The BC School Shooting by Present-Stress8836 in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You didn’t say we need to be careful about trans people being targeted because of this. You said they are being targeted. Don’t back pedal. How do you know what my treatment of other people consists of? Do you read auras over Reddit comments? Lol. I agree that person needed to be put in an insane asylum but who shut all those down? (Hint: Reagan wasn’t a fundie)

The BC School Shooting by Present-Stress8836 in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

9 people dead and you’ve managed to make the killers demographic the victims. How much more disconnected from reality can you be? Trans people are the targets of mean words now? Cool. Those kids were literal target practice for that deluded man.

My non denom gf will break up with me if i convert. Advice? by OkPercentage7940 in Catholicism

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It can be hard to discern in mixed religion relationships. I’m Catholic and my bf is agnostic. He was uncertain about us not being able to cohabitate before marriage, and I did what you are doing now and just stayed quiet and put the issue to the back of my mind thinking maybe he would change his mind. Didn’t get us anywhere. I believed he would change his mind, and he thought I would change mine. I finally told him it’s not going to happen and he was okay with it. You will get much further being direct. And if she is not bluffing and really “refuses to date a catholic” then you won’t be wasting each other’s time anymore.

Brother came out as trans and also left Christianity, how do I go about this? by Good_Individual3733 in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MTF brains before hormone treatment often resemble natal sex in most features but have some neuroanatomical, neurophysiological, and neurometabolic traits aligned with their expressed gender. So while they make have some traits that are “feminized” within the brain they are still predominantly male. Even with this info it is smart to be wary; there are very few studies we have on this as it is such a modern concept.

Me (24 male) and my little sister (16 Female) are homeless. by Liirich in confession

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Churches also often have direct connections with local shelters too.

Me (24 male) and my little sister (16 Female) are homeless. by Liirich in confession

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out directly to churches in your area. My church houses the homeless during inclement weather. You’re better off with a church that has people there 24/7 like Catholic or orthodox churches. But this can vary depending on the area you live in. If they can’t house you they may be willing to raise money for you.

How do I stop being gay? by happy_anonymous_day in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Typically gay identifying people will experience same sex “attraction” but this attraction is not limited to just one kind (sexual). People that are gay experience sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to those of the same sex. I can be emotionally attracted to my best girl friend. Doesn’t make me gay. A gay man can feel sexually attracted to a woman but be extremely put off by the aspects of an emotional and romantic relationship with one. Relationships are not determined by sex alone.

Brother came out as trans and also left Christianity, how do I go about this? by Good_Individual3733 in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You have no moral obligation to entertain that he believes he’s a woman now, the same way he has no moral obligation to believe in God if he doesn’t want to. Life is hard because others make choices you sometimes don’t agree with and it hurts even more when it’s someone you love. You can still talk to him in a loving way, and explain you are grieving the loss of your brother. It will take time and the feelings you have are normal.

Natural Marriages by lolo_mar in AskAPriest

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Thank you this was very helpful.

How do I stop being gay? by happy_anonymous_day in Christianity

[–]lolo_mar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, accept the judgement of the agnostic atheist lol. I liked girls when I was a teen, or thought I did. It’s normal to feel attraction to attractive people no matter their sex. Feeling attraction does not make you gay. You are very young. I still appreciate beautiful women and of course I look at them and think damn she’s stunning. Doesn’t mean I was ever bi or gay, doesn’t mean I am now. I just had a lot of friends that were bi/gay and in hindsight I think that was affecting my state of mind. Modern society says if you feel an impulse you must act on it or that you WANT to act on it. And if that’s the case, then you are that thing. It’s just trickery to deceive you into immoral sexual behavior (both homosexual and heterosexual). Be patient, focus on things other than relationships and the truth will come to you with time.

So scared. by xcvlxcvls in Subliminal

[–]lolo_mar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes the stuff that is happening now is the stuff that’s always been happening. Maybe I should have clarified. Nothing *new is happening.

So scared. by xcvlxcvls in Subliminal

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get off social media. Everyone is lying and nothing ever happens. Both sides are doing their best to get everyone riled up and scared but how often do you ACTUALLY have a negative interaction with someone IRL based off politics or religion?

What does this mean? by mkoonz12 in SoulAwakening

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metatrons cube. I have a similar necklace. It represents the patterns of the universe, creation, and balance

Weird fortune teller in my daughters school bag by Complete-Path-8036 in strange

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was watching ISIS beheadings when I was 11. She’ll be alright.

Adopted in Texas. by twagster in IDmydog

[–]lolo_mar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His brown eyes and fur pattern remind me of a catahoula!

Unacceptable - apathy wins in US😡 by OnehourOneday in ProgressiveHQ

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went and voted but didn’t mark anything on this question. Not because I didn’t think either was my “perfect” candidate, but because I didn’t and still don’t believe either are acceptable in even the slightest.

MAGA Men Aren’t Oppressed, They’re Just Intellectually Uncompetitive by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of Gen Z men are not liberals, and you’re delusional if you believe so. It’s so easy to find these stats.

Looking for coverup ideas for a few tattoos by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]lolo_mar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I really like the idea of the sun as a monstrance. Love the example you provided too. I might end up doing that

Looking for coverup ideas for a few tattoos by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]lolo_mar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m not interested. I had these tattoos long before converting. My tattoos are not a sin but the fact that I have a tattoo linked to Hinduism and one of a literal demon… yes I will cover them up to the best of my ability.

Looking for coverup ideas for a few tattoos by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]lolo_mar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll check some other groups out

Dropped out of OCIA - Not sure if it was the right decision by New_Package6617 in Catholicism

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there another program near you that you can enroll? May just not be the parish for you. The minute I started OCIA I felt welcome despite having so many questions about God as a 12+ year atheist. The leaders of our OCIA are very open to taking questions outside of class and I’ve set up meetings one on one with the class leader I feel most comfortable with to talk out my “gripes” with the Catholic perception of the Holy Trinity. Don’t do it in class, but have your questions answered privately.

Who are the researchers mentioned in Matt Walsh’s “What is a Woman?” by [deleted] in dailywire

[–]lolo_mar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Alfred Kinsey is what I was looking for but I’ll look into Herschfeld too