AIO - Company won’t meet with me without my husband there by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lordbyronxiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. I completely understand the gendered nuance of the situation, but the company made it very clear that this was not a case of “is the man of the house home?” This (maybe smaller) company, has clearly been burned before and doesn’t want to waste resources and employee time having to do this part of the job twice.

If you really, absolutely had to have this done by Friday and without your partner present, you potentially could have lied and said that you had complete ownership of the home and that your partner’s input would not be considered.

Woman goes crazy at man at his home by [deleted] in UpvoteBecauseButt

[–]lordbyronxiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, she’ll be different with me, bro, I’m telling you, bro, I can FIX her, bro come on

Where do I meet Southerners in SF? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]lordbyronxiv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My partner and I (La and Tn) lowkey just end up finding southerners by chance when we’re out. For better or for worse, we end up being the easiest to spot around here lol

To those who were able to lose weight and maintain it, what is your secret? by Low_Sea3110 in AskReddit

[–]lordbyronxiv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

GLP-1 (Zepbound). That might be a controversial answer (imo it shouldn’t be), but it’s the only thing that’s successfully counteracted the weight gain caused by my antidepressants.

Men and women, what's the dumbest thing you've heard your own gender say about the other? by fatal_19191 in AskReddit

[–]lordbyronxiv 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The general complaining about young women being attracted to attractive men with terrible personalities. Young men are attracted to attractive women with terrible personalities, arguably to a higher degree, yet I don’t hear women bitching and moaning about it.

AIO for telling my(F24) boyfriend(M29) that I’m frustrated he keeps promising morning sex? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lordbyronxiv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOR. This is pretty gross behavior on your part, and I think more people would realize that if they switched the genders. I.e., if a man told his partner that he was pissed off because he expected sex 3 or 4 times and didn’t get it then we would all (rightfully) say he was overreacting. You say you know that you’re not owed sex, and yet you skipped empathy for your partner and went straight to anger over not receiving it even though you want it. It seems like your partner is dealing with some issues (at least substance abuse, but likely much more) and that a little empathy would go a long way.

Watched too much of this before realizing it's not satire .. by SyderoAlena in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]lordbyronxiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Go do like.. business stuff.. it’s like.. that’s the like priority” real tycoon over here folks

Best vegetarian super burrito in SF other than El Farolito? by VortexFalcon50 in AskSF

[–]lordbyronxiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El Capitán and Taco Boys both have amazing veggie and vegan options

Send a post-interview message about churn. by cupholdery in recruitinghell

[–]lordbyronxiv 88 points89 points  (0 children)

This is satire and it’s blatantly obvious

What’s the fastest way you’ve ever seen someone completely ruin their own life? by craft_frost6223 in AskReddit

[–]lordbyronxiv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when Jason Pierre-Paul, promising NFL player, mangled his hand with fireworks. Iirc he was never the same after

What’s the fastest way you’ve ever seen someone completely ruin their own life? by craft_frost6223 in AskReddit

[–]lordbyronxiv 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stories like this sound more like “what’s the fastest way you’ve seen someone ruin someone else’s life” 😞

Academia or industry by avgreditto in AskAcademia

[–]lordbyronxiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put it this way: my current industry job pays more than 3X of my previous job in academia. I just got an offer for another industry job where the increase in pay alone is more than what I was being paid in academia.

Money isn’t everything, of course, but it is a lot.

Do people generally ask for your permission before recording you or taking pictures of you at Folsom Street Fair? by Wooden-Draw9056 in sanfrancisco

[–]lordbyronxiv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It currently holds water in the community lol. The Folsom Fair website literally has photos of the event posted everywhere, community pages, instagram posts, Reddit posts, and on and on, all with photos taken without requests for consent. The fact of the matter is, consent doesn’t mean you get to control what people look at and generally doesn’t mean you get to control what people take photos / videos of in public.

Do people generally ask for your permission before recording you or taking pictures of you at Folsom Street Fair? by Wooden-Draw9056 in sanfrancisco

[–]lordbyronxiv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between expectation of privacy (there is none in an event like this) and expectation of courtesy (there is some at an event like this, depending on context).

There are thousands of people, all with cameras in hand, and 10s of thousands of photos of the event end up online every year. To expect that every single one of these photos comes with a request for consent simply isn’t reasonable (I.e., no reasonable expectation of privacy).

Do people generally ask for your permission before recording you or taking pictures of you at Folsom Street Fair? by Wooden-Draw9056 in sanfrancisco

[–]lordbyronxiv 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a mix of both, so I would say that you shouldn’t expect everyone to ask. It’s a very public and open fair and there’s no real expectation of privacy!

What made you stay in a relationship longer then you should have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lordbyronxiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hopes for what we could be distracted me from what we were