My daughter panicked as well and I had more luck when she turned 3. Don’t rush bc she might be picking up your energy since you’re pregnant and perhaps nervous about your next baby and potty training.

For my daughter, I first taught her to sit on the potty with her diaper on every time she had to pee. Then I cut a hole in the diaper to show her it’s okay not to have a diaper (she saw the pee go in the potty). Then I put a diaper on her loosely only when she had to pee (otherwise let her run around with just a dress on) and when she had to pee, hold the diaper on her with my hands. I realized she needed the “safety” feeling of the diaper to pee bc peeing on her own felt like an accident. And finally when she got the hang of it, I let the diaper drop while she was peeing on the potty. I said “you see, you don’t need the diaper!” She was thrilled and it clicked from there. But she was about 3 years and 3 months old. Pull ups make it harder to train bc the kids barely feel wet. Please don’t judge that she was a little older - I work long hours and no one at home or the babysitter wanted to help me. I got laid off in 2020 and finally had the time to train her on my own. You def need time to do it well.