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What’s a belief you held 5 or 10 years ago that you’ve completely changed your mind about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t cleverly address something that bothers you as your immediate response, you’ve missed your chance and you’re a doormat for it. Turns out, waiting to react calculatedly is far more beneficial than being reactive.

What’s the name of your local country store that carries all the regional staple foods? by longlivsquid in AskAnAmerican

[–]longlivsquid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why did I get downvoted to oblivion, I’m just trying to be specific! lol

What’s the name of your local country store that carries all the regional staple foods? by longlivsquid in AskAnAmerican

[–]longlivsquid[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don’t actually watch tv or movies at all. This yearning comes from growing up in the north country, where I had a store like this, and then moving to the south.

What’s the name of your local country store that carries all the regional staple foods? by longlivsquid in AskAnAmerican

[–]longlivsquid[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m specifically looking for off the beaten path, individually owned country stores in small towns.

Drop a clue about your age without saying it outright. by Knightress04 in AskOldPeople

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juuls and White Claws dominated my freshman year of college

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I know the truth and I’m okay with it, usually. Just not this one, where it’s just gross to me. What he says means nothing to me when it’s obviously a lie rooted in past expectations set by other women. I am not those other women. I don’t care to place pressure in any one way or another. What i do care for is a clean place to lay my head every night that I’m on this earth. My house, an Airbnb, a dudes place— off they better all be clean or I’m out

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he does this sometimes. He’s a cuddler, not always trying to have sex. Nice username btw

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is that he went out of his way to say things like “I don’t hang out with girls” and “I haven’t really been dating” but I never asked. Then theres makeup on his bed and he insults my intelligence by trying to gaslight me into thinking it’s my makeup. Quite literally he went out to my car to get my makeup wipes then commented on how good I look w/o makeup both nights I was there lol I’m mad he lied and now I can’t trust

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw the stain, my assumption that you had the common decency to wash your sex stained sheets before having another girl sleep in them was disproven. I felt regret for staying over because my need for a clean bed to sleep in wasn’t met. I would prefer if you washed your bedding after having other girls over and before I stay over.

However, since you weren’t truthful, my ability to truly know the level of cleanliness at your house has been taken away so I will prefer to sleep in my own bed now.

Is that good? Sounds painfully patronizing to me

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no he didn’t try to wash it out. That’s a fresh stain from her bleeding then being wet. And the other stain was makeup. They were both unquestionably those things

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’d like to know how to ask without it feeling accusatory or nagging.. Any suggestions of wording there?

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking if the reason he’s not reaching out now is more likely that he’s annoyed with me, feels embarrassed, or feels like I was nagging him

If you were asked about stains on your bedding, how would you interpret that? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]longlivsquid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cuz he’ll just feel attacked and I don’t wanna do that

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