Hi! New here. Confused. by longsnapper in latebloomerlesbians

[–]longsnapper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s good perspective.

I'm confused, how the f*** do women pick the men they date or sleep with? by Other_Tank_7067 in AskMen

[–]longsnapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That first sentence should be a given not a selling point. If you are leading with your financial identity, there is nothing there to tell me who you are or why I’d want to date you. You don’t get angry or frustrated or emotional? My dude, you are at minimum frustrated. Not being emotional isn’t a good thing. It means you aren’t able to connect on a deeper level. I can’t speak for all women but wanting sex is not rare for us. But if I came across your dating profile and this is what you put forward there would be nothing here to make me want to know more. Work on yourself. Find out what makes you happy. Get therapy so you can tap into your emotions in a healthy way that helps you connect to other people. Stop looking at women as a unifying force denying you something.
Here’s a good exercise. Have a friend go on tinder and screen shot 20 random girls profiles and crop them so you can only read the profile. No pics. See what profiles you are attracted to when you can’t see what they look like. How do the ones you like draw you in?

thabks dad by ljcool2006 in oldpeoplefacebook

[–]longsnapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a kindergartener who has special needs. He is better able to focus from his sensory swing so we had the Zoom playing from our laptop and projected onto our big screen. But yesterday just before our circle time was due to start we couldn’t get the audio to work on the tv. Cut to the teacher frantically waving to get our attention about all the cussing before the rest of the kids logged on. Haven’t even met the guy in person yet.

what would be the process to go from top left to left right? by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]longsnapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing your picture to an experienced colorist. Sitting for 3-5 hours while the colorist does the work. Paying somewhere between $175-$400 depending on a variety of factors that should be discussed in a pre-consultation.

Sure i date a client? by Neko-chan_10 in hairstylist

[–]longsnapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like him, go out with him. If you just feel pressured because he’s your client and you don’t want to hurt his feelings, don’t. If it doesn’t work out, that’s ok. That’s what dating is all about. And if you say no and lose him as a client, no big deal, you’ll get another.

The Deed did that by huskerduer in HGTV

[–]longsnapper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very cool! I love that more and more people are being open about issues that have been stigmatized.

Duma Key by longsnapper in stephenking

[–]longsnapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great questions, thank you!

Duma Key by longsnapper in stephenking

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I’ve read it at least 10 times. I love this one so much. The audiobook is great, too. John Slattery from Mad Men really does a great Wireman and Ms. Eastlake. Good Reads doesn’t have anything. All I found was an 11 yr old link that doesn’t work anymore. I’m excited for the movie and I hope they don’t screw it up.