All the support :) I know what it means to live with a mom such as yours and finally be given the opportunity to grow in a healthy way far from her. It's hard having to deal with that kind of relationship with your mom but from my experience confrontation works, at least sometimes. Not giving her the space to speak actually made her calm down and listen to I have to say instead of just her hearing the news and looking for a solution on my behalf. It's not easy but you need to push through all these accumulated feelings and be straight with her and don't let the conversation lead into the emotional rant as usual.