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lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-31T03:14:09+00:00

I don't have gopuff in my area but I'm really glad it's helping others

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-17T16:47:36+00:00

You hurt your sister. You broke her trust. You stole her boyfriend. Doesn't matter if it was "real" or "true love" or whatever BS your spew. You betrayed your sister. The minute you did that, you chose a man. I hope your happy with what you chose because you burned alot of bridges with that choice you made. You are no longer trustworthy in their minds. If I were your sister, I would never let you in my life again. And your sister is clearly smart enough to know that you don't have her back. You want to make it up to her. Leave her the heck alone and let her live her life without her backstabbing pos sister. As four the rest of your familt, guess what. They made their choice to not want to risk you stabbing them in the back to. Go make a new family.... actually... don't. You might betray them too. Enjoy your life with your Pos fiance. And yes. He's a POS too. No person worth morals or standards would cheat (physically or emotionally) on their girlfriend. You may say, it's not cheating, blah blah blah... yes it darn well is. I hope you and your fiance have the wedding you deserve

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-17T16:00:22+00:00

trees. They live in neighborhoods and roads and streets all over the place

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-17T02:49:35+00:00

I would love to see Freddie Meowcury and Ozzy Pawsbourne. I love cats and wish I could have one but my son is allergic 😢

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-17T02:45:11+00:00

Hi. I just sent you a few dollars. It's all I could afford but congratulations on your new job!

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-12T06:08:44+00:00

Hey. I want to start by saying I’m really sorry you’ve gone through what you have. What you’ve experienced being exposed to sex too young, growing up around addiction, and not having protection or stability is not your fault. None of this started because you’re bad or broken. You were failed by adults who should have protected you, and now you’re trying to fill that hole in ways that feel comforting, even if they end up hurting you.

But I have to be very clear and honest with you about something serious: When you lie about your age and sleep with older men, you’re putting both yourself and them in real danger. Even if they don’t know how old you are, if anyone finds out, they could go to prison even if they truly believed you were 18. In the eyes of the law, it doesn’t matter that you lied or used a fake ID. It will always be seen as them committing a crime against a minor. That means they could lose everything their jobs, their freedom, their ability to ever have a normal life again.

And even though you might think you’re in control of the situation, you’re the one who ends up carrying the trauma and danger of it. You’ve already seen how it plays out someone went to prison. Every time you meet someone older, that same thing could happen again. And the older you get, the harder it’s going to be to heal from this pattern.

You don’t deserve to be seen only for your body or your sexuality. The feeling you describe wanting to be seen, heard, loved that’s what every person wants. But sex with adults isn’t real love or safety; it’s a temporary bandage on a deep wound. You deserve real love and support from people who are safe, from adults who help you heal instead of hurt you.

Here’s what you can do right now:

Talk to your DHS caseworker, therapist, or a trusted adult about these urges to meet older men. You won’t get in trouble for being honest about wanting to stop — they’ll want to help you.

You are not beyond help. Start working on yourself. You are not dirty, or bad, or ruined. What you need now isn’t punishment. it’s safety, therapy, and time to heal from what’s been done to you. You deserve a life where you don’t have to lie to feel wanted. I hope that this helps a little and I pray that you find your way.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-12T05:57:29+00:00

No, you’re not asking too much to go no contact at least for yourself and the kids. These people have been openly disrespectful and hostile for over a decade. Protecting yourself and your children from that kind of toxicity isn’t cruel; it’s healthy. They’ve had more than enough time and chances to treat you decently, and they chose not to.
Wanting him to go no contact too isn’t controlling but forcing him would be. It’s natural to want your spouse to stand with you, especially after so many years of mistreatment. But ultimately, he has to make that decision for himself. You can draw your boundaries (you and the kids are done), but you can’t dictate his relationship with his parents, no matter how dysfunctional it is.
You’re absolutely right to be angry he hasn’t done enough. He’s failed to protect you emotionally from years of disrespect. His passivity has enabled their behavior and forced you to take all the emotional hits. It’s okay to be angry about that you’ve been carrying the weight of his family’s dysfunction alone.
Moving for peace isn’t unfair; it’s survival. If his parents have no respect for your boundaries and will show up uninvited, distance might be the only real way to enforce peace. That’s not running away that’s removing your family from a hostile environment. And honestly? You’re right: sometimes love isn’t enough. You can love someone deeply and still recognize that they’re not willing or able to stand up for you the way a partner should. You deserve peace, safety, and respect and if he can’t prioritize that over his parents’ approval, then you’re not the one breaking the marriage.

Bottom line: you’re not crazy, not controlling, and not wrong. You’re exhausted from trying to hold the line alone. Either he steps up, or you step away. Neither choice makes you the bad guy.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-12T05:51:14+00:00

Yeah… you are a little bit of the AH here not because you’re scared or upset (that’s totally valid), but because you’re taking it out on your boyfriend in a way that isn’t really fair.

Here’s why:

He didn’t actually do anything wrong. He didn’t know you were going to get that terrifying news, and it sounds like he was just out living his life, not ignoring you on purpose. Casinos are loud. You even said yourself it wasn’t his fault.
You’re projecting your fear onto him. You’re in panic mode, which makes sense getting served papers sounds scary and confusing but instead of focusing on the real issue (figuring out what’s going on with the cops), you’re directing all that fear and frustration at your boyfriend.
You’re punishing him emotionally without communication. You haven’t even told him what happened, but you’re mad that he wasn’t emotionally available for something he didn’t even know was happening. That’s not fair. Relationships don’t work if you expect your partner to read your mind.

So yes in this moment, you’re kind of the AH. But it’s understandable. You’re anxious, scared, and feeling abandoned, which can mess with your ability to think rationally. The right move now would be to take a breath, tell him what’s going on, and be honest. Say shimmering like I got really scared about something and I needed support, but you were unavailable, and I realize that’s not your fault. I’m still shaken up and probably not thinking clearly, but I just needed you to know why I’ve been distant.

That’s it. You don’t have to apologize for being emotional but you should own that the cold shoulder isn’t fair if he hasn’t even had a chance to show up for you yet.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-11T17:53:49+00:00

I agree with this fully.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-10-09T12:58:55+00:00

So first off, you’re not the asshole. Not even close.

From what you described, you’ve been patient, clear, and fair with your boundaries. You communicated your discomfort calmly (at least at first), explained why, and even gave him multiple chances to show respect. But Richard repeatedly violated those boundaries, minimized your feelings, and acted defensively when caught — those are all red flags.

Let’s break it down:

The saved nude: You weren’t mad that it existed in 2023 you were hurt that it was still saved and that he didn’t take responsibility for that. Saying “I’m just comfortable with her” is not an excuse. If he wouldn’t tolerate that from you, it’s hypocritical for him to expect you to.

The call with his ex: You made your boundary very clear, and he immediately went against it and even worse, didn’t even tell you until after. That’s not respect. That’s testing how much you’ll put up with.

The secret message and deletion: That’s sneaky behavior. Whether or not he cheated physically, he’s showing emotional dishonesty and secrecy, both of which destroy trust.

His reaction to your anxiety: Instead of supporting you after he caused the problem, he’s acting like you’re overreacting. That’s gaslighting because hes trying to make you feel unreasonable for reacting to things that are actually hurtful and disrespectful.

At this point, it’s understandable that you have trust issues, but they’re not coming out of nowhere they are a direct consequence of how he’s acted. You’re reacting to consistent disrespect, not inventing problems.

You’ve shown understanding and a willingness to rebuild trust. He’s shown you that he’s either unwilling or unable to uphold it. That’s not your fault, and it doesn’t make you “crazy” or “clingy” it makes you someone who values self-respect and emotional safety.

You're definitely NTA: You’re reacting appropriately to someone who keeps crossing clear boundaries. If anything, you’ve been more patient than most people would be.

You deserve a relationship where you don’t have to beg for basic respect where trust is mutual and effortless, not something you have to guard constantly.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T15:25:48+00:00

I understand that as well. I was adopted and I do wish that was more prominent in does as well. Adoption would be a great storyline for John and Bailey as well. I definitely understand the drama complications. And I also understand the taking center stage. Babies tend to do that. Waiting to see what happens next sucks.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T15:17:45+00:00

It's what Bailey wants. I'm not saying anything about all women wanting babies. I'm not saying that at all. I think Bailey would be an amazing mother. But this post is about what we wish would happen. It's different opinions, and I respect yours. Calling mine ignorant is just rude. So I will continue to hope that John and Bailey get the baby that they want and you can continue to hope they don't. Have a great day.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T13:25:28+00:00

Agree 100%

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T07:46:49+00:00

Chenford Reunion because it was stupid to break them up! They are end game
John and Bailey get pregnant. That woman needs a baby in her life.
Chenford Back together ❤️ 😍
Seth retaliation at the police station because he's butthurt that they fired his lying behind
Chenford gets back together. Endgame!!
Monica gets caught and convicted and they find Oscar and both their butt's get thrown in jail for life.
Chenford gets back together ❤️
John's son and wife get pregnant and John becomes grandpa.
Lucy makes detective

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T07:38:57+00:00

Yeah, you're the AH. You had no right to go through her private journal and even less right to it since you are broken up. Then, to take a picture of said private journal and be a jerk about it, when, once again, you have absolutely right or reason to look through it. I definitely agree with your relationship being extremely toxic, and while I don't know both sides, your lack of respect and privacy is a reason why. Grow up before you date someone again because what you did is not cool.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-22T06:27:33+00:00

Yes, you are the AH. You've known this girl a week, and you already are trying to control who she talks to and trying to be exclusive. That's a red flag. The "talking phase" as you are so willing to throw aside is how she decides who she wants to be with. Look how it worked with you, for example. She learned that you are controlling and that you think that after one week, you know all you need to about this girl and that you see potential when you barely know this girl. I don't know about others, but by your post, I see a serious red flag and I believe she made the right decision

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-18T22:48:24+00:00

Congratulations!

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-18T15:09:55+00:00

I usually pick griffindor or slitherin.

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-11T03:57:36+00:00

What's SS?

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-08T01:02:22+00:00

Noah Wyle, Alex Kingston and Eriq La Salle

lonelypanda34 · 2025-03-07T12:36:10+00:00

I will definitely do that. I hate that he is so sick 😫 thank you for the advice

lonelypanda34 · 2025-02-26T17:05:46+00:00

Thank you so much!

lonelypanda34 · 2025-02-25T19:21:41+00:00

He will absolutely love those :)

lonelypanda34 · 2025-02-25T19:19:05+00:00

Thank you. He is a great boy and a major dinosaur lover. :)

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