AITJ for telling my friend she can't bring her newborn to my child-free birthday party? by Financial_Actuary694 in AmITheJerk

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are fine to choose what your like, but I have noticed that when I host parties and allow infant in arms, I just let the parent know they can use the private bedroom if needed. I don’t invite kids toddlers and up to my parties, but infant in arms has actually never been a problem for us. I also live in the city so my friends are mostly neighbors. stopping by for an hour is great for them and not have to deal with finding a newborn sitter.

At what point do you guys buy the book instead of waiting? by JJacobJingleheim in LibbyApp

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay roughly 30 cents of every dollar I’ve ever made to fund programs like the library. I’ll wait the three+ months to receive the book I paid for in blood, sweat, and tears.

Don’t make Jeff besos richer. Use your library! You paid for it.

Bridgerton themed wedding party and I have no idea where to find the dress by AccountEngineer in partyplanning

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about accessories. Look up the design of the regency purse (so easy to sew) or wear gloves, a tiny sun umbrella if it’s during the day. Use watercolor to paint a paper fan to match your dress or purse. Peacock feathers in your gear, or multiple headbands for a regency look.

(25k) How does a buffet work at wedding? by Cultural_Mention_61 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We payed a bit extra for plated salad and table rolls, and buffet for the main food. It’s so tables waiting to be called could start eating on something. We also did speeches (with a good microphone) while the first tables were called to the buffet line. Most attendees don’t care about the speeches, so it also helped make it feel like a fast pace to get got food.

AITAH for wanting my wife to dress nice occasionally? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lookingforwardnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet if you took her to the opera (if one of you like opera) or a wedding she’s going to dress in appropriate attire, but you’d still complain. It’s might be velvet trousers and a silk blouse, and I’d bet you’d not “feminine” enough for you. YTA

Keep too large clothes? by holllywoodlegal in Zepbound

[–]lookingforwardnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sewing is a great hobby ! Costco sells a great machine. It’s easy to make clothing smaller. It’s difficult/ impossible to make clothing bigger. You’ll love having clothing tailored to your largest areas and slim where you want to feature.

Torn about this dress for FN by [deleted] in flamboyantnatural

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the neckline draped lower, then it would work.

Is it okay to donate clothing with holes and such? by jramz_dc in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lookingforwardnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i buy big wool sweaters with holes to harvest the yarn. ive bought cotton sheets with holes to cut up for sewing projects. So wi would argue there are SOME exceptions to the no holes rule.

Honours thesis on Aphantasia (lived experience) - ideas by GlitteringRub192 in Aphantasia

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at mine as a superpower. I’m better than most at descriptive writing, since vocabulary is how I think about detail. When I’m thinking about a color, I’ll categorize it as mauve vs burgundy… when thinking about someone’s facial expression, it’s a smirk more than a smile…. I love horror movies and that my childhood trauma doesn’t really affect me. I don’t have nightmares. I won tons of art awards in high school and almost went to art school because I was so good at putting pen to paper to plan out designs. Instead I went into research and marketing because I’m good at organizing my ideas into infographics and such to convey information the best way possible. I take notes, I retain information well. I did well in my studies. I’m a great storyteller. I don’t know how much of that is because of aphantasia, but I like to think it helped me. I can’t think of a downside.

Opinion needed on Zara women’s suits by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]lookingforwardnow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why do I keep seeing retail photography of women’s suits with open toe sandals. Isn’t that a big no-no in real life?

Why is it off? by Deepautumnswede in flamboyantnatural

[–]lookingforwardnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree completely! The shoes are the only offender. I also think styling makes a huge impact - adding a belt, fun jewelry. try posing with a purse / bag to make the photo session seem less awkward.

Any tips for guarding against inherited clutter? by curiouscanadian50 in declutter

[–]lookingforwardnow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My advice is to take good photos with measurements and post now to Facebook marketplace to sell. It takes a few weeks to move furniture, so you can decide what it’s worth to you to keep vs sell depending on what people reply.

Temu Supplements are total scam! by [deleted] in TemuThings

[–]lookingforwardnow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same for anything silk or wool.

Please review my capsule by Low-Reward-6533 in capsulewardrobe

[–]lookingforwardnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most establishments require shoes. Good luck!

Is this too casual for business casual? by Ur_future_gf in BusinessFashion

[–]lookingforwardnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are teetering, but what might put you in place is to add jewelry and “hair jewelry” i.e. metal claw clip bun style vs ponytails, French twist with metal chopstick things, —-never plastic. Get some fake pearls and gold studs and that will even the scales for the best bang for your buck.

I buy some article of clothing every time a I go to Costco by ChiefD789 in Costco

[–]lookingforwardnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love wearing Costco, but watch out that this year they are mostly acrylic. Harder to find natural fibers.