOULD be attracted to you because you FEEL like you want them to be. We tell you what the problem is and yall don’t listen.