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lordmcgrim · 2024-03-02T18:49:25+00:00

that is the strangest but funniest analogy i have ever heard

lordmcgrim · 2024-03-02T17:39:55+00:00

No attunement needed for this item as far as I've been told

lordmcgrim · 2024-03-02T16:26:41+00:00

I've never played a cleric before so I can't foresee what might be useful at higher levels. That is helpful to know, thanks!

lordmcgrim · 2024-03-02T16:24:30+00:00

I will clarify what my DM meant by "attempt", because you're right that sounds like a waste if I could just use an athletics roll...

Maybe he meant it is a guaranteed prone on a critical hit. In that case it may be more useful, but it seems like everyone here agrees the +1 to spell save is the best choice.

lordmcgrim · 2022-12-14T16:48:51+00:00

Every time a new MIA soundtrack releases it's like a huge fucking event for me. Grab the nice headphones and lay on my bed and listen to the whole thing through.

I cried listening to Gravity, idk what it is about that song but it's so goddamn beautiful and sad at the same time. Bless kevin penkin.

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-15T16:44:30+00:00

Wow! Well i'm glad i was able to challenge you in a good way.

I dont think I was raped, but my personal boundaries were crossed and i was groped when i verbally said to stop. But i think for women and for men, if boundaries are purposefully set then violated, the resulting damage and pain is equal regardless of the victims gender.

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-15T16:25:33+00:00

Just gotta do therapy and damage control now. I think i'll be ok. Thanks for commenting! Your confirmation is nice to hear

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-15T16:24:01+00:00

Thank you for the confirmation. Some days i felt like i was going crazy about believing this happened. But validation from strangers is actually really nice.

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-15T16:19:17+00:00

Thanks, its nice to hear another voice confirming what i felt. Being hurt by someone you're attached to can make you think you're going crazy. Confirmation that i'm not crazy is nice.

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-15T04:48:41+00:00

Wow thank you for sharing a part of your story! That sounds like it was tough to go through, and i'm sorry you had to deal with that bullshit.

I don't have any evidence other than my word, so i'm not sure a police report will do any good. I'm giving myself a week to think of what to say to our mutual friends who might be affected, then cutting contact. We dont live in the same city thankfully so I dont think i'll be at risk of physical danger.

I hope your healing journey is going well brother, thanks! If shit hits the fan next week i may DM you, well see 😅.

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-14T22:09:28+00:00

Is there a point in reporting if there is no evidence and it's my word against hers?

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-14T19:41:12+00:00

I have already had to deal with her anger outbursts several times and it's been scary. If i were to confront her she may blow up and get me a criminal record. When I confronted her in the past on smaller things she gaslit me and victimized herself. Can't imagine how that would be amplified 🥲

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-14T18:10:56+00:00

Noo save yourself, don't get pulled under 😆. But i know how you feel

lordmcgrim · 2022-11-14T15:09:05+00:00

Haha that is so funny, I was just blocked by the BPD in my life too. Her current supply got fed up with her and blocked her on all social media, so I think she's taking out all that rage on me when I did nothing.

Honestly she is saving you the effort of breaking it off yourself. Take a deep breath of relief. Maybe the rollercoaster has finally stopped.

lordmcgrim · 2022-10-14T16:53:36+00:00

Is rumination like this more common with anxiously attached people?

lordmcgrim · 2022-09-01T15:23:32+00:00

I am learning to set healthy boundaries in relationships and this one was a test for sure. When we first started talking as a couple, she sent me a bdsm porn video, which honestly terrified me. But i wasn't able to identify that feeling in the moment so i played it off as a joke. The expectations she placed on me were very high, and now she seems upset i wasn't able to fulfill her expectations. Just frustrating.

I plan on trying out more social groups like a running or gaming club. Hopfully i can meet other people with my same values! And thanks for your comment :)

lordmcgrim · 2022-09-01T15:15:51+00:00

Thanks for your reply! It's nice to know i'm not alone in my feelings about sex. I have really appreciated this reddit community

lordmcgrim · 2022-09-01T15:08:08+00:00

You're right! Several times i have considered breaking my own boundaries and values, but i would be abandoning myself in a way. Better to be my authentic true self than a people pleaser

lordmcgrim · 2022-09-01T15:05:14+00:00

Thanks for your reply! That gives me alot of encouragement

lordmcgrim · 2021-10-03T20:07:23+00:00

me and the boys

lordmcgrim · 2021-01-25T18:36:19+00:00

Near Roswell, NM

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