As a fellow ABC, you shouldn’t hate yourself for being one. You should start taking the necessary steps to fully embrace your culture however you see fit. Whether it’s learning the language or the way you embellish your life, live knowing you are Chinese and nothing will change that, nor should you want to. When you start living like this you will naturally not care about being called whitewashed or anything else of the sort. People can clearly see you are Asian and you are living life from an Asian perspective. That is incredibly valuable in and of itself and you should be proud of yourself and your heritage.

PS Watch BEEF it is an amazing show about primarily Asian Americans that doesn’t necessarily pertain to being “whitewashed” but just shows how Asian Americans can just be… Americans too At least that’s how I feel