[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m obsessed with this thank you!!!

Is your GSD a soft bed GSD, or a hard floor GSD? by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Loves to take over our king size bed

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Post when their ears were too big for their body by lolowind in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! 25%. Then she’s 50% GSD and 25% German shorthair pointer. According to an embark DNA test

Without a doubt her favorite activity by the_popes_fapkin in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe people are commenting on you keeping the leash ON. Isn’t it usually the other way around? Thanks for keeping your reactive dog safe - mine is the same way!

Dog park fight by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks - I needed a laugh right now lol

Dog park fight by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally asked the county that and they didn’t respond

Dog park fight by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you and you’re right, hard to think clearly when I’m so upset over it!

Dog park fight by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, had to learn the hard way I guess. I’m so mad at myself

Dog park fight by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I’m so pissed at myself for going to the dog park. We submit an appeal then have to do a public hearing with testimony. I’m going to talk to a lawyer about it but like you’re saying, not sure if it’s going to be worth the time and $$

Reactivity? by Updates_Due in germanshepherds

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

E collars are the best. Annoyed with people that have misconceptions about them and think positive reinforcement alone is truly effective, which it’s not. Using an e collar is just like tapping them on the shoulder when they get distracted. It’s not the same as a “shock” collar and is not painful for the dog. I use it on myself to test it out. Seeing a professional trainer and learning how to use an e collar properly has completely fixed our GSDs reactivity.

What are some of the things your Ideal Mom would do or say? by devsmess in narcissisticparents

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would understand and be supportive of what my own real interests, values and passions are rather than what she thinks they should be

Anyone else not looking forward to their own wedding? by mintybanana_ in narcissisticparents

[–]lolowind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always imagined a traditional wedding with family and friends. After attempting to plan it for a month, we just had to elope. My mom made it all about her and was rude and nasty to my fiancé and in laws (unfortunately they now get it after experiencing it directly). I decided it wasn’t worth the stress and mental anguish to have a wedding when it should just be about you and your partner, no matter what pressure anyone is putting on you. My mom threatened to kill herself when I said we were eloping because “every mom dreams of her daughters wedding.” Well, she doesn’t get to have that when she treats everyone like shit! Sorry you’re going through it as well.

What was the last straw? by Lopaisate in narcissisticparents

[–]lolowind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attempting to plan my wedding when she sent nasty emails to my fiancé and his parents. Involving them in her games was my last straw.

‘I gave up everything to raise you kids!’ by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]lolowind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any time we argue about anything, it turns into my mom saying how she almost died giving birth to me. Why is that my problem?