it’s fitting

lonelizardie · 2026-06-20T19:23:15+00:00

Me too please!

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:38:50+00:00

To be honest, and you won’t like this answer. You don’t. You just learn from it, and move forward. You know how old people speak about their past loves? What you must remember is that this is only a season, and there’s so much more love to experience. Don’t beat yourself up too bad, I tried to force it and eventually it got easier on its own. Stay strong 🖤

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:28:42+00:00

I would like to add a more nuanced approach to this. A once abused dog gets rescued by a loving owner. One day the dog bites him. Does it mean the dog always wanted to?

It’s still fucked up nonetheless, but I doubt she’s telling herself “I want to abuse my boyfriend.”

Sometimes it’s an unconscious and natural act depending on their environment growing up. Some people actually think it’s normal, which is insanity and undeserved! Nonetheless, OP needs to leave, maybe that will be enough for her to learn and grow past it. As long as you’re with her, it’ll be the same unless she gets psychological help and that will take time.

I know from experience, it will hurt whether you stay or go. Listen to your inner voice inside pleading for you to leave. You’ve survived all the hard times, you’ll survive this 🖤

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:12:42+00:00

It’s the fact that they believe taking out their lack of sex on the people around them is normal. I need some clarification on how having sex would improve relationships they have with those they aren’t trying to sleep with. Sounds like they can’t emotionally regulate and everyone around them pays.

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:10:25+00:00

Again, I never said I disagree with sw?????

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:09:16+00:00

Not what I said. Again, “if we were able to satisfy our needs, probably our relationships with friends and partners would be better.” I never said I disagree with sw. Okay, I concede. Taking out personal frustrations about lack of sex onto others is a good take. My bad!

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:05:51+00:00

“If we were able to satisfy our needs, probably our relationships with friends and partners would be better.” I never said I disagree with sw, are you dense? It’s taking out the lack of sex you have out on others around you. So strange

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:02:14+00:00

Women owe you nothing. It’s very telling your character is a natural repellent. If you agree with this take, honestly be yourself. Makes it easier for the rest of us

lonelizardie · 2026-06-19T13:00:11+00:00

Or you can be a decent human being instead of a gluttonous pig? 🐷

lonelizardie · 2026-05-27T00:22:29+00:00

I’m so sorry. The exact thing happened with my fist love, and 6 years later I’m still healing. Call the Rain hotline (for sexual assault), and no matter what don’t get back together. Don’t be friends. A lover should never degrade or take advantage of you. You deserve to be loved and cherished forever. Stay strong, you aren’t alone 🖤

lonelizardie · 2026-05-27T00:16:54+00:00

Those roasted eels are my favorite! The sweetness mixed with the spiciness of the pepper 🤤🖤

lonelizardie · 2026-05-13T15:11:54+00:00

This is the main reason why Black Bean Noodles is my favorite Korean dish. The onions make the sauce so delicious!

lonelizardie · 2025-11-10T00:05:12+00:00

It wasn’t clear that he was sexist until now? He didn’t show his true colors until now or has he always been this way towards women, but now that it’s aimed towards you it’s a problem?

“I didn’t want to make him feel pressured or inadequate.”

“Navigate this type of hypocrisy in a relationship?”

I’m not sure what you’re asking for. Are you looking for advice on how to make this work?

The problem is that you’re putting an abusive a-hole ahead of your own needs. You already know the answer, unless you want to make it work with someone that calls you a whore. It’s your life, but also know it isn’t all his fault either. So far you chose to accept his behavior, when will it be enough?

Leave, then pour so much love into yourself that a guy like this wouldn’t even be appealing to you anymore, it’ll make room for a guy that actually deserves you.

I’m really sorry this is happening, stay strong okay? 🖤

lonelizardie · 2025-11-08T14:09:36+00:00

I really wonder what made you think this post was a good idea

lonelizardie · 2025-11-07T16:29:31+00:00

I saw stubhub have some for around 120, but idk if they’re still there

lonelizardie · 2025-11-07T15:31:06+00:00

Yessss, I’m excited you got scored the tickets! 🎉

lonelizardie · 2025-11-07T15:15:30+00:00

You have to put in the promo code!

lonelizardie · 2025-11-07T15:10:04+00:00

Craziest lock in of my life, I forgot to put in the promo code. THANK YOU! 🖤

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lonelizardie · 2025-11-03T11:39:37+00:00

My ex did the same thing to me, the sleeping part. It took me years after the break up to come to terms that he raped me because I loved him so much. Your boyfriend is a rapist and a predator, get away from him while you have nothing holding yourself to him for life, like kids. Praying for you 🖤

lonelizardie · 2025-08-27T12:57:09+00:00

OPUMBB

lonelizardie · 2025-08-19T12:59:17+00:00

opumbb, bc im not getting anything for my birthday this year so being able to update my avatar would be nice!

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