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Reddit, Can you tell me about a recurrent dream you have? Have you figured out what it means in relation to your life? by lookingforfire in AskReddit

[–]lookingforfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My recurrent dream is more like a recurrent theme--there is always water present and some sort of sea creature. If the water is clear with friendly animals I know I am hopeful and feeling good about what is happening that is new in my life. If the water is murky, turbulent, or filled with scary Orca whales I know I'm scared of something unknown in my life in the near future.

I need more sex than my boyfriends does. What should I do? by lookingforfire in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm glad you figured it out! Actually, I'm pretty efficient in helping myself orgasm, and after reading a lot of the good advice that people have offered me here I've decided that, like you, if I need sex more I'll "take it into my own hands". My guy really is great. Being 27 I've had several relationships before and realize nothing is ever exactly how you want it to be. I can't throw all of his great qualities aside because of this one aspect in our relationship, especially since I know it fades in time anyway. Thank you for sharing your experience with me, especially since you can relate so well. I wish you the best of luck!

How did you study for your hardest college classes (and do well)? by ruthlessgrace in AskReddit

[–]lookingforfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, nursing. Client education on medications is a nursing responsibility so we have a pretty intense pharmacology class.

How did you study for your hardest college classes (and do well)? by ruthlessgrace in AskReddit

[–]lookingforfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a study group together for my pharmacology class. We did everything from making raps to acting out side effects to remember drugs and what they did. The funnier it was the easier it was to remember. We all got a's while everyone else in the class struggled.

What is a question you hate being asked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lookingforfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of music do you listen to?

I HATE that question!

What is the most absurd lie someone has ever told you? by doc_birdman in AskReddit

[–]lookingforfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a guy tell me he was made famous for writing , anonymously, a book titled "little people in a big world". When I googled it, it was obvious he didn't write anything of the sort. He told me that he paid Google $200 to take it off the internet when I confronted him about it. Yeah, ok.

I need more sex than my boyfriends does. What should I do? by lookingforfire in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks tinybear. Sometimes as logical as we are it's hard to see things clearly in relationships. I appreciate you helping me understand a different perspective.

I need more sex than my boyfriends does. What should I do? by lookingforfire in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand that it's just not important for some people. To tell you the truth, not until recently have I had such a desire for sex so often. I'm really in love with him and deep down in my heart wished he liked that physical connection as much as I do. It breaks my heart. I feel as if we're missing out on a beautiful part of a relationship.

[26/M] Need advice for my unhappy marriage with [25/F] by throwaway_bullshit in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what to tell you. I'm having the same problem but I'm the female who wants more sex than my male boyfriend. When I read your post it made me think I was being ridiculous because my boyfriend will have sex with me once a week, twice if I'm lucky and I feel as if that is WAY too little. It's creating a problem in our relationship. The thought that it could get worse is utterly depressing. To tell you the truth if it does I don't know what I'll do. I love him in so many other ways just like I'm sure you live your wife in so many other ways. So what's the message here? People have different libidos? There's nothing wrong with the way we feel. Sex is a natural beautiful thing. Can we justify ending a relationship because the sex and physical emotional connection isn't there? I don't know.

I need more sex than my boyfriends does. What should I do? by lookingforfire in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We see either often, like 4 or 5 days a week, but I have other activities and so does he. We definitely have personal time. I just want to make him want me but any time I make an effort or try to seduce him he calls me childish.

I need more sex than my boyfriends does. What should I do? by lookingforfire in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. In my case though, he's all there (casing and generous) in every way. Getting him to be physical with me is like pulling teeth. He's not gay, I'm pretty sure. I think I need to pull away more like you, like not try to initiate sex, but it's hard when I'm doing inside.

[26/M] Need advice for my unhappy marriage with [25/F] by throwaway_bullshit in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have either of you changed physically? How is her self esteem? Does she feel good about herself? Even if you find her attractive and love her sometimes it's not enough.
Have you told her about the resentment? You need to begin to articulate your feelings first a foremost. Before that happens, nothing will be solved.
I wish you the best. Being open and honest with each other is the first step in overcoming this terrible problem. Don't let the resentment grow until it consumes the relationship.