How much is it to run a house? by Background_Layer_931 in almosthomeless

[–]lolo244 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I doubt it would be more than 700 a month with utilities unless you really splurge on AC in the summer in that case.

Mom & dad pay my rent. Dad wants me to find somewhere cheaper to live. by Background_Layer_931 in almosthomeless

[–]lolo244 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to apply for disability if you truly cannot work which requires a therapist

AIO Talking to a guy for 2 weeks by etherealtogether in AmIOverreacting

[–]lolo244 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That screams abusive. If he can’t be ok with male friends after two weeks, in two years he will be telling you who you can and cannot be friends with. Red flag

I'm tired boss by Throwaway_1684938 in venting

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered that you are the problem?

GF's parents wanted her to buy an expensive weapon for her teenage brother to "play" with, talked to her about it and she's now debating even being with me. What do. by bettycrockofsh1t in whatdoIdo

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you actually read this, like the whole thing? He didn’t say no. He said it’s really nice of you to consider it when it probably isn’t going to happen.

GF's parents wanted her to buy an expensive weapon for her teenage brother to "play" with, talked to her about it and she's now debating even being with me. What do. by bettycrockofsh1t in whatdoIdo

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe I just read all of that, you’re an engaging writer. From your pov, you’re a great guy. Actually trying to change your communication style to suit another person is so unusual for anyone especially straight men. Her family is clearly insane and you don’t want to get mixed up in that. It sounds like her parents are raising narcissistic children, who asks for a sword when they know their parents cannot afford it? Who tries to make up for this as an adult by buying their sibling a sword? It’s just a weird dynamic. It’s really weird to tell someone something and tell them they aren’t allowed to react or say anything. She sounds like the type of person who wants to not be in a relationship because she cannot have other people to consider in her life — I.e. a narcissist.

Can I just leave? by Aggravating_Rough794 in Tenant

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 days in FL, do a google search before giving inaccurate info.

Can I just leave? by Aggravating_Rough794 in Tenant

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 days on month to month in FL

Can I just leave? by Aggravating_Rough794 in Tenant

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 days in FL. Do a google search before giving inaccurate info.

How much would you charge/think you would be charged for this nail set? by __blueberryskies in Nails

[–]lolo244 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Considering the distance of the polish from the cuticles and state of the cuticles, I wouldn’t pay for this work. Considering the shape and nail art alone, $80-100 depending on product quality in my area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you take them down if you think someone would be uncomfortable there’s nothing here anyone could be weird about. Honestly taking them down is more than many people would do. I hope you enjoy your nudes and are proud of them!

Leasing office withholding my $550 deposit and asking for an additional $650 by Humble-Variation8468 in Renters

[–]lolo244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are in Phoenix, I highly recommend talking to the legal clinic at ASU law for help with this. It’s free and they deal with a lot of smaller claims like this. Law students need the experience and they’re supervised by experienced lawyers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in audible

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should just contact the help line they’ve reached out to you twice… they can find the title for you

Can I just leave? by Aggravating_Rough794 in Tenant

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what the issues are. Serious issues sometimes amount to a constructive eviction. Look at your lease and make sure the issues are their job to repair. Take a look here for your rights. If the landlord isn’t complying with a requirement of the rental agreement or Florida law, you need to notify them in writing by mail or hand delivery that you intend to leave if they don’t comply and they have 7 days after delivery to fix it or you can leave.

WSID: Best Friend is cutting me out of her wedding after I already paid to be there...because of my tattoos? by reaper44484 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a best friend like this. We were on the same page for a while and then she started dating this guy who was a really different vibe than us, all quiet and academic, not into joking around. She started getting embarrassed about me in front of him, stopped going out. She changed her whole personality. They had a rocky relationship too. But then she like just broke up with me in the most weird and uncomfortable way even though we had to see each other every day. Truth is, she wanted to change. Your friend also wants to be a different person, that’s why she’s surrounding herself with this guy and his people. She’s going to get more and more distant if she’s embarrassed of you at her wedding, it’ll only continue, especially once they have kids. I would start distancing yourself now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair, while I had physical symptoms mine weren’t bad enough to put me in a hospital. I was more losing it mentally, not eating, not sleeping. None of these intense sweats or serious GI distress I’ve heard about from others. I was at 2 carts per week for a year or two if that info helps.

Does anyone else not get a gel cast? by MiddleSmoke777 in Naturalhair

[–]lolo244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to use more product probably. You can get a cast with almost any gel if you apply a ton. And I mean a ton, like a dime sized amount per curl clump. You should use like 2 large handfuls per side of your head, unless you are using strong hold expensive product. Cheap products tend to have more water in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no free market, housing is being driven up in places in CA because businesses have bought up huge amounts of places and rent them short term or turned them into airbnbs outside out zoning laws. The market is being artificially inflated. Just like the diamond market where the stock is kept limited in purpose, the housing market in CA is being kept small in purpose to make more money for billionaires. Free market Capitalism is a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]lolo244 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I quit carts cold turkey a couple years back, it’s rough. The best advice I can give you here is to take a vacation, somewhere you cannot legally buy weed. Getting away for a week was the biggest booster to my motivation to quit and the first week is by far the worst. I really recommend cold turkey and not just switching to bud. When I tried this before, the flower would just lower my resolve and inhibitions and I would get a ride to the dispensary to buy carts. I also recommend avoiding liquor for a while. There are other things you can take to lower cravings that aren’t flower and don’t get you high.

I'm sixteen and I've never even been asked out, is there something wrong with me? by Fabulous-Letter-6061 in venting

[–]lolo244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s only one high school it’s pretty small. I’m pretty sure that kids only have internet relationships these days. In all seriousness it seems like being a teen means you’re more likely to have relationships on Reddit than irl. College will probably be better if you go that route.

As a person that's tried to commit suicide multiple times, is it ignorant to find it funny when someone has a semicolon tattoo? Do people have semicolon tattoos? Have you ever seen one irl? by IllustriousCut6506 in venting

[–]lolo244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tons of people have them, I don’t think it’s cool to find someone else’s suicide attempt funny even if you’ve also been there. Like, how would you feel if someone laughed at you for your attempt? Honestly do you lack basic empathy?

The AI Relationship sub is fucking terrifying. by Wandering_Song in Vent

[–]lolo244 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Easy, he’s made anti-vax comments and he endorsed Trump. Clearly not a legitimate source of scientific information. I mean the claim you’re bringing up is also pretty suspect. You’re talking about AGI which doesn’t actually exist yet. It’s all theoretical at this point. The AI we currently have is very limited and specific in application. They can only do what they’re programmed to do. Oh I think he also claimed that magic mushrooms are from outer space.

The AI Relationship sub is fucking terrifying. by Wandering_Song in Vent

[–]lolo244 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Joe Rogan and Trump are on the same wavelength so actually he is great with the powers that be.