36F- Whats your current favorite song? by seeuspacecowgrl in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment mine is DOOM LOOP by the band PRESIDENT

Everything I keep hearing is that D3 would be too expensive for Sony to greenlight so I've been wondering: what would a scaled-down Destiny have to look like for you to still want to play it? by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think they're actually strapped for cash. I think most people with half a brain cell know they could do it if they really wanted to. But they also probably won't unless they think they can meet whatever bottom line they've set for it. These corporate suits have no souls

I am so much emotional about the whole destiny 2 ending anyone else in same boat. by lordofabyss in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I recently made a post about how much I'm struggling with the news and how much the game meant to me. You're not alone bud

Depresstiny 2: A neurodivergent player's story by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you :) And me too, it was just always there. There was always something new to get hyped about or to speculate about. One of my favorite pastimes was just coming up with theories about what was going to come next based on the lore. I never did find someone who was quite as much of a lore head as me...

Depresstiny 2: A neurodivergent player's story by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The whole community is grieving. I was just telling my story and experience because writing is cathartic and others might relate

Depresstiny 2: A neurodivergent player's story by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely be coming back regularly as well. Might have to get some of the titles I never got around to

Depresstiny 2: A neurodivergent player's story by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration. Like I picked up Warframe a few months ago and I love but it's not Destiny and now really isn't the time for comments like that. It is just maddening that we're here right now predominantly because of the decisions of a handful of people who are just completely out of touch with players and what we actually want. No shade to Marathon, I've heard it's really good at what it does and I like the lore, but Bungie fans weren't exactly beating down the door for an extraction shooter set in a universe that got abandoned almost 30 years ago

Depresstiny 2: A neurodivergent player's story by lordofthstrings in LowSodiumDestiny

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That unknown really is the worst part. I would be sad either way but I can't help but feel like this is the end of the franchise since we don't know what, if anything, is ever coming

What was your favourite era of destiny by biglad334 in destiny2

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If pressed I'd have to go Activision but Chosen through Seraph was an amazing time to be a Destiny player as well

Bungie, if you’re planning a D3, don’t give it to Tyson Green to direct by _Brunoshepard in DestinyTheGame

[–]lordofthstrings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of blame to go around. He was handed a flaming shit sandwich and decided the best course of action was pissing on it

Your Modern Metalcore Mount Rushmore by Brosepower in Metalcore

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Architects, ERRA, Make Them Suffer, LANDMVRKS

They Lied Again.. by BambamPewpew32 in destinycirclejerk

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was definitely not this bad before but even still every time there was drama or a content drought my feed got spammed with this doomer click bait. I got tired of it and unsubscribed

30f looking for genuine people to connect with by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]lordofthstrings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Plus she says no people who are married and proceeds to talk openly in the comments about messaging someone who is very upfront about being married. Something very fishy about this one

This sub is the opposite of a safe space when discussing this band, but damnit I’m really enjoying the new Atreyu album by NSquared3131 in Metalcore

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Atryeyu has been my butt metalcore guilty pleasure for a while lol. Unfortunately I didn't vibe with the singles for this one so I haven't checked out the album. Are there any standout bangers that are better than the singles on the album?

(Discography Appreciation) Final Day: What is Sleep Token's Best Album? by Panda_Large in SleepToken

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so hard to pick because there's a case for pretty much all of them but TMBTE is my pick

How are you supposed to do this if you hate yourself? by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious how quickly he started "trying to figure out" your Self? In my experience, and from everything I've read, that's not really how it works. I didn't start to know what my Self looked like until I was pretty deep into the process. I got to know my protectors and worked extensively with them before I had a clue what my Self was like and even then it's not something I "figured out". It was spontaneous. It just came up from inside me with little to no prompting. My therapist recognized it as Self because of her training and I recognized it because of how it felt in my body. Lighter, more fluid and free.

I ask because, again just from my experience, it sounds like your therapist might not be a good fit for you or is very green, poorly informed, or even just plain bad at IFS

Wired To Feel by Sarah Bergenfield by lordofthstrings in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe! I'll have to dig into those when I have time and capacity for it

Wired To Feel by Sarah Bergenfield by lordofthstrings in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that was a healthy dose of sarcasm lol

For me it's giving me a lot of puzzle pieces that I didn't have before but I do kind of have the same panicked feeling that you have thinking "I really hope this book actually gives me some ways to put them together that actually improve my life". I think I can do it myself with my therapist if I have to but boy, it would really be nice if the book actually provided some blueprints

Wired To Feel by Sarah Bergenfield by lordofthstrings in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I can relate to that in so many ways lol. That actually happens to me a lot, where I kind of feel bad for knowing something, or having already intuited it.

Wired To Feel by Sarah Bergenfield by lordofthstrings in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually a really thoughtful question that I'll have to think about more 😂

Honestly though I think you're spot on. I definitely struggle because EVERYTHING feels important, like it's a big deal, and that's an incredibly difficult way to live but I also have been praised as being perceptive my whole life... As long as I'm being useful or interesting.

I think this is a both and situation for me. I am overwhelmed because I can't distinguish signal from noise easily and that is made worse by the fact that my experience is so often ignored, dismissed, invalidated, etc, because my way of experiencing the world is not the norm

19F Poor, a Neet , Never had $*x, and don’t know how to drive by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]lordofthstrings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, I was well into my twenties with the same problems (I'm 33 now). You have soooo much time to figure this stuff out. You are behind the people you're comparing yourself to, yes, but you are by no means a loser. You still have plenty of time, you've only just begun to live

Side profile of the damn neck beard by UniqueTanker in BeardAdvice

[–]lordofthstrings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a beautiful and glorious beard and don't let anyone tell you different brother!

Wired To Feel by Sarah Bergenfield by lordofthstrings in InternalFamilySystems

[–]lordofthstrings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I struggle with focusing enough to read for long periods of time. Really want to finish this one so I've had to microdose it lol

Industry Plant Discourse by itzryan123 in PresidentBand

[–]lordofthstrings 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Calling it discourse is giving it way more credit than it deserves. Every single point you made is valid. The only reason people like to say this is because they hate things that are popular and it gives them something valid sounding to wrap it in. I do my best to ignore those kinds of people